Is it wrong to want to go on vacation by yourself while in a relationship?

[Tribal Outkast]

I don’t think it’s wrong but I do wonder why you’d want to do that more than once. I know a guy that be trying to do it all the time. I’m like do you even like your wife?

 

[moorfeus]

Sounds more like you need a permanent vacation from her.
If you're not married with children make your exit. Life is too short to waste precious time with someone you don't enjoy.

 

[AQz]

It’s not wrong but it also means she can do the same. As long as you’re good with that go for it.

 

[Won Won]

Separate vacations, separate hotel beds, she’s a buzzkill, we’ll fight

Quit wasting your time and move on

 

[EffYou]

Beloved just break up with her. If that is how it feels when you're around her then you be to yourself. You're only harming yourself mentally.



Fred

No he shouldn’t break up with her

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

don't read the signs that your relationship is dying brehs

i see a "we need to talk in your future" months maybe weeks

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

No I’ve been all over while married
Not only is it ok but you’ll come back a better partner.

I’ve been to Amsterdam, Belgium, Switzerland, Mexico, Cuba, Paris, all over the U.S, and other places too.

But her, no she should not be allowed to go without you

pardon me but didn't you just lose your marriage?

 

[bigde09]

I just feel like she'll eventually be a buzzkill and we'd just fight at some point and honestly, vacation is for peace not beef.

You need to evaluate why that is

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

pardon me but didn't you just lose your marriage?

Yep and I’m a better partner now
To someone else tho.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

How else can I cheat in peace?

 

[maxamusa]

OP please dont listen to these single dweebs telling you to breakup with shorty for wanting some space and sampling something new

 

[Claudex]

Explain

Because if you're walking on eggshells (your words) with your girl, going on vacation is just a way to push what must happen off breh.
Y'all supposed to have a conversation as to why you can only deal with her in doses now. It wasn't always like that I believe, so what changed and how can you guys fix it (if it can be fixed)? That's what you should be doing.

Going on vacation alone is just delaying the inevitable. And the worst part is, deep down she'll wonder if you went by yourself to get away from her.

 

[Diondon]

I want to do single people shyt while in a relationship
And if she gon fight on vacay
Don;t she fight all the time?

 

[The Message]

It's honestly her. It's like walking on eggshells. I can only deal with her in doses now. I'm just motivated to level up and move the fukk on.

you’ve already broken up with her in your mind breh.

it’s over. just make it a reality.

 

[Rekkapryde]

By all means do you. Just don’t get mad when she wants to do the same thing

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