Is holding a lifelong grude really a bad thing?

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If you're holding a grudge for years, you need to get over that shyt. A grudge is supposed to be something that quickly turns into "I couldn't care less about them." Just let it be that you don't fukk with that person. Wasting mental energy on someone to hold a grudge (which means more than the allotted time of anger) will give you cancer.

Basically this. Also, is expels so much more energy to be negative than to suck it up and move forward amicably.
 

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Noah I just won't associate.

Cut them out of your life, forgive and they will disappear in your thoughts

Cutting someone out of your life basically means you still hold a grudge against that person.

Because if you didn't hold a grudge you would let them be back in your life even if it was a friend who fukked your girl...ect
 

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yup i hold grudges or LIFE. It's NEVER Over:demonic: i think some people don't even know there's a grudge


some are smaller than others, i'm not gonna do anything if i see them, but if isee them broken down car in snow storm am i gonna laugh?? Yes.
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people don't even have to do anything specific or actual, for example, close friend gave me funny feeling 1.5 years ago, haen't talked to him since.:manny:


idc if it's 'petty' or 'childish' i hold grudges for life.
 

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yup i hold grudges or LIFE. It's NEVER Over:demonic: i think some people don't even know there's a grudge


some are smaller than others, i'm not gonna do anything if i see them, but if isee them broken down car in snow storm am i gonna laugh?? Yes.
50-Cent-Laughing-and-Driving-Away.gif


people don't even have to do anything specific or actual, for example, close friend gave me funny feeling 1.5 years ago, haen't talked to him since.:manny:


idc if it's 'petty' or 'childish' i hold grudges for life.

I feel you...
 

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also, i remember dmx interview where he said 'there's certain shyt u can forgive, and certain shyt where i just see what's really good now'

i agree with that.

if someone makes an honest mistake it's cool.

if someone had plotted on you or revealed character even for something 'petty' i can't be around them no more
 

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If I lend someone money and they don't pay me back while I see they have it I'll just disassociate myself.

You can forgive hold no grudges but sharpen up your inner circle

Cutting someone out of your life basically means you still hold a grudge against that person.

Because if you didn't hold a grudge you would let them be back in your life even if it was a friend who fukked your girl...ect
 
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