Is going through a woman's social media a requirement when vetting?

[Problematic Pat]

Seems like a good way to vet women for all us single brehs. I wonder how many scrub all their pictures and videod?

You get a hold of her twitter account you gonna know her deepest darkest secrets.

 

[Reality]

Story time?

1st post on the 2nd page (post #16). Hated to see it happen, and I've always been more cynical than my boy, but that shyt was like

I actually think this about girls who follow too many people and not too few. Like whenever I see a girl following 1,000-2,000 people I assume she’s entertaining many people. But a smaller following count makes me thinks she’s more selective

What about following 300 people vs 1200 followers makes you think she’s entertaining a lot of men? I don’t disagree but can you elaborate?

Women will go on dating apps and life in general and just market themselves by dropping their IG handle. They'll put their IG in their profile, keep it public, and get the followers. And then they may screen you based on your IG...they'll say "not on here much, hit me on IG." I never do that because it's not worth it.

At BEST, it shows they look for random male attention and validation. At WORST she's fukking with/has fukked a number of those followers.

 

[Reality]

Smart man!!! A lot of brothas don't want to believe how much trickin black women do on these sugar baby sites.. I honestly believe the whole sugar baby/prostitution culture is why a lot of black women's std rates have gone up.. But if you let black women tell it, there's a secret league of down low black males burning every body lol.

Man, I hate to say it...but like 80% of the matches that ended up having the Sugar Baby accounts were Black women. And I live in a place where we're in the minority.

An ex of mine, I found out one of her friends is essentially a sugar baby. Just turned 30, making 6 figures ($200K+), but "dating" a dude in his late 60s who's flown her out to Dubai, Paris, etc.

And I'd met this girl a few times and thought she was a little materialistic/superficial, but nothing like that. When I added her on IG, it was clear though. Didn't find out about the Sugar Daddy until after adding her, but it all made sense after.

I told my ex that if I were a dude, knowing that that girl was getting trips to Dubai, dating a 60-year old, all that would be a red flag and I'd never take her seriously. Made the point that she's essentially made her choices Simp or Sugar Daddy at this point. And yet again, the trips to Dubai, first class flights, all of this is visible on this girl's IG.

The topic deserves its own thread honestly.

That...and capitalism has black people and black relationships in an absolute headlock. I don't hate black women, but being in my mid-30s in a place that's not Washington DC, and wanting to date younger, I doubt I'll marry a black woman at this point. I'd love to, and wish things worked w/ my ex because of it, but overall values are too different.