is Going to Parties/Events by yourself better?

Which one is better

  • Solo

    Votes: 15 34.1%
  • Going with someone with you

    Votes: 7 15.9%
  • Depends(explain so)

    Votes: 22 50.0%

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Cadillac

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Yes I prefer to go out alone .

When I’m by myself , people tend to gravitate toward me more with ease.

I’ve had men that I use to see out in clubs/bars for years but never approached while I was with my friends but as soon as I started going out alone , they approached.

When you go out by yourself , you stand out more and shine brighter if u ask me
interesting, for some if not alot of women they will probably see this. Sometimes what can scare a man away is that group(speaking from experience I get little timid approaching women in big groups). by yourself tho, more men will have the courage to approach ya
 

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I mean, it’s cool if you know someone at the event or people. Just going in hopes you gonna strike up conversation is risky
 

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I mean, it’s cool if you know someone at the event or people. Just going in hopes you gonna strike up conversation is risky
I can see what you mean but "risky" yeah there is a chance of getting into shyt, but not going out alone for that reason can lead to you being a paranoid nut.
 

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I can see what you mean but "risky" yeah there is a chance of getting into shyt, but not going out alone for that reason can lead to you being a paranoid nut.
Maybe risky is the wrong word. I meant in a sense that it will be harder to spark conversation. Chances are you’ll be sitting around if you don’t know anyone where you’re going or if you’re not going with anyone you know.
 

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I don’t mind going solo but if I go to an event/party I will only go with someone who is like minded and tryna get into the same thing.
 

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I get into the wildest adventures because I've gone out solo so often and I definitely believe the hit rate is solid, but I can't definitively say it's the best because it helps to run a two-man weave.:hubie:

Chicks are usually with friends (if it's just two, success is likely) and it just helps to have a shooter to draw a defender out on the wing when you want ISO. :youngsabo:

Ball is life. :shaq:
 
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Maybe risky is the wrong word. I meant in a sense that it will be harder to spark conversation. Chances are you’ll be sitting around if you don’t know anyone where you’re going or if you’re not going with anyone you know.
thats true and can happen, usually when I go alone to things its to open mics, events etc stuff that I am performing at. But i do solid

I dont go to parties at clubs alone, but I plan on going tomorrow to one at some bar. Hopefully I have some luck. LoL

but i prolly will, someone told me going to one alone is just to have confidence
 

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I don't drink or smoke, but I dance. I mostly go to salsa/bachata clubs, all partner dance.

If I go solo, i i have to dance to damn near 90% of the songs that play.

If I go with a group, I don't have to dance as much, I can hang with my friends (mix of men and women) or I can dance with a female friend

Also if I go solo but I'm a regular, I know most of the people there so I can hang with them
 

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sheesh, why so much dancing?

I just genuinely enjoy dancing salsa and bachata
:manny:

Other than sex, I don't think I enjoy anything more than dancing

I'm in great shape and I wear an undershirt, so I don't get sweaty or anything.
 
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