is Going to Parties/Events by yourself better?

Which one is better

  • Solo

    Votes: 15 34.1%
  • Going with someone with you

    Votes: 7 15.9%
  • Depends(explain so)

    Votes: 22 50.0%

  • Total voters
    44

Ezekiel 25:17

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I don't drink or smoke, but I dance. I mostly go to salsa/bachata clubs, all partner dance.

If I go solo, i i have to dance to damn near 90% of the songs that play.

If I go with a group, I don't have to dance as much, I can hang with my friends (mix of men and women) or I can dance with a female friend

Also if I go solo but I'm a regular, I know most of the people there so I can hang with them


How hard is learning Salsa/Bachata? Always wanted to hit them Latin clubs, love Latinas
 

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I'm skinny, should I get tone first? Do people actually dance or just grind?

Skinny is fine and don’t overthink it breh. Go out and listen to music you like, spot up against a wall and dance. Hell, two step if you can’t dance. It’s fun to let go and have fun.

I used to go out alone, drink my ass off and act a fool - singing along, pointing at the DJ, yelling. Girls would flock around me. Helps to be #handsomegang tho.
 

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It really just depends on the event and setting. I find the more people, the more noise, the less suited it is for a solo mission e.g. Large concerts/festivals, certain sporting events etc.

The more intimate/personal an event, the better it is for a solo person e.g. art shows, live music events etc.
 

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depends, if the person you go out with is like you or compliments you when it comes to getting girls (isnt shy, is a good wingman, isnt timid etc.) going with one other dude is often better.

otherwise youre better off alone
 

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sheesh, why so much dancing?

Because

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This is bachata, but a style known as sensual bachata. The standard regular bachata is what you will dance most often. You can't just grind on a random bytch, after a while of dancing there's a kind of unspoken communication that you will know when to start this. If you just go around dry humping every hoe then you will get a bad rep lol

For me, I start off dancing standard bachata, and the woman will pull me extra close and start the sensual bachata. The crazy part is, this doesn't always mean she wants to smash or even get your number!

You will get a woodie and she will feel it, again you will be able to tell which ones want this and which ones don't.

I want to take up salsa/bachata classes. Heard it’s a easy way to smash also.

I rarely smash from classes, classes are mostly couples and older people. Classes are for learning the groundwork and improving a bit.

I smash from the clubs. Just dance well and Don talk too much. If you are not a good dancer you will not get any azz so just be patient.

How hard is learning Salsa/Bachata? Always wanted to hit them Latin clubs, love Latinas

Salsa is very difficult and complex. Bachata is much easier. Doesn't mean you should avoid salsa though, it's so rewarding when you're a good salsa dancer. All of the women will want to dance with you and many of them find it attractive if you can dance well and with confidence. There's something I call "Beginner's Hell" with salsa because the learning curve is a mother. Just be patient and it will pay off. Don't go with the intention of smashing, just go to enjoy dancing. Add your own flavor to the dance and make it your own.

I smashed that night btw
 
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Skinny is fine and don’t overthink it breh. Go out and listen to music you like, spot up against a wall and dance. Hell, two step if you can’t dance. It’s fun to let go and have fun.

I used to go out alone, drink my ass off and act a fool - singing along, pointing at the DJ, yelling. Girls would flock around me. Helps to be #handsomegang tho.
What dance moves should I learn? can't two step all night tho lol.
I can get buzzed but I'm not trying to end up as the laughing stock of the night.
I'm not handsome gang lol, I'm fine if I get a 5 or 6. Better than nothing.
 

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Because

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This is bachata, but a style known as sensual bachata. The standard regular bachata is what you will dance most often. You can't just grind on a random bytch, after a while of dancing there's a kind of unspoken communication that you will know when to start this. If you just go around dry humping every hoe then you will get a bad rep lol

For me, I start off dancing standard bachata, and the woman will pull me extra close and start the sensual bachata. The crazy part is, this doesn't always mean she wants to smash or even get your number!

You will get a woodie and she will feel it, again you will be able to tell which ones want this and which ones don't.



I rarely smash from classes, classes are mostly couples and older people. Classes are for learning the groundwork and improving a bit.

I smash from the clubs. Just dance well and have a good mouthpiece. If you are not a good dancer you will not get any azz so just be patient.



Salsa is very difficult and complex. Bachata is much easier. Doesn't mean you should avoid salsa though, it's so rewarding when you're a good salsa dancer. All of the women will want to dance with you and many of them find it attractive if you can dance well and with confidence. There's something I call "Beginner's Hell" with salsa because the learning curve is a mother. Just be patient and it will pay off. Don't go with the intention of smashing, just go to enjoy dancing. Add your own flavor to the dance and make it your own.

I smashed that night btw

Nah I wouldn't go with the intention of smashing, definitely going for fun but obviously want some attention. Plus it's probably good cardio.
 

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Nah I wouldn't go with the intention of smashing, definitely going for fun but obviously want some attention. Plus it's probably good cardio.

It's great cardio. I often dance to replace cardio on my gym days.

If you dance well and you are a good lead, you will get attention. I'd say that dancing well is even more important than looking good!

When a really good song comes on, I've seen good-looking women literally run to grab a short, flabby brehmigo who is a great dancer.
 
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