Women only react to their surroundings. "Your" girl is gonna act the fool too if you start wilding around her.
Is it completely normal for a man's opinion of women to gradually lower as he gets older?
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Women only react to their surroundings. "Your" girl is gonna act the fool too if you start wilding around her.
It's totally the other way around. And you know it for a fact, bae. Stop trolling these guys.
You obviously don't date men. Ya'll are a bitter group. You're normal everyday language about women is negative: bytches, hoes etc. shyt is so ingrained in ya'll you think it's normal.
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I think it's a normal thing for a person's opinion of people as whole to gradually lower as they get older. As time goes on, you've dealt with enough people to notice a pattern, and that's why we have certain beliefs about certain things. If you've been around fire enough to know that it's hot and that it burns, you know better than to act stupid around fire and put your head inside it. If not, then you get what you asked for, and you can't blame anybody else except for yourself.
That said, I believe there's great women out there. Do I believe society has a big role to play in everything? Yes, and that's why it's important to set boundaries for yourself, I think. You can't let the world and the collective consciousness shape how you think, because you'll end up caring about things that are shallow in nature. I don't like anything about Love and Hip Hop and the entire Reality TV format, due to the negativity and drama that it thrives off of. I'm also not a fan of the obsession with social media that's commonplace right now, because it teaches people to seek validation in imaginary numbers and external validation instead of seeking self-love within themselves. Given those two facts alone, I can tell that I'm probably not going to be a match with someone who's on IG or SnapChat all the time (and it's not for constructive reasons) and finds drama and confrontation thrilling. But that's just me.
I completely understand why there's so much cynicism, though. I don't think it's wrong, but I think it's a matter of perspective as well. Good character as a whole is highly valued for a reason. All I know is, there's plenty of people out there happily married and made it to 90, so I know there's at least SOME hope out there.
That said, I believe there's great women out there. Do I believe society has a big role to play in everything? Yes, and that's why it's important to set boundaries for yourself, I think. You can't let the world and the collective consciousness shape how you think, because you'll end up caring about things that are shallow in nature. I don't like anything about Love and Hip Hop and the entire Reality TV format, due to the negativity and drama that it thrives off of. I'm also not a fan of the obsession with social media that's commonplace right now, because it teaches people to seek validation in imaginary numbers and external validation instead of seeking self-love within themselves. Given those two facts alone, I can tell that I'm probably not going to be a match with someone who's on IG or SnapChat all the time (and it's not for constructive reasons) and finds drama and confrontation thrilling. But that's just me.
I completely understand why there's so much cynicism, though. I don't think it's wrong, but I think it's a matter of perspective as well. Good character as a whole is highly valued for a reason. All I know is, there's plenty of people out there happily married and made it to 90, so I know there's at least SOME hope out there.
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Anyways to answer the OP, the answer is yes. And honestly I'm more cynical about people in general, but women even more so.
It happened a lot earlier for me so I'm out the anger phase. Dudes stay angry cuz they feel lied to all these years.
Anyways to answer the OP, the answer is yes. And honestly I'm more cynical about people in general, but women even more so.
It happened a lot earlier for me so I'm out the anger phase. Dudes stay angry cuz they feel lied to all these years.
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Because its the truth as a woman you don't understand what us men go through dealing with yall dumb shyt
Facts!
Un-AmericanDreamer
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A lot of dudes who are bitter got stories to tell. When it comes to dating. It's so obvious in womens favor. Men are made, women are born spoiled. For the most part, women ain't gotta do shyt, and a lot don't do shyt.
Wisdomkeyz
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Alot of game in this thread
Rafter worthy
Rafter worthy
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My opinion of USELESS women hasn't changed whatsoever.
Useless = can't/won't cook, has no goals, runs her mouth about private affairs, more worried about the opinions of strangers than the man she's involved with or her immediate family's, can't read anything longer than a text message, talks about nothing of importance, incapable of forming her own opinion, etc.
Useless = can't/won't cook, has no goals, runs her mouth about private affairs, more worried about the opinions of strangers than the man she's involved with or her immediate family's, can't read anything longer than a text message, talks about nothing of importance, incapable of forming her own opinion, etc.
Wisdomkeyz
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I also notice how women view they're success by how many women envy her smh
Mr Hate Coffee
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I would encourage you to encourage your partner to stop watching LHH.
Those type of shows are anti black and anti intellectual
You don’t want any of that black foolishness rubbing off on your woman.
It aint that serious. It's her guilty pleasure. We all watch trash tv to give our brains a break from time to time.
Case and point
case and point
Entropy Fan
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Dudes in here arguing with an ex stripper/sex worker about healthy relationships
Anyways to answer the OP, the answer is yes. And honestly I'm more cynical about people in general, but women even more so.
It happened a lot earlier for me so I'm out the anger phase. Dudes stay angry cuz they feel lied to all these years.
This.
People are garbage