Is there any proof that this generation is "Softer" than previous generations?

Vandelay

Life is absurd. Lean into it.
Joined
Apr 14, 2013
Messages
27,105
Reputation
8,048
Daps
99,411
Reppin
Phi Chi Connection
but its more accommodating and inclusive.

you can't have it both ways.

A LOT of us were definitely outliers 40 years ago.


No I definitely agree, that's why I said are we going to go back to Shyt like it was...fukk that...

But we definitely are softer...each generation gets a little softer; that's progress and evolution.
 

Steve Piffler

I got them CERTS
Joined
May 1, 2012
Messages
8,220
Reputation
1,270
Daps
18,678
Reppin
Houston
This generation is softer than the previous because -

1. They dont know how to be responsible for themselves, their shortcomings in life are always somebody else's fault

2. They have delusions of grandeur. Nobody wants to work their way up, they want to go from college graduate to boss without paying dues.

3. They cant fight. Nowadays, they skip the step of squaring up and go straight to jumping / shooting.

4. They stand for nothing. Nobody is trying to make a stand for anything except themselves.

5. They dont read books or try to understand things fully. They just want to google it and get the short answer. But thats like reading the abstract only yet thinking you know what the whole paper is about.

6. They give up at the first sign of difficulty.

7. They dont understand delayed gratification. They want it all, and they want it now.

8. The males act like females (emotional) and the females act like males (logical)

9. They lack the ability to communicate well in conversations or in writing.

10. The men dont know how to control their women, and the women dont know how to play their role

solid list breh. i can tell you are 30+....:salute:
 

Wild self

The Black Man will prosper!
Bushed
Supporter
Joined
Jun 20, 2012
Messages
83,744
Reputation
12,620
Daps
227,516
I blame the recession for that shyt. The economy has too many people and too many greedy CEOs in it and too little money these days for regular jobs. Plus the cost of living is unreasonable. If anything, we gearing more towards a European style way of life. That "you outta here by 18" mentality is gonna be a thing of the past.

I blame technology and easy to access to info. The reason why kids today are so conditioned because their parents aren't much better themselves.

it's the parents fault. first off, there are more single mothers than 2 parent households (i won't go too far into that for obvious reasons :comeon:) and kids are coddled more. these lil fakkits don't leave the house to be on their own until they are in their mid to late 20s and shyt. my pops left his moms house at 17. got married at 18 (i wouldn't suggest ANYONE get married nowadays at 18 tho), and carved a life for him and his family ever since. just like countless other men from his generation and before. picture a lil soft ass 17 year old leaving home and moving to another state by himself to start a life...:childplease:. i left the house at 21. and that was as SOON as i finished college. so did my younger brother. These nikkas nowadays tho...:wow:. i have lil cousins WELL into their 20s and still living with their parents. its sad. kick their grown asses out of the house and FORCE them to get something for themselves. being 26 and working at Becks Prime and driving a challenger while living with your moms is NOT the move. and when they do move out, they are getting a place with a chick and knocking her up and not want to build a life with her. then they cry about child support. i can go on forever, but i'll stop here. there are COUNTLESS men out here doing the same thing.

shyt is ridiculous. this is one of MANY reasons that men are soft nowadays. you leave your mothers house just to end up at your womans house. have a bachelors pad for a while. get to know yourself and get your shyt together. learn what you like and dislike about women before you pick a life partner and knock her up. this is what i will tell my sons when they get to that age. and despite what their mother might say, their asses will be out of my house no later than 21 (give them some time to finish college, then it's :camby:)
 

Illuminatos

#OVOXO
Joined
Jun 19, 2012
Messages
45,758
Reputation
3,108
Daps
192,273
Reppin
NULL
Let's take note of 2 things

1. Clothes don't make you soft because your dad and uncles were wearing bell bottoms, blouses and platforms

- so if you come In here mentioning skinnies :camby:

2. The people on here calling people soft more than likely ain't about no type of real life situations that make them a real nikka

None. Whatsoever. They're just bitter.

Just call them old, laugh at them and keep it moving. :umaddoggie:
 

BrothaZay

Non-FBA. AdosK
Supporter
Joined
May 5, 2012
Messages
65,219
Reputation
6,613
Daps
225,158
Reppin
The suburbs
@OP, I really dont take offense to anything these old nikkas on the COLI say.

These nikkas maybe grew up in that era, but they def werent in the streets and believe me I grew up around official street nikkas from that era!!!!!

They even call me lil loc!!!
 

ThugLife

Diehard Jimmy Buckets fan
Joined
Jun 22, 2012
Messages
18,206
Reputation
3,105
Daps
49,129
Reppin
I bought a Carbon 15 when I was 18
V3Arb7
 

Chesirecatdaddy

All Star
Joined
Oct 24, 2013
Messages
6,178
Reputation
1,068
Daps
9,019
These nikkaz would rather shoot each other than get punched in the face because they're scared LOLOOLOL soft ass nikkaz breh. I pulled a knife out of my damn thigh. nikkaz in my highschool got shanked with their guts hanging out tryna hold them shyts in at parties. One nikka got gutted by his damn baby mamma and aint press no charges breh.
 

cleanface coney

WENT LEGIT
Joined
May 26, 2012
Messages
12,210
Reputation
730
Daps
17,961
this is a good thread but a dumb thread at the same time

alot of these older nikkas giving out half truths in here
 

CrimsonTider

Seduce & Scheme
WOAT
Joined
Apr 30, 2012
Messages
85,789
Reputation
-13,824
Daps
135,260
This generation is softer than the previous because -

1. They dont know how to be responsible for themselves, their shortcomings in life are always somebody else's fault

2. They have delusions of grandeur. Nobody wants to work their way up, they want to go from college graduate to boss without paying dues.

3. They cant fight. Nowadays, they skip the step of squaring up and go straight to jumping / shooting.

4. They stand for nothing. Nobody is trying to make a stand for anything except themselves.

5. They dont read books or try to understand things fully. They just want to google it and get the short answer. But thats like reading the abstract only yet thinking you know what the whole paper is about.

6. They give up at the first sign of difficulty.

7. They dont understand delayed gratification. They want it all, and they want it now.

8. The males act like females (emotional) and the females act like males (logical)

9. They lack the ability to communicate well in conversations or in writing.

10. The men dont know how to control their women, and the women dont know how to play their role
:camby:

What is this list based on?
 

Chesirecatdaddy

All Star
Joined
Oct 24, 2013
Messages
6,178
Reputation
1,068
Daps
9,019
Crime doesn't = soft

Especially when you factor in how much crack played into those crime numbers
of course fukking crime = soft nikka... and I'm not just talking about the 80's and 90's. I'm talking about almost every damn generation before this one. Crime then had nothing to do with crack.
 
Top