is Going to Parties/Events by yourself better?

Which one is better

  • Solo

    Votes: 15 34.1%
  • Going with someone with you

    Votes: 7 15.9%
  • Depends(explain so)

    Votes: 22 50.0%

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Cadillac

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I know some people who will say it is.

Of the times that I went to things I found myself get numbers and feel more at ease especially when I am trying to holla at some chicks. Then I have had someone with me.

Especially for a person like me who doesnt drink or smoke, going to a party/bar/lounges places is more spent trying to get with bytches then drinking and smoking:yeshrug: I dont feel like being tagged with someone drunk and such.

whereas having someone with you is prolly better if you do drink and smoke and that stuff
 

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some of the other people I know who agree have the same sentiments.

Going to places where no one knows you, can be relaxing somewhat. Just enjoy the atmosphere and spit game to whatever girl catches your eye, drink etc have fun basically:ehh:
 
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99% of the time, I go out by myself.

shyt, I used to go to random house parties by myself in the hood, and you know how dangerous that shyt can be.
:pachaha: I feel ya, I still get a little nervous about going to clubs/parties tho solo especially because I dont drink. So its me myself and I with a cup of water. And I dont want to be looking like a out of place corny nikka.

but then I realize there are some like me, and its pretty relaxing not being chained to anyone and I can do whatever I want so they balance each other out:ehh:
 

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:pachaha: I feel ya, I still get a little nervous about going to clubs/parties tho solo especially because I dont drink. So its me myself and I with a cup of water. And I dont want to be looking like a out of place corny nikka.

but then I realize there are some like me, and its pretty relaxing not being chained to anyone and I can do whatever I want so they balance each other out:ehh:
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Yeah, I didnt start drinking til I turned 25. I guess that's why I was always on point when I rolled solo. Now that I'm 40, I stick to the OG bars. These young cats be off them pills n shyt
 

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Yeah, I didnt start drinking til I turned 25. I guess that's why I was always on point when I rolled solo. Now that I'm 40, I stick to the OG bars. These young cats be off them pills n shyt
@bolded lol so you know what I mean and where I am coming from.

drinking is a no from me dawg, dancing is cool but not enough to keep me going .:yeshrug: t
 

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@bolded lol so you know what I mean and where I am coming from.

drinking is a no from me dawg, dancing is cool but not enough to keep me going .:yeshrug:
I definitely understand. I regret ever turnin' that bottle up, and that's with me not having any dui's or car accidents. I would've much rather been that dude that had a "natural high"
 

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If it's a party/event where I'm cool with the host and I know a few people who are going, I'll go by myself.

Otherwise I roll at least 3 deep.

As long as I know someone there I'll have a blast.
 

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If it's a party/event where I'm cool with the host and I know a few people who are going, I'll go by myself.

Otherwise I roll at least 3 deep.

As long as I know someone there I'll have a blast.
you cant have a blast if you dont know someone there?

If you go there solo to have fun, you will have a blast. If you go there with the sole intent of getting lucky, you could strike out and end up feeling depressed afterwards. :ld:
perhaps you'll strike out but idk about feeling depressed
 

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Yes I prefer to go out alone .

When I’m by myself , people tend to gravitate toward me more with ease.

I’ve had men that I use to see out in clubs/bars for years but never approached while I was with my friends but as soon as I started going out alone , they approached.

When you go out by yourself , you stand out more and shine brighter if u ask me
 

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you cant have a blast if you dont know someone there?


perhaps you'll strike out but idk about feeling depressed
Yeah it's possible. But it's just easier when I know I have a "corner" to go back to. My inhibition becomes lower without even having to drink.
 
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