Is it completely normal for a man's opinion of women to gradually lower as he gets older?

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

In all fairness tho what outlets do men have to deal with that baggage without looking "weak" to women?

If the average told his current girl he needed to go therapy over one of his exes the average women would look at him as soft...

First my question would be "why are you in a new relationship if you haven't gotten over the other one?"

Second thing, yes I realize that men keep their emotions balled up which is why I can't understand why ya'll claim to be more logical when you're really just less expensive. And then eventually ya'll explode. There is nothing logical about that.

Third, you just named an outlet: therapy. And I would love to meet a guy who went to therapy and got over his ex instead of bringing his bitter baggage to my door.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

Assessing a woman on her physical attributes is gonna lead to disappointment, brehs.

Giving women the impression that p*ssy is all they need to get ahead has led us here, brehs.

There was a time when hoes were either private or in a dark corner somewhere.

Now they're all in public, a swipe away, and having parades and walks.

They even teach their kids to read Dr. Seuss so then they can read about their mom's oral exploits with the rest of the world.

Yin and Yang. Equal rights give rise to equal wrongs. We all can do better.

 

[Deuterion]

Nah, women do hold other women accountable, but will take up for said women if its an issue with a man.

That”s not true which is why you have the “I get along better with males” phenomenon amongst American women. A lot of them suck so badly as people that they can’t even stand being around themselves and then got the nerve to wonder “why men and women can’t just be friends”. The answer is why? Outside of your vagina there ain’t nothing you can provide that my homies cannot.

 

[Dont@Me]

That”s not true which is why you have the “I get along better with males” phenomenon amongst American women. A lot of them suck so badly as people that they can’t even stand being around themselves and then got the nerve to wonder “why men and women can’t just be friends”. The answer is why? Outside of your vagina there ain’t nothing you can provide that my homies cannot.

 

[HabitualChiller]

Yes. When I was 18, I thought they liked sex less than men and had pussies lined with platinum.

Then I went to school post-Boot Camp. For clarification, Boot Camp is 2 months of no sex or intimacy between either sex, and the schooling (called A-School) is the first taste of freedom after that.

The females were literally getting trains ran on them in hotels, fukking in abandoned buildings on-base, sneaking out of the barracks after curfew--which, if you get caught, entails Captain's Mast--just to creep into the males' rooms, and getting dikked down in public while the Barrack's rovers are patrolling.

Plus, there were quite a few engaged/married women making out with dudes they had just met. 19 year old me was dumbstruck.

 

[Dreadknox77]

As I’ve gotten older, my tolerance for bullshyt especially with women is down to 0.

The majority of these women are narcissistic, selfish and will leave you at the drop of a dime . They can’t cook , they’re not nurturing and really they bring nothing to table .

The women of past generations is the way women are supposed to be . But America has turned the woman into something useless

 

[Another Man]

That”s not true which is why you have the “I get along better with males” phenomenon amongst American women. A lot of them suck so badly as people that they can’t even stand being around themselves and then got the nerve to wonder “why men and women can’t just be friends”. The answer is why? Outside of your vagina there ain’t nothing you can provide that my homies cannot.

Women hate other women, no shyt. Im saying when you have a woman in conflict with a man, other women will usually take her side no matter what because they dont care about the circumstances or context of whats going on, they just see men vs. women.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

People are people

When folks starts as kids, they have an innocent vision of life.

As folks get older, they start to learn that human nature isn't...what it seems. This leads to being misanthropic, cynical and being bitter.

It goes for both genders, we're both flawed but yet we tend to put a mask on to hide who really are as a being. Dark triad traits and all.

Once people realize, everything is a transaction, all the romanticism will die out but until, folks will continue to be disappointed.

 

[intra vires]

No it's not normal. Coli is full of sociopaths though, so it won't matter here.

 

[King Jae]

First my question would be "why are you in a new relationship if you haven't gotten over the other one?"

Second thing, yes I realize that men keep their emotions balled up which is why I can't understand why ya'll claim to be more logical when you're really just less expensive. And then eventually ya'll explode. There is nothing logical about that.

Third, you just named an outlet: therapy. And I would love to meet a guy who went to therapy and got over his ex instead of bringing his bitter baggage to my door.

Your in a new relationship because you thought you dealt the issues from previous ones...a situation arises in the current to bring up said issues you thought you dealt with as an example....

Men are conditioned by society to be that way because of gender descriptions...we spose to have balls of steel and show no signs of weakness for all of our lives.....most women buy into and expect nothing less...if u fall short of the ideal according to them issues start....

Therapy can be expensive and time consuming...also still has the stigma in the black community...we get told to "man up" or suck it up....you like the idea of it but the average woman gonna think you crazy or soft...

I see your reasoning...its just a lil more complex than ppl like to admit

 

[Deuterion]

Women hate other women, no shyt. Im saying when you have a woman in conflict with a man, other women will usually take her side no matter what because they dont care about the circumstances or context of whats going on, they just see men vs. women.

You said that women hold each other accountable and it’s not true. Most American women aren’t even cognizant of the fact that there is an accountability problem in the first place so how can they correct it? This is once again why you hear women stating that they get along with guys better because they even see that a huge majority in their gender is devoid of human decency. But instead of addressing it they run to guys because 1. They don’t understand the root cause of the behavior or 2. They understand the root cause but don’t address it because it’ll force them to acknowledge their privilege. Lastly, a woman defending another woman in front of a man IS NOT accountability. It’s usually multiple women uniting to stop an accountability conversation from happening altogether.

 

[Lamar Givens]

There are a lot of generalizations in this thread but it's mostly truth. I see a lot of people countering with things that are exceptions. But like I said, it's mostly truth. My biggest problem with women is their complete lack of accountability. It's largely because society doesn't force them to be accountable. Literally every girl I've dated, I've always been the FIRST dude to hold them accountable for shyt. It's because they're pretty and not used to dealing with a dude like me. I got a good girl now but she grew up as a nerd and had a late glow up. And even with her I have to point out how she makes excuses for her behavior from time to time.

A quick story about accountability to prove my point. I was drawing a comic and my girl had the L&HH Hollywood reunion on in the background. At some point the girl Moniece got into it with one of the brehs on the show. He called her out about always playing the victim. Outta nowhere K. Michelle jumps in and says, "what kind of man talks to a woman like that!!??!?" They then escort the breh off the stage and K. Michelle keeps yelling about "nikkas like him."

Now this all caught my attention and I had my girl fill me in on Moniece's antics. What I could surmise is Moniece in fact is always making excuses for her shytty behavior. So the breh was trying to hold her accountable and immediately got ostracized. Women don't hold other women accountable. Women LOVE playing the victim. It's not their fault tho... society conditions them to be damsels in distress.

But if you're a real nikka who has had to grind to get his and is doing well in life, your tolerance for these women will be very low. Because as we get older the market shifts our way.

There are definitely plenty of good women out there still but it's hard to find one. Similar to how it's hard for a good woman to find a dude who aint a fukk boy.

I would encourage you to encourage your partner to stop watching LHH.

Those type of shows are anti black and anti intellectual

You don’t want any of that black foolishness rubbing off on your woman.

 

[You Win Perfect]

You should try associating with higher quality women.

And why do you single out women? There are just as much dudes who aren't shyt.

Step your circle up. As you grow, the people you surround yourself with by choice should reflect your current state in life.

What you said has no correlation with the first post.
Just looks like a derail attempt.

OP yeah it happens with time. Eventually you get bored of the thots and really just want to settle down and appreciate the more meaningful things in life

Unfortunately white women in the system of white supremacy have really twisted how a women should behave in an attempt to capture the power that men have minus the responsibilities of men

 

[ShenJingPoQi]

Yes, it is completely normal. As mentally women stop maturing around 18 whilst the males continuing maturing well into his elderly years. The only difference between 18 year old and 48 year old woman is merely wear and tear, mentally they are the same age but the physical toll is evident. Women only develop a masculine mind or some kind of logic post the harsh menopause cycle; only then do they understand their ways. Until then, keep macking on them. Treat them as children and don’t expect much from them outside sex and procreation; anything else will leave you with a bitter taste in your mouth.

 

[Entropy Fan]

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