It's Hard Getting over someone you truly love....

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man i remember when my ex dumped me, i was so heartbroken breh :to:

but like its been said, time heals. i started working out, playing poker, started doing mma, got a better job

4 years later, im in better shape than when i was with her, i make more money, im alot happier, and sometimes i think back and wonder what could have been, and im glad she dumped me.

sometimes you realize the person wasnt even right for you. sometimes u realize the love is strong even after so long, and u fight for her. but if u are the same person she left, you wont have a shot. so u have to move on and do some self improvement. not a new you, but a better you, might have a better shot at getting her back. but you need that time to urself to evaluate and let things play out.

so my advice breh is just move on and live life. get some hobbies, do things to improve yourself physically, mentally and emotionally and financially of course and let nature take its course.
 
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Lavish said:
I dont think im a bad boyfriend overall, i just made bad choices. I never really had someone kick me some game on how to deal wit these situations...when i met my ex i didnt think anything of it...i didnt expect us to be together for 6 years...and as time went on i kind of felt like i missed out on the single life because i didnt really have game when i was young...
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This shyt right here is 100% truth and EXACTLY how I felt. I was dating my ex in college just living, not worried about anything and alluva sudden we were clockin mad years. 7 total. But after about 3 I really started wondering if I was missing out on stuff, which led to some things that she never really got over.

Truthfully, even if someone kicks game it doesnt matter cuz you gotta go thru these things on your own to learn the lesson. :wow2: I remember when I was at full a$$hole mode I would look at other people hurting over their exes and not understand. but once I felt the pain I understood every fukking love song since the 70's.

Funny thing is NONE of this is new. Listen to some classic soul and nikkas was singing bout the same shyt. "I Miss You" "I Want You Back" etc. I just think its in a young man's nature to fukk up something good at a young age. The rare dudes are the ones who know exactly what they want at age 19 and are mentally strong enough to ignore temptation.


Lavish said:
This is exactly my situation :ohhh: man im prayin she lets me back in..so i can make her my wife...if she takes me back im out the game for good

How did u do it? Alot of begging?
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I feel you on this shyt too. Like if she gave me just one more chance I'd wife and be out the game. I will say tho, that you definitely shouldn't beg. That shyt makes you more unattractive. Honestly, what I've been doing is doing me and not worrying about it. Life has a funny way of sorting itself out. I just never wish to experience that kinda pain again. My own mama was like "I've never seen my son cry like that. EVER."

:wow:

It's doubly fukked up when you're genuinely sorry and know what it takes to change but you may never get that chance.

:wow:

Since then I've met a lot of good girls. My last one was cool, I probably should've rode it out. She was loyal. As you get older it becomes harder to trust new chicks. I swear I'll get it right on the next one tho. :smugbiden:
 
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I could have another her in a minute. As matter fact... she was there the whole time.

We don't love em out here. :salute:
 
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Mr Hate Coffee said:
This shyt right here is 100% truth and EXACTLY how I felt. I was dating my ex in college just living, not worried about anything and alluva sudden we were clockin mad years. 7 total. But after about 3 I really started wondering if I was missing out on stuff, which led to some things that she never really got over.

Truthfully, even if someone kicks game it doesnt matter cuz you gotta go thru these things on your own to learn the lesson. :wow2: I remember when I was at full a$$hole mode I would look at other people hurting over their exes and not understand. but once I felt the pain I understood every fukking love song since the 70's.

Funny thing is NONE of this is new. Listen to some classic soul and nikkas was singing bout the same shyt. "I Miss You" "I Want You Back" etc. I just think its in a young man's nature to fukk up something good at a young age. The rare dudes are the ones who know exactly what they want at age 19 and are mentally strong enough to ignore temptation.




I feel you on this shyt too. Like if she gave me just one more chance I'd wife and be out the game. I will say tho, that you definitely shouldn't beg. That shyt makes you more unattractive . Honestly, what I've been doing is doing me and not worrying about it. Life has a funny way of sorting itself out. I just never wish to experience that kinda pain again. My own mama was like "I've never seen my son cry like that. EVER."

:wow:

It's doubly fukked up when you're genuinely sorry and know what it takes to change but you may never get that chance.

:wow:

Since then I've met a lot of good girls. My last one was cool, I probably should've rode it out. She was loyal. As you get older it becomes harder to trust new chicks. I swear I'll get it right on the next one tho. :smugbiden:
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