Is it a good thing if your girl constantly fears losing you no matter how reassuring you are?

[tuckgod]

Yeah she’s probably a closet nympho and is guilty about her double life

 

[karim]

Lol I’ve dated enough women to know that despite her insecurities she’s special and I don’t want to throw things away just like that. I’d rather try everything I can to make things work so I have no regrets

 

[T'Challa Trillmonger]

not a good thing on a long enough timeline - she will project and self sabotage/"leave first" to avoid being hurt

even if she regrets it, the damage will already be done and it will be hard to rebuild from there

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

how reassuring is it if you are constantly asking relationship advice from strangers. women aren't stupid, they can pick up on insecurities like this. it's intuition

 

[JA_Carter]

how reassuring is it if you are constantly asking relationship advice from strangers. women aren't stupid, they can pick up on insecurities like this. it's intuition

I’m not insecure at all. From the jump she could tell I’m not a needy or jealous person which probably played a part in her fearing I’ll leave

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I’m not insecure at all. From the jump she could tell I’m not a needy or jealous person which probably played a part in her fearing I’ll leave

i don't mean it in a negative way, but if you are constantly questioning people's motives and vibes that's a level of insecurity if you ask me. maybe not insecure about yourself, but your relationship. i don't think this id the first thread you've made about this person. i cuold be wrong though, it could be various people you make threads about lol

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

All women cheat it doesn't matter what you do

Just enjoy the ride while it lasts

 

[karim]

i don't mean it in a negative way, but if you are constantly questioning people's motives and vibes that's a level of insecurity if you ask me. maybe not insecure about yourself, but your relationship. i don't think this id the first thread you've made about this person. i cuold be wrong though, it could be various people you make threads about lol

OP likes that she is insecure, because he thinks she's insecure because he's such a great catch. He clearly knows it's unhealthy, but he decided that she's special because her insecurity flatters his ego.

 

[JA_Carter]

OP likes that she is insecure, because he thinks she's insecure because he's such a great catch. He clearly knows it's unhealthy, but he decided that she's special because her insecurity flatters his ego.

Not true, never knew how deep her insecurities were until we became official. Like I said in my previous post I’m not a clingy or jealous guy when it comes to women because (humbly) I’ve never struggled with women so I don’t fear losing them

 

[maxamusa]

You're thinking about going to couples therapy with a girl you haven't even been dating for half a year? Are you out of your fukking mind?

The fact that the honey-moon phase is already over is more than telling.....

6 months waay 2 early unless OP already got caught doing some BS already

 

[Roid Jones]

Meh, she acts the same way with her other dude

 

[Elim Garak]

No that usually means she's cheating.

 

[Bigblackted4]

One of the reasons me and my ex broke up

 

[WaveWhisperer]

One of the reasons me and my ex broke up

She ever come back?

 

[TheHonorableOmarSharif]

fukk no. Huge red flag.