Is it completely normal for a man's opinion of women to gradually lower as he gets older?

[Hollywood Co]

You need to hang around better people in general and choose a higher quality of woman to date.

A lot of dudes choose low hanging fruit in the dating game just to have a female(s) around (I’ve done this) but if that’s all you ever experience then it can warp your sense of what the difference is between a quality relationship with the opposite sex and the BS a lot of folks go through just to say you have someone. Raise the standards for yourself.

 

[seabreeze80]

Reading these responses explains why so many men are miserable and alone on this site. So many of you have a warped sense of reality. Do yourself a favor and stop chasing a pretty face only. In one thread you hate loose women who get by on looks alone but in another thread you are talking about risking it all simply because of the way a woman looks. So which is it? Like so many others have already mentioned, raise your standards and choose a higher quality of woman. It's easy to see someone's true colors when you first start dating but many of you ignore all the signs because she has a pretty face or a big ass. Choose better.

 

[Deuterion]

Reading these responses explains why so many men are miserable and alone on this site. So many of you have a warped sense of reality. Do yourself a favor and stop chasing a pretty face only. In one thread you hate loose women who get by on looks alone but in another thread you are talking about risking it all simply because of the way a woman looks. So which is it? Like so many others have already mentioned, raise your standards and choose a higher quality of woman. It's easy to see someone's true colors when you first start dating but many of you ignore all the signs because she has a pretty face or a big ass. Choose better.

This post don’t even apply to this thread...

 

[seabreeze80]

This post don’t even apply to this thread...

It does but I wouldn't expect you to acknowledge or admit it. A lot of bitterness, ignorance and generalizations simply because they chose the wrong type of woman with a pretty face.

 

[blockburna420]

Nah it is what it is. Currently most of the chicks I communicate with , don't accept any responsibility for any wrong or bad decisions they've made . Always play the victim role. Entitled. Very see through. Attention seekers and just irresponsible.

 

[Deuterion]

It does but I wouldn't expect you to acknowledge or admit it. A lot of bitterness, ignorance and generalizations simply because they chose the wrong type of woman with a pretty face.

The problem with your post is that you don’t have to be in a relationship with a woman or even like her to see the truth in many of these comments. The lack of accountability, follow-through, and fortitude is something I see every day at work especially from White women and I also see the knights that swoop in like King Arthur to save them. The dating part is only relevent because many were stating that the only reason to even engage with the average woman is if the relationship is sexual which is true. Half these broads ain’t even got hobbies...they put “hiking” on their dating profile under hobbies and then you ask them whats their favorite trail and they’re like:



I don’t think people are bashing women...they want a good women but the way US culture is they are no longer being issued.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Nah as I get older and I sort of disagree. People in general are shyt, so I think less of them all.
We tend not to shyt on other men because we don't care for them.
We want to fukk every female in sight, that includes the shytty ass women. We get two guy friends we no longer care about making more friends the rest of our lives.
There are so many shyt, lame, low-life men out there. We just don't care.

 

[seabreeze80]

The problem with your post is that you don’t have to be in a relationship with a woman or even like her to see the truth in many of these comments. The lack of accountability, follow-through, and fortitude is something I see every day at work especially from White women and I also see the knights that swoop in like King Arthur to save them. The dating part is only relevent because many were stating that the only reason to even engage with the average woman is if the relationship is sexual which is true. Half these broads ain’t even got hobbies...they put “hiking” on their dating profile under hobbies and then you ask them whats their favorite trail and they’re like:



I don’t think people are bashing women...they want a good women but the way US culture is they are no longer being issued.

Choose better. What you are saying is the equivalent of me mentioning witnessing multiple women with good jobs house men with no jobs who use them for sex and let them drive their car around all day. Or me mentioning that some men have nothing going for themselves because their online profiles have "laid back" and nothing else mentioning their interests or life style. Obviously you avoid the airheads and start looking for someone of higher quality in areas where you would expect quality people to reside. Online dating is really a cesspool. Only a fool would expect to find a quality person on those sites.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Because we have the most to lose when we give our all in a relationship. We're supposed to be the providers and protectors. Women can bounce to different relationships and come out unscathed from a financial standpoint. Women can fall in love like it's nothing cuz they have nothing to lose. But us men have to do the pursuing, the courting, the planning, the everything. Women bring nothing to the table but their bodies and maybe they cook every now and then and somehow that's equivalent to us having to provide and protect.

A man goes through a break up and realizes how much time AND money was wasted whereas women just lost time.

Oh okay. I didn't realize that all women are getting so much money from men? I didn't realize every dude was breaking his bank for his girl. My bad.

Sounds like you don't know the difference between courtship and being in a relationship. All that shyt you named is what a man will do for a pump and dump. So you can miss me with that planning nonsense.

I don't know one serious relationship where the woman does nothing but get fukked. What world do you live in?

Ya'll men really are funny. When a woman is out here doing her thing it's a problem because she doesn't need a man. If she's broke it's a problem because she's only a walking p*ssy.

 

[Da_Eggman]

It is interesting when I was younger I noticed every single girl I came within 25 feet of ugly or not I’d noticed them

Now I ignore basically every one of them


I do think possibly a lifetime of porn has totally made me numb to normal women

I know if Mia Rider walked by I notice her

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Your in a new relationship because you thought you dealt the issues from previous ones...a situation arises in the current to bring up said issues you thought you dealt with as an example....

Men are conditioned by society to be that way because of gender descriptions...we spose to have balls of steel and show no signs of weakness for all of our lives.....most women buy into and expect nothing less...if u fall short of the ideal according to them issues start....

Therapy can be expensive and time consuming...also still has the stigma in the black community...we get told to "man up" or suck it up....you like the idea of it but the average woman gonna think you crazy or soft...

I see your reasoning...its just a lil more complex than ppl like to admit

Yeah I get all that but that bitter shyt is for the birds. So many BM harbor resentment towards past relationships it basically impossible to move forward. So you pretty much doom any relationship moving forward. I honestly think if you don't have your shyt together you have no business pointing the finger at another person.

 

[Another Man]

You said that women hold each other accountable and it’s not true. Most American women aren’t even cognizant of the fact that there is an accountability problem in the first place so how can they correct it? This is once again why you hear women stating that they get along with guys better because they even see that a huge majority in their gender is devoid of human decency. But instead of addressing it they run to guys because 1. They don’t understand the root cause of the behavior or 2. They understand the root cause but don’t address it because it’ll force them to acknowledge their privilege. Lastly, a woman defending another woman in front of a man IS NOT accountability. It’s usually multiple women uniting to stop an accountability conversation from happening altogether.

Youre not getting it. Im saying that women will hold each other accountable if say, its woman vs woman beef or some shyt. Women can be pretty cut throat and judge each other often in any social setting(even though its usually in passive aggressive fashion). When a man and a woman have issues however, women will throw accountability out the window. Im basically agreeing with you but pointing out that their reactions to shyt usually vary upon the gender theyre dealing with. Women will call out other women as individuals but see conflicts between men and women as an attack on women as a collective.


Example: Say, a woman knows a woman thats a thot. She sees a man call her as such, she will take it as misogyny and an attack on women even though dude is stating the obvious and will defend her.

Now, let that woman fukk her man

Get it now?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

No worries. Women usually come to this conclusion about men much earlier in life. The illusion of men being saviors and kind and honorable usually goes down the drain as soon as she notices that his dikk renders his attempts to be logical or honorable irrelevant.

Women learn early on that men are nothing more than lifetime children with hormones who move from being taken care of by one woman to the next.

Wings get ripped off butterflies and people fall off pedastals everyday B.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Yeah I get all that but that bitter shyt is for the birds. So many BM harbor resentment towards past relationships it basically impossible to move forward. So you pretty much doom any relationship moving forward. I honestly think if you don't have your shyt together you have no business pointing the finger at another person.

Male emotional baggage and the denial of it could be it's own thread. Dudes be bitter as hell.

 

[The Fade]

Yall know how I feel. Nut accordingly

If she aint no heiress I dont want her

Looking for that Jeremy Meeks come up