Is it completely normal for a man's opinion of women to gradually lower as he gets older?

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

There are many good women out there. You figure out who you can upgrade, or who you can grow with according where you are in your life early on.

For instance, if she has a pretty face, and is nice, has some kind of career, or steady job, but needs to lose weight, try to get her to eat healthy, and go to the gym.


If she has 5 bundles of hair, but everything else is good, suggest she go natural, and you can get good results.


Say, "I'm looking for a woman to build and maintain with." And if she is still on the bullshyt...bush her. But women are willing to adjust if you have your shyt together, and are open and straght about what you want.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

As you get older you have less tolerance and you know what you want.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Then why are men so bitter then? If Ya'll are so accountable then why do ya'll let one or 2 women get you so in your feelings you can't get over it. Seems like men should have that issue since ya'll are so accountable.

Out of curiosity, how are you classifying if someone is bitter?

For example, I don't think OP is bitter. You can be reflective and not hate women. Who are these bitter guys? It seems a lot of folks that are chiming in actually are in seemingly decent relationships.

I'm not saying there aren't bitter guys in here but I think we gotta separate the good advice from people sharing their experiences from the bad advice from bitter folks.

 

[badboys11]

Women get over things men hold on to for life. Being vindicative is usually directed towards one individual. Men make orher woman pay for something one did. That's the difference.

I had a response for you, but then i came across this post from @Booksnrain

No worries. Women usually come to this conclusion about men much earlier in life. The illusion of men being saviors and kind and honorable usually goes down the drain as soon as she notices that his dikk renders his attempts to be logical or honorable irrelevant.

Women learn early on that men are nothing more than lifetime children with hormones who move from being taken care of by one woman to the next.

Wings get ripped off butterflies and people fall off pedastals everyday B.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Out of curiosity, how are you classifying if someone is bitter?

For example, I don't think OP is bitter. You can be reflective and not hate women. Who are these bitter guys? It seems a lot of folks that are chiming in actually are in seemingly decent relationships.

I'm not saying there aren't bitter guys in here but I think we gotta separate the good advice from people sharing their experiences from the bad advice from bitter folks.

That’s a woman’s go to. This chick is in here proving most of the points the men are making and the irony is completely lost on her. Most women take ZERO ACCOUNTABILITY for anything, no matter how obvious it is to everyone around her, with sense and perspective, that they are in the wrong. They wil argue, deny, justify, etc. until they are blue in the face. They don’t have self or situational awareness. Just hurl insults and dismiss what points the men are making by calling him “bitter”. Typical and predictable bird babble.

 

[Lifejennings]

A bytch farted one time when i was in the lab with her studying late at night


I think she thought i was leaving (cause i didnt have a bag)


I came back in it smelled like turkey and ass


Ever since then my opinion of women been

Did she blame it on the work she was doing in the lab?

It does but I wouldn't expect you to acknowledge or admit it. A lot of bitterness, ignorance and generalizations simply because they chose the wrong type of woman with a pretty face.

The experiences they describe are only the reality for a very small portion of women, but because average and below average women don't exist to men they can't fathom another reality for them.

Wonderful people are in short supply as are highly attractive people. You want both of those qualities at the same time, and that person becomes even more rare. The vast majority of people are trash. We're on this rock for 80 years tops. Do whatever you can to make it as enjoyable as possible until you croak. Anything else is a waste.

 

[Lifejennings]

which is true to a degree

but it's WORST with women..

most dudes choose NOT to be in another dudes presence if HE DONT LIKE HIM

but HOES WILL DESPISE EACH OTHER and straight up say.."Well let me go smile and be phony with these byatches im about to meet up with..."

i HEAR IT ALL THE TIME......especailly from my lady

i was hanging out at my lady's office the other day during lunch and her coworker stops on by to borrow something and introduced herself and all that..

and here is my woman all smiles and shyt.."yeah girl this..".."yeah girl that"..

so the coworker leaves and just minutes later....my lady says "THAT BYATCH NEEDS TO GET A LIFE...FOR REAL...SHE GOT ISSUES"

and i sit there like

im sorry i cant do that..if I DON'T FUKK WIT YA...I DON'T FUKK WIT YA....point blank period...out of sight out of mind

So you think your girlfriend should be openly rude to a coworker? Doing so could cause uneccessary drama in her work life, but being "real" should be prioritized over keeping the peace at a place she spends 25% of her life?

 

[WesCrook]

Dudes in here arguing with an ex stripper/sex worker about healthy relationships

Anyways to answer the OP, the answer is yes. And honestly I'm more cynical about people in general, but women even more so.

It happened a lot earlier for me so I'm out the anger phase. Dudes stay angry cuz they feel lied to all these years.

I'm like this when it comes to initial interaction with people

 

[Lifejennings]

this thread putting the blame on men again saying we're "choosing wrong". As if there is a science or proven method to picking "right " with something as flawed and unpredictable as a human being. Or as if they know some shyt that the rest of us don't.

@Booksnrain @BlackPearl The Empress
But I thought that when women ended up as single mothers or in abusive relationships or any other bad relationship situation it's because they chose wrong. Now, we are to understand that picking the right person to be with is something hard and difficult to do men, but it's not for women? Where is the accountability for men? The disconnect is something truly interesting to see.

Men and women's gripes with each other are exactly the same. You just have to have empathy to see it.

 

[Charlie Hustle]

Women are children in adult bodies. Nothing more, nothing less. I respect traditional women from previous generations who were tough and went through shyt while still holding down their households and being efficient caretakers

These new broads don’t deserve any respect at all. They’re narcissists of the highest order. They demand equality while demanding to be coddled at the same time. They demand respect while refusing to give it. They willingly open their legs for low character men and accelerate the decline of our community and then complain that men are trash when low character men do what low character men do. They want men to live up to our traditional gender specific responsibilities while forgoing their own. They want us to provide, protect, fix things, be chivalrous but they don’t want to cook, clean, support or be submissive. The only young women I respect are those from more conservative traditional backgrounds. The young women in these big liberal cities and those who are influenced by them are human waste. Not only do I not pedestalize them, I won’t even acknowledge them unless they acknowledge me and even if they acknowledge me I’ll keep it short with them and keep it moving. I don’t care about bad they are or not. Most of them have zero value

Hold this rep

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

@Booksnrain @BlackPearl The Empress
But I thought that when women ended up as single mothers or in abusive relationships or any other bad relationship situation it's because they chose wrong. Now, we are to understand that picking the right person to be with is something hard and difficult to do? Where is the accountability? The disconnect is something truly interesting to see.

Men and women's gripes with each other are exactly the same. You just have to have empathy to see it.

It's a running inside joke to say 'choose better'. How do you visit TLR and not know that? Lighten up geez

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

So you think your girlfriend should be openly rude to a coworker? Doing so could cause uneccessary drama in her work life, but being "real" should be prioritized over keeping the peace at a place she spends 25% of her life?

How is minding your business and keeping to yourself causing DRAMA??

I ain't say just be flat out rude...she can speak and be cordial

but aint no need for unnecessary phony conversation and waste your time in their presence when you know it's just an act......

 

[Lamar Givens]

It aint that serious. It's her guilty pleasure. We all watch trash tv to give our brains a break from time to time.

For your sake I hope so...good luck

 

[Lifejennings]

It's a running inside joke to say 'choose better'. How do you visit TLR and not know that? Lighten up geez

In the post I quoted he said that it's difficult or impossible for men to choose better. I was pointing out what you're saying that in TLR that's the running joke used to dismiss women, but now they don't apply it to themselves. I was pointing out the hypocrisy of the men in this thread.

 

[Lifejennings]

How is minding your business and keeping to yourself causing DRAMA??

I ain't say just be flat out rude...she can speak and be cordial

but aint no need for unnecessary phony conversation and waste your time in their presence when you know it's just an act......

The coworker came to your girl, right? What is she supposed to do? Dismiss her? That would cause uneccessary drama instead of a few pleasantries to keep the peace.