Is this man wrong for wanting to break up?

Is he wrong?

  • Yes

    Votes: 19 39.6%
  • No

    Votes: 29 60.4%

  • Total voters
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You are wrong. Find the right woman and you will see the things she will do for you in your time of need.

She just had the baby. Give her some gotdamn time.

Again this is why people need to have kids in committed relationships (ie marriage).
I'm speaking in general. I didn't say all women simp.
 

MikeOck

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I hate when people kid themselves about intersexual relationships for the sake of looking 'woke.'

Men will leave/checkout mentally once a woman shows disregard for her looks/health, same way women will leave/checkout mentally once a man shows disregard for his finances. And don't go Googling for those news stories about some breh who stayed when his woman got paralyzed or something, the only reason that shyt was in the news in the first place was because it doesn't happen much. The rule still applies.

Don't be mad at that shyt, or pretend to ignore it for the sake of being 'woke.' These two universal dealbreakers are actually some of the biggest forces that drive the human race forward. The woman in this scenario is being stupid for not coming to terms with this, she should somehow commit to fixing the problem in the future when she's ready
 

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I hate when people kid themselves about intersexual relationships for the sake of looking 'woke.'

Men will leave/checkout mentally once a woman shows disregard for her looks/health, same way women will leave/checkout mentally once a man shows disregard for his finances. And don't go Googling for those news stories about some breh who stayed when his woman got paralyzed or something, the only reason that shyt was in the news in the first place was because it doesn't happen much. The rule still applies.

Don't be mad at that shyt, or pretend to ignore it for the sake of being 'woke.' These two universal dealbreakers are actually some of the biggest forces that drive the human race forward. The woman in this scenario is being stupid for not coming to terms with this, she should somehow commit to fixing the problem in the future when she's ready
I'll be honest, as soon as a woman starts to let herself go in a relationship, I'm usually one foot out the door, unless they're making active attempts to correct it. :manny:

I'd expect the same, if I became dead broke and unmotivated to immediately fix my financial situation.
 

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Considering she just finished bringing a life into this world via a hospital procedure, she's still post partum, has fatigue, stomach surgery is invasive, risks associated with the physical toll on her body-not to mention the recovery and more fatigue, side affects, in addition to you know, little thing known as stress and new motherhood( taking care of the needs of a crying, hungry baby 24/7 that she may be breastfeeding ) and it's her personal choice whether to risk the procedure while all he has to do is sit back and watch without undergoing that...ummm, duhhhh, I don't know, enlighten us... Brain Surgeon Nerdy-
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good point :leostare:

but.... what do you do 3 years down the line though if her stomach still looks like bald up homework for lack of a better description?

and attraction is zero

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Hes wrong for trying to force cosmetic surgery on her.

12 weeks seems relatively early to me expecting chicks to “snap back” after giving birth. That’s only three months. Some aren’t even cleared to work out until month 2/3.

He needs to be patient.
Right. I'be seen celebs who have all the resources in the world take at least 6 month.
 

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In the grand scheme of things you can’t force him to have an attraction if her stomach looks like that. The question is why won’t she get the surgery?

Ummm you could literally die, get an infection or have a number of complications. That aside it's at least 3 to 6 months to recover. A full year until you feel normal. Maybe she'd rather spend that time being a mother. Taking care of a new baby in a tight ass pressure suit/faja sounds like hell.
 

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Some of you nikkas need to go outside
You want to tell me what the fukk I know about a condition that one of my family members suffered from?

fukk outta here dap fishing ass nikka.

Lol@ the nikka whose has more posts than me and has been posting since I was fukking 10 years old telling me to go outside.

Some of you nikkas are dweebs
 

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I mean, 12 weeks aint enough to snap back, Im as HOH as they come but even that's unreasonable to me.

Then again, we can't force him to be attracted to her. If u not attracted to someone....u either gone cheat or leave. If he cheats on the side he'd get chastised anyways. If I was him personally I'd just cheat on the side and keep her around for appearances so I keep everyone happy:troll:

It is what it is. I think it's unreasonable but she won't get the surgery and he ain't attracted to her anymore. He isn't entitled to stay with her. Just how the game goes :DenzelWhatever:
 

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You want to tell me what the fukk I know about a condition that one of my family members suffered from?

fukk outta here dap fishing ass nikka.

Lol@ the nikka whose has more posts than me and has been posting since I was fukking 10 years old telling me to go outside.

Some of you nikkas are dweebs
Just buried that man:Denzelcrackinup:
 

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Don't listen to these 'woke' women posting up here. They would leave their baby daddy in a heartbeat if he showed disregard to his finances, regardless of the circumstances. Breh could be down with Stage 4 Cancer doing chemo and women will still leave if he's not about his hustle. This is the reality of humanity, don't have a mind so open that your brains fall out.
 
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