Is it completely normal for a man's opinion of women to gradually lower as he gets older?

[Dont@Me]

Well think about it like this.

If you grew up constantly getting rewarded by the opposite sex for doing absolutely nothing, how quickly would that delude you? ESPECIALLY with a complete different set of crazy fluctuating hormones. They start to get higher expectations and internalize a set of ridiculous demands because they either KNOW or delude themselves into knowing that they can get it purely off the strength of being a female. Their own beauty even stifles them not only from character development, but actual personality as well. Being catered to hand and foot financially, socially, and any other way is not healthy at all. It's like you come out the womb being treated as a God not for your wisdom or actions but just for merely existing, so why would you want or expect anything different? That situation doesn't force you to grow at all and is only a recipe for misery because not only will you be constantly dissatisfied, but when you lose that one quality that has a time limit (youth & beauty), you lack the wherewithall and knowhow to do absolutely anything else except pout and complain.

The rules are different for the sexes, and don't expect women to empathize with your plight because they don't need to and most importantly simply aren't WIRED to.

 

[Dont@Me]

Because we have the most to lose when we give our all in a relationship. We're supposed to be the providers and protectors. Women can bounce to different relationships and come out unscathed from a financial standpoint. Women can fall in love like it's nothing cuz they have nothing to lose. But us men have to do the pursuing, the courting, the planning, the everything. Women bring nothing to the table but their bodies and maybe they cook every now and then and somehow that's equivalent to us having to provide and protect.

A man goes through a break up and realizes how much time AND money was wasted whereas women just lost time.

true, but remember; time is their depreciating asset. with the more time they waste, the less attractive they generally get. They need to strike iron while they hot.
Not empathizing with them at all, because like i said, the rules are different for them and I know you know this.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

It depends on how your life experiences with women have been so far in your life.

I don't respect women or feel sympathy for them at all and a big reason for that is because of how hypocritical they. A lot of women do the same stuff that they complain about men doing but the difference is fakkit ass simps and other women will give women excuses for their negative actions while men are expected to take responsibility for their mistakes.

I don't care about only focusing on high quality women and "surrounding yourself with high quality women". I look at the whole picture and the whole picture is a disappointment. I can't have respect for women in general when majority of women don't deserve respect and especially don't deserve sympathy.

 

[Dont@Me]

quick story.

I have this one client who is an older female and she would always express how down to earth she was either subtly or overtly. Things like not caring for money and jewelry, having empathy for people, etc. Then she meets this much older millionaire and he is a very down to earth dude, but spends way too much money on her and lets her do whatever and is practically a doormat for her. All of a sudden, all that down to earth talk turns to vain discussions of diamonds, jewelry, and bullshyt that I constantly have to cut short and redirect the conversation from because I'm not interested in it. bytch even got put on his will since he is old and I immediately noticed an attitude change and I can tell that she only expresses shallow forms of affection towards him and is completely using him. Doesn't even cook for the guy and he is always taking her out to eat instead. bytch doesn't even have to work anymore, and all he want her to do is get his schedule right because he is busy and basically be a stay at home secretary which is infinitely much easier than her current job, and the bytch is SET financially. He spent thousands of dollars on her five bullshyt cats around the house redecorating their environment and she hugs and kisses those nasty things ten times more than him. She still seems absolutely fukking miserable though.

moral of the story: women camoflauge and try to mimic the men or appeal to them in order to win them over just to get what they want, which is ultimately resources most of the time. They will chew you up, use you, and spit you out if you allow it and become a doormat for them. I feel bad, because this same dude made me the best man in his wedding and he is old and just wants "love" (or his idea of it) and is being used, but I've learned my lessons in trying to put friends on game; they will take the p*ssy over your friendship

 

[Lamar Givens]

As a man experiences more and more women and their bullshyt and you start to realize, if you’re wise and paying attention, that women are selfish, delusional, argumentative, take absolutely NO accountability for ANY of their actions, materialistic, opportunistic, etc. I can go on. You start to realize that, unless she has your penis inserted in one of her orifices, that she really is of no worth to have around. I have observed this over time, with MULTIPLE women. It crosses and transcends barriers of race, age and socioeconomic status. Before the bitter bytch brigade comes in projecting and calling me “bitter”, I am NOT. I just pay attention and live in reality. There are good women out there who add value to a mans life, but they’re too few and far between to make a difference in my opinion. They are the exception, NOT the rule. Social media and materialism obsession has ruined women, for the most part, anda mans prospects and hopes of finding TRUE love with a woman...

Honest questions for you and the other 20 brehs that dapped your post.

What category does your mother fall in?

Have you ever encountered a Proverbs 31 woman?

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

You feel like that because you're stuck on stupid, every year that passes. You still don't get it. You only like your girl and call her good cuz she's fukking you at the moment. If she ever left you, you'd hate her too. Learn the game and human nature and you won't feel the way you do. Nothing worse than a bitter old man/woman.

 

[Lamar Givens]

If a man is raised by a quality mother, that is a woman of moral character (lost virginity on wedding night) has strong moral and ethical values, strong convictions, has barriers on what she will allow a man to do to her, will not let a man degrade her in any form (won’t let her husband bust on her face or have anal sex, then the answer is not really.

King Solomon’s mom tried to put him and other breh’s on game, “Don’t give your strength (sex and resources) to women (low quality/trash females).”

Most brehs in their youth don’t want to hear that because they think they will die a horrible death if they can’t get their dikks wet by any means necessary and then they get hurt and introduced to the game and have everyone to blame but themselves.

Brehs who only pursue QUALITY MORAL women don’t have these problems because we avoid low quality women like the plague.

I keep telling y’all in these cry baby threads PROVERBS 31 women only.

If you chose otherwise then you’re an idiot and I have no sympathy for you.

 

[paperbag]

Go read op's old threads before the name change. Then let it roll off your back.

 

[TEH]

I just feel like as each year passes I think less and less of women. I now understand why West coast gangsta rappers like Cube, Dre, Snoop, Easy and them were so misogynistic yet were happily married and shyt. My girl is literally the only chick that I have respect and value for. All these other chicks are just fukking horrendous to me, just nice to look at. Get you a good one, wife her up, and leave these thots to they own demise.

But I know it can't just be me. The quality of women has dropped to an all time low it seems.

Grandpa Fry is that you?

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

There are a lot of generalizations in this thread but it's mostly truth. I see a lot of people countering with things that are exceptions. But like I said, it's mostly truth. My biggest problem with women is their complete lack of accountability. It's largely because society doesn't force them to be accountable. Literally every girl I've dated, I've always been the FIRST dude to hold them accountable for shyt. It's because they're pretty and not used to dealing with a dude like me. I got a good girl now but she grew up as a nerd and had a late glow up. And even with her I have to point out how she makes excuses for her behavior from time to time.

A quick story about accountability to prove my point. I was drawing a comic and my girl had the L&HH Hollywood reunion on in the background. At some point the girl Moniece got into it with one of the brehs on the show. He called her out about always playing the victim. Outta nowhere K. Michelle jumps in and says, "what kind of man talks to a woman like that!!??!?" They then escort the breh off the stage and K. Michelle keeps yelling about "nikkas like him."

Now this all caught my attention and I had my girl fill me in on Moniece's antics. What I could surmise is Moniece in fact is always making excuses for her shytty behavior. So the breh was trying to hold her accountable and immediately got ostracized. Women don't hold other women accountable. Women LOVE playing the victim. It's not their fault tho... society conditions them to be damsels in distress.

But if you're a real nikka who has had to grind to get his and is doing well in life, your tolerance for these women will be very low. Because as we get older the market shifts our way.

There are definitely plenty of good women out there still but it's hard to find one. Similar to how it's hard for a good woman to find a dude who aint a fukk boy.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

A bytch farted one time when i was in the lab with her studying late at night


I think she thought i was leaving (cause i didnt have a bag)


I came back in it smelled like turkey and ass


Ever since then my opinion of women been

 

[ignorethis]

Man it's usually you have an inflated view of women to start off with.

Then you get upset when you realize women aren't the beautiful godly creatures you initially thought they were and they're just as bad if not worst than men in a lot of regards. That leads to a resentment of them for not living up to your expectations.

Then you form acceptance when you realize regardless of how off women are, you're biologically wired to love them, lust after them, and enjoy their presence, so you learn to accept the good with the bad.

How much good it takes to make the bad worth it is up to you though.

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

The issue here is values:

Men value wisdom, resourcefulness, responsibility, follow-through, dependability, trustworthiness, and etc. Men who do not exude these values are quickly ostracized and deemed useless to other men. How many men do you hang out with regularly THAT YOU KNOW for certain you can’t depend on? How many dudes do you hang out with that don’t keep their word or are not trustworthy? Probably very few. This causes men to strive to always be smarter, more resourceful, more dependable, and as time goes on we only get smarter, resourceful, and etc....in other words we get better as we get older. Our looks are onlh a multiplier to the above...

On the flipside, the average American woman values her looks. A good looking woman In high school gets free lunches and gifts for her looks which turns into jobs and promotions as she matures. She quickly realizes that she will be able to survive based on her looks and so she isn’t force to learn the characteristics of a good human being like wisdom, resourcefulness, responsibility, and etc. if she is a snotty bytch a dude is gonna put up with it and wine and dine her cuz he wants to fukk. If you call her to help you cuz you’re stranded she will come up with a bullshyt excuse to not help you and you’ll still keep hanging out with her cuz you wanna fukk. Women are basically shielded from consequence because the movers and shakers of US society “Men”WANNA fukk. The problem is, when women get older and the looks fade they have no conversation, nothing of value to say, no redeeming qualities, and the young chick up the block has a better set of t*ts and a firm ass.

That’s why we think less and less of them because we get smarter and more resourceful while women stay as petty and shallow as they weee in high school...just with slinkiesque titties, a looser vagina, and an ass looking like larry holmes flabby and sick.

 

[Another Man]

There are a lot of generalizations in this thread but it's mostly truth. I see a lot of people countering with things that are exceptions. But like I said, it's mostly truth. My biggest problem with women is their complete lack of accountability. It's largely because society doesn't force them to be accountable. Literally every girl I've dated, I've always been the FIRST dude to hold them accountable for shyt. It's because they're pretty and not used to dealing with a dude like me. I got a good girl now but she grew up as a nerd and had a late glow up. And even with her I have to point out how she makes excuses for her behavior from time to time.

A quick story about accountability to prove my point. I was drawing a comic and my girl had the L&HH Hollywood reunion on in the background. At some point the girl Moniece got into it with one of the brehs on the show. He called her out about always playing the victim. Outta nowhere K. Michelle jumps in and says, "what kind of man talks to a woman like that!!??!?" They then escort the breh off the stage and K. Michelle keeps yelling about "nikkas like him."

Now this all caught my attention and I had my girl fill me in on Moniece's antics. What I could surmise is Moniece in fact is always making excuses for her shytty behavior. So the breh was trying to hold her accountable and immediately got ostracized. Women don't hold other women accountable. Women LOVE playing the victim. It's not their fault tho... society conditions them to be damsels in distress.

But if you're a real nikka who has had to grind to get his and is doing well in life, your tolerance for these women will be very low. Because as we get older the market shifts our way.

There are definitely plenty of good women out there still but it's hard to find one. Similar to how it's hard for a good woman to find a dude who aint a fukk boy.

Nah, women do hold other women accountable, but will take up for said women if its an issue with a man.

 

[mrfortune]

i kinda agree but plenty of dope and beautiful women in the world. as said change your circle