A lot of times it really ain't. Black Men don't have Elliot Rodgers syndrome.
And Black Men respect their momma more than White Men. So I fail to see where respect is the issue, except when it pertains to the fact that most Women don't feel they need to EARN respect or PROVE they are worthy of trust and commitment over time.
Like it or not - Men are the gate keepers of commitment. Something is clearly wrong with American Black Women since even good brothers are not looking to commit to them.
They are running the KatFax and reference checks and applications are coming back negative.
An Italian Hedge fund manager Mr. Serra quoted by the NY Times said "Never Marry an American Woman". What he meant to say was "Do not commit your time and energy to an American Woman unless she has proven herself the exception to the rule"
It is very easy to prove yourself the exception given the gutter snipe quality of most American females today. But most don't want to simply remain humble or even make a small gesture. They want to be swept off their feet and completely undeserving of it.
Fixed that first part breh. The thing is a lot of young dudes have never been through trauma or drama with a Woman. That's why I don't understand the question "who hurt you".
A lot of this generation of young American Black men, have learned from their parents and older siblings. At least I did.
If I had a son at puberty I would teach him to: 1) Consult with me before you even think about being intimate with a Woman so I can evaluate her and her family 2) Never trust a Woman until she's proven herself through actions time and time again, I don't give a fukk what comes out of her mouth
I rather demonize a whole gender and keep my son safe than have him falsely believe all Women are cute kittens that need love and care when we know this is not the case clearly
I stated above in a roll call my Momma and all the female members of my family told me how to treat Women. I see they conveniently ignored/dodged that one

so it's not even about treating them how other guys do. Women spill secrets on themselves - and not just your female family looking out for you.
Chris Brown is still loved and adored.

Female fans have even made up scenarios in their mind on how Rihanna deserved it (but this is something the Men knew all along

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nikka fukk up like you don't watch any odd type of porn