It's Hard Getting over someone you truly love....

[Rawtid]

Man, how about getting over an Ex that was your first and only love (so far)

Got with my Ex in 05 "broke up" in 2010 because he thought he was Stevie J...2012, found out that he was still bangin Joseline because he buttdialed me during their arguement about him taking me to the movies the night before..oh and she sent me a message on FB..lol..2013 had to finally just block his as5 from calling me


...He texted me on Sunday saying "I wanna bone you"

Wow.

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

Wait, you dead ass cheated on your ex with her sister?

Unfortunately

 

[Seea]

1. Women emotionally detach from the relationship before they decide to end it, they talk to their friends, their mom months in advance before they end it, so they are already over you when they do.

Quoted for truth.

 

[Erdos]

Just broke up a month ago with my girl of over 4 years and it kills me just to think of how much I hurt her. Although I know that I made the right decision.

 

[Sierra Mist]

I deny this shyt all day and night, but I really miss this one girl. I think about what could have been all the time. At one point we were inseparable and I always was there for her even when shyt got really real for her. Now she really hates me because of some bullshyt that went down and I try to tell her what she thinks happened didn't actually happen. Instead of that we just kept fighting more and more to the point where she hates every piece of me.


I miss being her Masterpiece... She even said once "you know deep down you still love me."

fukk it... she was right. If you're reading this, I thought about you when this song came on.



You should know the significance of it. Ok. I'm done now.

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

fukk it, I'm calling her

 

[the bossman]

fukk it, I'm calling her

 

[SouthernBelle]

breh Im lowkey hoping my ex wants to let us try again.

I have a new chick...but unfortunately for her she cant compete with a 6 year relationship with my ex

....I say im content wit my new, but I know if my phone rings one day and my ex finally agrees to let us try again, my new main (who was once my side chick) is getting thrown in the bushes for good..

my new is a nice girl and its fukked up for her because she did nothing wrong . yet I made her a side chick (when she thought she was my main)...then when my real main broke up wit me...i graduated my side chick to take the place of my main...she has no idea she was once my side chick and is now a rebound...

I feel bad inside but a big part of me doesnt want to be out here with no steady

This is how women end up fukked up and bitter. Damn is really all I can say.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Yes it is

But the key is changing your perspective

Stop looking at that person as the end all to be all and you will
be fine. Getting over your fear of losing them or never finding
what they made you feel again, is what sets you apart from viewing
life as a child than as an adult.

 

[Gus Money]

I know it sucks but all you can do is keep it moving. You are just as compatible with literally thousands of other women out there.

 

[SouthernBelle]

Didn't you cheat on your ex with her sister? Some of you nikkas are just turrible.

So I guess you're perfect? I'm human...make mistakes, own up to them and keep pushing

 

[ltheghost]

Nah im out here fukin up...

I finally understand that 70/30 rule..and i should learned this when i was a youngin...now a n!gga 30yo and i literally threw away a top notch woman of 6 years for some strange...smh

That 70/30 rule is some of the best shyt I ever learned...learned at a young age and never had to be at the receiving end of a break up. I had one chick that I kept going on and off with but one day I just looked at her and said..."I think its over." She let out the saddest cry I have ever heard in my life. But you know the harder someone cries the more they were attached. Death is like that too. Learn to let go people.

 

[duckbutta]

I dated a chick for what...almost 2 and a half years...and we broke it off...both of us had some bad habits...had different concepts of what love was...so anyway...about 2 months out of it i am on some mr lonely shyt ( man i was so not used to sleeping in a bed by myself ) and next thing I know this bytch is already dating some other dude...shyt had me shook up because i was still full blown achey breaky heart over the shyt...and i figured she would to because she begged me not to break up with her and called me obsessively for about a week...

Get over me...in 8 weeks...what... ...u fukking bytch...I'm forever...I'm terminal cancer...I'm AIDS...you don't just "get over me"...you don't just take some medicine and give over all of this

But she did

I finally got over it...but even now years later sometimes i think about her and hope she gets gout in her foot and scabies on her clitoris...I hope whatever dude she is with gets turned out by a bunch of trannies and get's the words "the other pleasure" tattooed on his calves

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

Yes it is

But the key is changing your perspective

Stop looking at that person as the end all to be all and you will
be fine. Getting over your fear of losing them or never finding
what they made you feel again, is what sets you apart from viewing
life as a child than as an adult.

That takes time though. I don't know what my thought process will be a day, a month, a year...etc from now. I try to convince myself to move on, but I just can't. You don't have 2 ids with a person, put a ring on her finger and just give up like that. I'm not content with the notion of her not being in my life.

I know it sucks but all you can do is keep it moving. You are just as compatible with literally thousands of other women out there.

I don't have the patience to start over

you passing judgment?

 

[SouthernBelle]

That takes time though. I don't know what my thought process will be a day, a month, a year...etc from now. I try to convince myself to move on, but I just can't. You don't have 2 ids with a person, put a ring on her finger and just give up like that. I'm not content with the notion of her not being in my life.




I don't have the patience to start over



you passing judgment?

I am honestly in total shock that someone would seriously sleep with their girl/boyfriend's brother or sister. Like . I honestly only saw stuff like that on Jerry Springer.