is this true about single moms?

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Single moms aren't absolutely bad though their situation lends itself to worse decisions than a complete family unit.

However, single moms' value is absolutely lower relative to childless women. Don't have to deal with baby daddies. The man dating a single mom will never be the #1 person in a single mom's life. Don't have to work around babysitters or growing attached to their kids.

All things being equal - why would any man want to date a single mom when they could date a childless woman with no baggage or lifelong relationships co-parenting with another man.
 
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It depends on how they became single mothers
If they are divorced and all her children come from one man
Then in the eyes of potential men, it’s not that bad
But if you out here with 4 kids by 3 different men:francis:
And that should go the same for men
Muthafukkas start questioning your decision making skills at that point
Every scenario is case by case
The problem is most of these single mothers want Michael B Jordan with Jeff Bezos pockets when them bytches ain’t even making Oprah money
Those degrees don’t make you a whole human being
Nor do they really move the needle
You can be book smart, know how to past test
And be dumb as fukk with no common sense
This board is filled with nikkas like this
Your degree is not your personality/life experience
Once everybody learns this
Relationships may start to get better
 
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King Poetic said:
Not all single moms are bad or hoes

I know 2 chicks with a kid and doing well with low body counts

I know a ton of LA chicks with no kids and them broads been tossed around like porn bytches

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Yeah there’s always exceptions I mean I want my own but if I was single the only way I could see myself with a single mom is if
She’s essentially a good person, and would have to be independent on her own.
Basically it all boils down to this when you get with a woman: Would she be alright in raising your kids if something were to happen to you like death.
 
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Black Mamba said:
Yeah there’s always exceptions I mean I want my own but if I was single the only way I could see myself with a single mom is if
She’s essentially a good person, and would have to be independent on her own.
Basically it all boils down to this when you get with a woman: Would she be alright in raising your kids if something were to happen to you like death.
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But shouldn’t that be standard for any chick? I don’t imagine b you would accept the opposite child or not.
 
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Rationally speaking you want to avoid a woman with a kid if youre not willing to deal with the fact that the kids father may be in the picture or to raise someone else's child. It is a very personal decision choosing whether to be a step father or not and men shouldn't be shamed into or pressured into it.
 
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The ADD said:
But shouldn’t that be standard for any chick? I don’t imagine b you would accept the opposite child or not.
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Yeah it is. shyt is even higher for single moms because you already see how she is with her kids.
Regular chicks that you just meet in college well you won’t be able to see that too well because they don’t have kids and are basically there to get a career(hopefully)
 
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