Is it worth the headache involved with a relationship with a really attractive person?

[Stuntone]

Quick answer. No it aint worth it.

Does she know she's a dime? If so, that's gonna alter the dynamic even more.
Are you a dime? If so, she chose.
Are you a strong nickel? If so, you might have won.
Will she find 5 threads in this current locker room cache interesting enough to talk about for 17 minutes? If no, you share that girl.

My girl is very good looking and she's real conservative. She's a tall creole mix/redbone and we're in the Deep South. She quiet around stranger, doesn't like to be seen much. No booty pics on IG or FB. A class act. Everyone I know assumes she's a wife type. She has that Halle Berry in Boomerang demeanor.

You sound insecure and beta as hell. If you that concerned about your woman and interacting with people, then you are not on her level. Part of the appeal that creates a strong sexual energy/chemistry is walking into a room with your girl and seeing how many people want to be next to her, while understanding that you are the one that she is with. Likewise, women will feel the same way when they walk into a room and have other women want to be in her shoes. If you havent ever been to a dinner or event and have your woman show you off and stare at you starry-eyed because the women she competes with want you as bad as she does, then you are losing the battle.

Another thing is you need to steel yourself and bolster your confidence when you are in a room of men that are eyeing your woman because rest assured, she sees your beta tucked tail and unease with competition and it most certainly is a turn off. Show her you are comfortable with other dudes being in her space because you are confident that you have what it takes not only to keep her, but that you arent worried about what any other dude has to offer cause she knows what she has at home. Let her be turned on by your confidence with her and other men, and your allure with other women.

Edit:
Also, its a good thing to show early on to your girl during the courting phase that you have attractive women that pursue you as well. There should never be shift in power in that regard. She needs to know that you are desired by desirable women. This helps exponentially.

Everyone has some insecurity in them when it comes to anything that's important and not guaranteed. Your job, girlfriend or whatever. Nikkas need to stop that you insecure shyt. Me and my girl both t

Be with someone you need to have leverage over and threaten to stay with you brehs

Money is leverage dummies. Looks are, what ever you have is. That's life.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Lotta good looking women got issues....

That 6.5-7 is the sweet spot

 

[Mazino]

Lotta good looking women got issues....

That 6.5-7 is the sweet spot

Women in general have issues, average women most likely get hit on the most because they're seen as a guaranteed lay, plenty have shytty attitudes because of this.

Many of the baddest women don't even get really stepped to because dudes are too shook.

 

[cheek100]

Imho if u gotta ask this u not ready.
Stay in your lane bredda

 

[Sterling Archer]

Everyone has some insecurity in them when it comes to anything that's important and not guaranteed. Your job, girlfriend or whatever. Nikkas need to stop that you insecure shyt.

You cant say you are insecure then immediately follow it up with "stop the insecure shyt". Thats kind of the point. Everyone ISNT insecure about their girl/guy. And if you are, you ask these questions and have these problems that not everyone has.

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

Knowing dudes are always going to be coming at her? At work, in her DM, church, the grocery store. Ever her managers and supervisors try to be slick and invite her to lunch to discuss her career.


Her being so pretty automatically gives her some leverage in the relationship, you aren't as quick to threaten her with leaving her like you would an average women.






Is it less stressful to have a ugly girl that you don't have to worry about?

Nah bruh, I haven't read any comments and I'm sure someone's already said it..but you looking at this all wrong.

stop simpin, your girl with you for a reason, own it and relax.

I'm in the south too, it's a rite of passage for your girl to get hollered at if she halfway good looking. If it didn't happen then she need to step her game up .

 

[GreenGhxst]

Knowing dudes are always going to be coming at her? At work, in her DM, church, the grocery store. Ever her managers and supervisors try to be slick and invite her to lunch to discuss her career.


Her being so pretty automatically gives her some leverage in the relationship, you aren't as quick to threaten her with leaving her like you would an average women.






Is it less stressful to have a ugly girl that you don't have to worry about?

Treat her like every other girl and she'll fall in line, and you shouldn't be threatening people to leave if you're in a relationship unless you're really leaving.

After being with her for a while you'll realize she's just like every other human. If you can't deal with it, date someone less attractive. She chose you for a reason, we're all animals, it's really nothing that special if you think about it.

 

[GreenGhxst]

Nah bruh, I haven't read any comments and I'm sure someone's already said it..but you looking at this all wrong.

stop simpin, your girl with you for a reason, own it and relax.

I'm in the south too, it's a rite of passage for your girl to get hollered at if she halfway good looking. If it didn't happen then she need to step her game up .

I like hearing my girl got hollered at, makes me feel like I have something worth of value, if dudes weren't hollering every now and then I'd be lookin sideways.

 

[MikelArteta]

My woman is gorgeous, and

Who cares about lame azz brehs

Ugly girls get dmed
Ugly girls get liked
Ugly girls get hollared at too


Ibe only dated one ugly girl in my life rest were

Build up that immunity brehs

 

[Black Sinatra]

My girl is very good looking and she's real conservative. She's a tall creole mix/redbone and we're in the Deep South. She quiet around stranger, doesn't like to be seen much. No booty pics on IG or FB. A class act. Everyone I know assumes she's a wife type. She has that Halle Berry in Boomerang demeanor.

I feel you. Almost exactly similiar circumstance. Might be a southern girl thing...
I have come to see that these types of women are subsceptable to hyper-complimentation from other men tho....and women "in my case."

 

[Stuntone]

Dudes always come into threads like this on some pimp shyt.

"You just insecure"
"I know my girl ain't going nowhere"
When a few weeks ago half of the Coli confessed to not touching a woman all of 2016.


Anything you value and invest in, and it's not guaranteed, the thought of losing will cross your mind. I think a certain amount of insecurity is healthy and smart. I love my girl, probably she's more insecure than me. She thinks all the girls want me. I'm a great catch and she knows it too.

Yes I'm insecure to an extent, same with my job and most aspects of life. Not that I'm dwelling on them, but they cross your mind. And you think of a backup plan. In case shyt hit the fan, how am I going to bounce back.

but of course on thecoli "I won't be sad if my girl leaves, ill just get another dime"


Much as dudes on here hate women one day and be on some make believe pimp shyt the next. I'm really starting think most dudes on here never had a pretty or woman with substance or even a real relationship.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Dudes always come into threads like this on some pimp shyt.

"You just insecure"
"I know my girl ain't going nowhere"
When a few weeks ago half of the Coli confessed to not touching a woman all of 2016.


Anything you value and invest in, and it's not guaranteed, the thought of losing will cross your mind. I think a certain amount of insecurity is healthy and smart. I love my girl, probably she's more insecure than me. She thinks all the girls want me. I'm a great catch and she knows it too.

Yes I'm insecure to an extent, same with my job and most aspects of life. Not that I'm dwelling on them, but they cross your mind. And you think of a backup plan. In case shyt hit the fan, how am I going to bounce back.

but of course on thecoli "I won't be sad if my girl leaves, ill just get another dime"


Much as dudes on here hate women one day and be on some make believe pimp shyt the next. I'm really starting think most dudes on here never had a pretty or woman with substance or even a real relationship.

A shidddd... it ain't that easy at all. Unless you already came up while you was with your current dime.

If that was the case, I'd be trading dime hoes out like Yu-Gi-Oh cards.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

My woman is gorgeous, and

Who cares about lame azz brehs

Ugly girls get dmed
Ugly girls get liked
Ugly girls get hollared at too


Ibe only dated one ugly girl in my life rest were

Build up that immunity brehs

You still with her?

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Women will always be hit on by men, doesn't really matter what we look like. That's how most men are


If you have a quality woman and you're a quality man, you nothing to worry about.
If you don't have a quality woman, still nothing to worry about, let her do you a favor and send herself to the bushes.

Are you a breh or not?

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Nah, that's probably unlikely. If she's fukking anyone else, it's her ex who she still lives with.

But I digress.

Why would she come by at all?