Is it a good thing if your girl constantly fears losing you no matter how reassuring you are?
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Patrick Kane
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I say yes 
Keep her on her toes. No relationship is guaranteed and too many people get comfortable thinking they are. They require work and maintenance that people don’t want to put in.
Don’t act like you got one foot on the door… but also make it clear at some point in the relationship that you can and will leave if she’s not holding up her end of the bargain in the relationship.
Keep her on her toes. No relationship is guaranteed and too many people get comfortable thinking they are. They require work and maintenance that people don’t want to put in.
Don’t act like you got one foot on the door… but also make it clear at some point in the relationship that you can and will leave if she’s not holding up her end of the bargain in the relationship.
Funny how its agreed upon that a woman who fears losing her man will cheat on them
Its makes no sense logically on its surface yet it's true. Shame
Its makes no sense logically on its surface yet it's true. Shame
Thatrogueassdiaz
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Self sabotage is crazy like that
The logic I've been told is that, they'll cheat, just in case, just so they have a one up, in the event that things go south.
BaldingSoHard
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Women are always afraid of everything, all the time. No exceptions.
Her fearing losing you is just one drop in a bucket of a billion other irrational things.
I wouldn't pay it much mind.
Her fearing losing you is just one drop in a bucket of a billion other irrational things.
I wouldn't pay it much mind.
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That’s as the women say
Love Bombing
This is how you know a woman is full of shyt when you hear phrases
“I couldn’t live without you”
“You are my Superman”
“You are the best out of all my boyfriends”
*thread title*
Those women will eventually sabotage the relationship
Or will immediately move on once a sign of trouble comes along into your relationship
Ie when the butterflies disappear
Bombastic language always ropes you in until you hear it enough
And if a woman is saying the thread title
She has a trauma record longer than the Mississippi River
It’s also language of a woman that has probably did some triflin shyt too and waiting for the universe to course correct that shyt
Love Bombing
This is how you know a woman is full of shyt when you hear phrases
“I couldn’t live without you”
“You are my Superman”
“You are the best out of all my boyfriends”
*thread title*
Those women will eventually sabotage the relationship
Or will immediately move on once a sign of trouble comes along into your relationship
Ie when the butterflies disappear
Bombastic language always ropes you in until you hear it enough
And if a woman is saying the thread title
She has a trauma record longer than the Mississippi River
It’s also language of a woman that has probably did some triflin shyt too and waiting for the universe to course correct that shyt
Welp. She don't believe in therapy and her girlfriends told her its cause she has a big heart. may as well just go to Universal Studios a few times and let it run its course
Oh and to answer the question, no it's not good. The couple will never have a healthy relationship if one party is constantly on level 100 about something that's usually irrational. That's a major red flag. If someone finds it flattering they shouldn't because it's just your turn. The insecure person will be like that with everyone they date, you're not special because it's not about you, it's about them
Scustin Bieburr
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She's cheating on you or wants to and is laundering her guilt by confessing that she fears losing you. Won't be long until she starts accusing you of being too friendly with women or asking where you were or other kinds of questions laced with suspicion. It's like when women say you're too nice or say all sorts of great things about you before bushing you to spare your feelings. They don't want to just say "man you're boring and this thing has run its course" so they sugar coat things.
Move on. It's not worth the headache.
Move on. It's not worth the headache.
Greenhornet
A God Among Kings
I voted yes
guess im in the minority
dont see how the opposite, with her not giving a fukk about losing you is a better option
if you are arguing whats healthy or a persons mental state then you can dance around that convo forever
you can take L in both situations... a healthy person can be insecure and an overly confident person can be the most toxic
guess im in the minority
dont see how the opposite, with her not giving a fukk about losing you is a better option
if you are arguing whats healthy or a persons mental state then you can dance around that convo forever
you can take L in both situations... a healthy person can be insecure and an overly confident person can be the most toxic
Digital Omen
All Star
Even if the box is fire (it usually is when they're batshyt), it's not worth it in the long run
Type of female that will go through all your shyt, all your phone, your emails...investigation skills that would put the FBI and CIA to shame
And yes, she will find what she's looking for. They always do.
Protect your neck OP
Type of female that will go through all your shyt, all your phone, your emails...investigation skills that would put the FBI and CIA to shame
And yes, she will find what she's looking for. They always do.
Protect your neck OP
They mentally cheat from day 1 you already know this
Rhyme n Tekniq
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Insecure chicks are always premptively getting their revenge for some shyt that hasnt or may never happen, because they fear being hurt again more than maintaining a relationship. If they cant keep you around, in their mind at least they got shyt off 1st.
questionable amount of male friends and male "cousins" and always attempting to make you jealous and insecure like them by making sure you see them being 'overly cordial" and investing way too much intimate energy in their interactions with them even though you're suppose to be their man. It's all a way to sieze control.
the good thing is they will easily give up the sex at every opportunity to keep the affirmations coming and to maintain that temporary feeling of having asecure relationship or close bond, but it always washes over the moment you try to leave her presence or focus your attention else where for any reason.
I've gotten so much spontaneous, unprompted head cause a chick didnt want me to go into my shift @ work; she would suck, swallow, burp, keep sucking til it got hard again, and and then ride me like an apex savage literally for 2-3 hours over and over, straight up draining my ass of any motivation to do anything productive or responsible. Then she kept a nikka fed with unlimited Pizzas, Fried chicek etc. I'd lose all sense of time being in a constant dopamine loop of busting nuts and eating good. I'm getting what I want and she's getting what she wants.
after a while you will start to confuse it for being an actual functional relationship. but you've been lured in by her siren call. That bytch is just showering you with everything to keep you reaffirming her worth as a human being and all the fukking, sucking, playstations and free food in the world will not be enough to stick around because being responsible for another person's self worth is draining.
questionable amount of male friends and male "cousins" and always attempting to make you jealous and insecure like them by making sure you see them being 'overly cordial" and investing way too much intimate energy in their interactions with them even though you're suppose to be their man. It's all a way to sieze control.
the good thing is they will easily give up the sex at every opportunity to keep the affirmations coming and to maintain that temporary feeling of having asecure relationship or close bond, but it always washes over the moment you try to leave her presence or focus your attention else where for any reason.
I've gotten so much spontaneous, unprompted head cause a chick didnt want me to go into my shift @ work; she would suck, swallow, burp, keep sucking til it got hard again, and and then ride me like an apex savage literally for 2-3 hours over and over, straight up draining my ass of any motivation to do anything productive or responsible. Then she kept a nikka fed with unlimited Pizzas, Fried chicek etc. I'd lose all sense of time being in a constant dopamine loop of busting nuts and eating good. I'm getting what I want and she's getting what she wants.
after a while you will start to confuse it for being an actual functional relationship. but you've been lured in by her siren call. That bytch is just showering you with everything to keep you reaffirming her worth as a human being and all the fukking, sucking, playstations and free food in the world will not be enough to stick around because being responsible for another person's self worth is draining.
