Is going through a woman's social media a requirement when vetting?

[Reality]

I agree that even her follower ratio is crucial. What do you mean by higher than 1.1/1 ratio though, like if she follows more than followers? Or if she has a lot of followers and follows too few people?

Also can you share what happened to your man briefly? I try to learn as much from people’s mistakes as I can

A girl that has like 1200 followers while following 300 people is definitely entertaining a lot of men, or at least marketing herself to a lot of men at the same time. I don't play with that if I'm looking to date a woman seriously.

A girl following more people than follows her makes sense. Usually. She's following friends/people that know her, + creators & influencers. Having the balance out of whack too far in the other direction (like...300 followers, 2500 following) can mean she's impulsive, impressionable, and/or has ADHD though.

My boy's story...he was making 6 figures. Super optimistic guy. Got this girl pregnant. They had some kind of argument, she got pissed off, lied to the police and had cops sent to his job. Cops show up and literally take him out of a meeting with directors. He loses his job. Is in litigation for months before his criminal case gets dismissed because homegirl lied. Couldn't get a job for a minute because the pending criminal case was popping up in the background checks.

Homegirl had her IG public before everything went down. Red flags all around to me (narcisstic sounding posts, kind of brash/aggressive IG stories), but my boy insisted she was growing and changing.

Nope.

 

[Scientific Playa]

before s.m. became what a monster it is today i once took this chick out to a park near my crib, sat her down on the bench and just talked to her. she opened up and told me her life story.

Edit, my pic

 

[Double Burger With Cheese]

Nope, cause I don’t care

 

[BaggerofTea]

Usually the first thing I do

 

[analog]

I'm a dinosaur. If she active on social media then I assume she's already addicted to the attention therefore not for me

I only fukk with other dinosaurs; talkative older broads who hate computers

 

[T-K-G]

This.

It’s the biggest red flag. Also, her female friends as well. Chicks whose friends are mostly sluts are adjacent sluts as well.

I don’t really care about social media posts too tough cos most people just chase clout on there & say anything to be seen.

yep and even if they get in a relationship the slut friends are highkey trying to break that shyt up so they can have their party friend back



my only steadfast rule is if she has snapchat im smashing and moving on that app is literally designed for people to cheat, it's not even relevant outside of sending nudes and setting up sneaky links, don't let anyone fool you into thinking otherwise

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Lots of motivational quotes, self worth, Justin LaBoy type stories means she’s been ran through, and is determined not to get played again.

Constant selfies, especially obviously filtered ones;

Twerking

Middle fingers in pics

Revealing clothes

Pics turned around showing her ass

Marilyn Monroe quotes

 

[FluffyEyes]

Any girl worth anything knows to keep their IG clean lmao. What bum hoes yall messing with? They dont got jobs?

You would be surprised. I've had friends vet dates and the ppl turn out to be married. Their spouse right in the Facebook pic. It's not just about whether someone is sexually provocative online or deceitful either. You can deduce a lot from the type of things ppl choose to post. Twitter, in particular, is a very good way to weed out dumb ppl and c00ns. Men should DEFINITELY vet women this way because best believe women are definitely doing it to you.

 

[Piff Perkins]

She's going through yours, why wouldn't you go through hers. Not everything on social media is indicative of a person, but it's a good way to generally get a glimpse of how someone thinks. Glimpse at their sense of humor, their hobbies, their taste in films and television.

I also will acknowledge there are plenty of normal ass people who have crazy social media profiles, so it's not the complete picture.

 

[The Villain]

Yes.

People these days dont even have enough sense to have discretion. I mean shyt take IG stories/highlights. Stories meant to disappear in 24 hours so you can get away w/ posting some impulse shyt but they love to abuse that Highlights feature and pin up their fukkery for everyone to see
The highlights feature will give me enough reason to put someone in the fun bucket instead of the serious bucket.

That alone shows me what a woman's judgment/decision making is like.

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Yes.

People these days dont even have enough sense to have discretion. I mean shyt take IG stories/highlights. Stories meant to disappear in 24 hours so you can get away w/ posting some impulse shyt but they love to abuse that Highlights feature and pin up their fukkery for everyone to see
The highlights feature will give me enough reason to put someone in the fun bucket instead of the serious bucket.

That alone shows me what a woman's judgment/decision making is like.

Haha at fun bucket. That's what I mainly do with the degenerate chicks unless (despite what TLR says hoes have their purpose). It also gives me insight on how serious I should take them.

 

[The ADD]

Not unless you are trying be serious with her.

 

[Soldier]

If she follows sluts, instagram models, tattoo artists, actors, boxers, MMA//UFC fighters, thots, twerking/prostitute/sex accounts, professional athletes, rappers, singers, DJs, male models, influencers, creators and other kind of entertainers.


Ideally, she should exclusively follow people she knows in real life. Family, husband/boyfriend(if she got a man) close friends, work colleagues, acquaintances.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Your job will go through your social media to get an idea about you, so if you're going to take someone seriously, why wouldn't you?

What you really need to be looking at is her friends list. If it's 95 percent dudes, then that's a no go

Y'all sound like rookies out here and I'll tell you why. A woman who knows what she's doin don't even follow the dudes she's talking to/fukkin with.

Tell 'em @Gloxina

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

So yes, social media MIGHT tell you something about a woman but there's a good chance it won't tell you shyt either