Is there any benefit to a man being in a relationship?
- Thread starter Diyhai
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never said dont need women
i said a relationship two different things
so there are not people that are successful without a relationship
plenty of woman are doing fine without a relationship too
needing a relationship is a lie people are told
BaldingSoHard
Banned
Just to cut through the bullshyt...
Women bring to the table: p*ssy, noise, obligations, bad debt, undiagnosed mental illness, and other men's children. So don't expect much coming from her side (other than p*ssy, of course).
Relationships for men aren't about "benefits". They're about legacy.
Benefits are for your woman and your progeny.
What you get out of the deal is that your bloodline survives. And as a man, you have to be okay with that. It has to be enough. Yes, it's wack as fukk but....
...consider it the price for being able to piss standing up and open jars and not cry if you get a flat tire and shyt.
Also consider that you are not obligated to be in any relationship at any time. So if you don't want to take care of a grown child who happens to have titties, stay single.
Women bring to the table: p*ssy, noise, obligations, bad debt, undiagnosed mental illness, and other men's children. So don't expect much coming from her side (other than p*ssy, of course).
Relationships for men aren't about "benefits". They're about legacy.
Benefits are for your woman and your progeny.
What you get out of the deal is that your bloodline survives. And as a man, you have to be okay with that. It has to be enough. Yes, it's wack as fukk but....
...consider it the price for being able to piss standing up and open jars and not cry if you get a flat tire and shyt.
Also consider that you are not obligated to be in any relationship at any time. So if you don't want to take care of a grown child who happens to have titties, stay single.
SouljaVoy
♥ Black Love
Guaranteed p*ssy, support, companionship....... Definitely benefits to being in a relationship.
Doobie Doo
Veteran
Alright breh if that's your mentality then good luck to you
most simp answer, p*ssy is the worst answer
if you actually respecting the relationship
variety verus fukking one broad for years
support can be given from family
community organizations, churches and friendships
some of the worst cases are when people in relationships seek too much of that from their mate
main reason for abusive relationships
this is crazy why not just impregnate random women
like i said p*ssy is the worst reason
Doobie Doo
Veteran
See this is when ya'll nikkas be making think this is male Lipstick Alley. I am with a childless professional woman now I met on Hinge. We take turns paying for dates, neither one of us have kids, we travel, cook and clean for each other. We the same age and she's a former print model.
Before I met her I was fukking with hoes and decided I was tired of fukking with hoes and was willing to try the relationship lifestyle. I haven't ran across a single one of these women you described since I stopped fukking with hoes which got me wondering what's nikka's aim. My #1 rule was only fukk with women who got shyt to lose.
PhillyzFinest
All Star
IMO men can't - nor should they - look at marriage as something that they can benefit from. Rather, marriage is something that men choose to do for the purposes of keeping the peace, retaining order and keeping tradition.
It comes from an understanding that "this is bigger than me, and my personal desires."
Because, you're never going to get women to go along with the idea of casual sex long term. It is in their nature to seek and desire a committed relationship and they're socialized to want marriage. There is a never ending emotional wave of pressure for men to marry. And it will come from women and their friends and family. Men with daughters will even pressure their boyfriends to marry, not because the boyfriend will benefit, but because the father will want her daughter to be happy and to get what she wants. And marriage is what they want.
Women benefit from marriage because it provides them security, provision and protection along with companionship and a partner to help create the lifestyle she wants. Men benefit consistent sex, loyalty, partnership and friendship. But I would definitely say a man's benefits pales in comparison to what women benefit.
There are certain things in life you may not enjoy doing... but you do it... eventually because an entire country of men who refuses to marry women (but will still fukk them) will create enormous complications; crappy family dynamics, financial instability and a never ending gender war.
It comes from an understanding that "this is bigger than me, and my personal desires."
Because, you're never going to get women to go along with the idea of casual sex long term. It is in their nature to seek and desire a committed relationship and they're socialized to want marriage. There is a never ending emotional wave of pressure for men to marry. And it will come from women and their friends and family. Men with daughters will even pressure their boyfriends to marry, not because the boyfriend will benefit, but because the father will want her daughter to be happy and to get what she wants. And marriage is what they want.
Women benefit from marriage because it provides them security, provision and protection along with companionship and a partner to help create the lifestyle she wants. Men benefit consistent sex, loyalty, partnership and friendship. But I would definitely say a man's benefits pales in comparison to what women benefit.
There are certain things in life you may not enjoy doing... but you do it... eventually because an entire country of men who refuses to marry women (but will still fukk them) will create enormous complications; crappy family dynamics, financial instability and a never ending gender war.
Antwon Mitchell
Banned
How many more threads of these same questions (word for word at that) are gonna be made everyday?
I swear I thought I saw a thread yesterday and this morning also, not to mention last week as well asking the same question
, don't y'all ever get tired of this shyt 
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I swear I thought I saw a thread yesterday and this morning also, not to mention last week as well asking the same question
, don't y'all ever get tired of this shyt ?
WaveCapsByOscorp™
2021 Grammy Award Winner
There should be benefits in any relationship you hold. The question is what are the drawbacks to having certain relationships...
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
There is. I think the better question is who benefits more from a relationship: men or women.