Is there any benefit to a man being in a relationship?

[Diyhai]

Why not impregnate random women? Is that a serious question?
Yes impregnate a random quality woman. I seen dudes do this all the time.


Your #1 rule is a good one. But I'm never going to find a woman who has as much to lose as I do.

By the way, I say all of this as an unmarried man.

p*ssy has never and will never motivate a man like me. I only included "p*ssy" because 99% of other men seem to find it motivational. I can get p*ssy however I want, as much as I want, from whomever I want, whenever I want... hence unmarried man.

Any woman lol you delusional but are some of the high maintenance and hard to attain women really worth it, is the question

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Any woman lol you delusional but are some of the high maintenance and hard to attend women really worth it, is the question

High-maintenance women are absolutely not worth it which is why I don't deal with them.

My girl is a NY 5 on her best day.

Ride or die like a mf tho.

 

[Diyhai]

There should be benefits in any relationship you hold. The question is what are the drawbacks to having certain relationships...

I totally disagree I don’t need to benefit from a relationship
That’s sounds like a business deal

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

I totally disagree I don’t need to benefit from a relationship
That’s sounds like a business deal

It’s only business if money (cash) is involved. If you gain nothing from a relationship, it’s primarily a waste for you...and is a lower form of person to person relations

 

[KneeGrow.]

I'm sure there are benefits to being in a good one.

 

[Diyhai]

IMO men can't - nor should they - look at marriage as something that they can benefit from. Rather, marriage is something that men choose to do for the purposes of keeping the peace, retaining order and keeping tradition.

It comes from an understanding that "this is bigger than me, and my personal desires."

Because, you're never going to get women to go along with the idea of casual sex long term. It is in their nature to seek and desire a committed relationship and they're socialized to want marriage. There is a never ending emotional wave of pressure for men to marry. And it will come from women and their friends and family. Men with daughters will even pressure their boyfriends to marry, not because the boyfriend will benefit, but because the father will want her daughter to be happy and to get what she wants. And marriage is what they want.

Women benefit from marriage because it provides them security, provision and protection along with companionship and a partner to help create the lifestyle she wants. Men benefit consistent sex, loyalty, partnership and friendship. But I would definitely say a man's benefits pales in comparison to what women benefit.

There are certain things in life you may not enjoy doing... but you do it... eventually because an entire country of men who refuses to marry women (but will still fukk them) will create enormous complications; crappy family dynamics, financial instability and a never ending gender war.

This is a traditionally perspective in which women weren’t working and gender roles were totally different. This argument was valid when women were barefoot and pregnant but times are different now. I’m not even talking marriage that’s a deeper level. And in my original post I said I don’t think that benefit is why you should get into a relationship. I just think men don’t realize the choices they are making when entering one.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Yea when the woman taking care of the man.

They here to please us and the white devils tricked y’all and our forefathers into taking care of them.

We see our full life expectancy when we took care of the Godly way

 

[FromStLouis]

 

[Ashley Banks]

I don’t understand why people that are against relationships always want people to tell them the benefits of them THEN argue with the answers.

Why even ask?

 

[number21]

You said there is but list none

Because others did it for me.

 

[BigMan]

Nah just a convo
It’s all perspective
He was listing benefits and I was that’s not one for me
Not saying I won’t ever consider a relationship but there is no benefit
Best thing I heard in this thread was half on the rent

You already made up your mind brother

 

[Diyhai]

I don’t understand why people that are against relationships always want people to tell them the benefits of them THEN argue with the answers.

Why even ask?

It’s just a convo
I feel like people should challenge their perspectives on things
It’s not an attack on people if they're in a relationship
But some people blindly follow others

 

[Diyhai]

You already made up your mind brother

Nah i would easily get married if i felt it made sense

 

[Diyhai]

Op why do you think that theres no benefits

can’t think of none
Building a family and dual income are solid reasons

 

[FeverPitch2]

Some of yall nikkas need to cry into a pillow and get it all out.