It's Hard Getting over someone you truly love....

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Why do yall get the point when it's too late?

Can yall get this when we still love you?

LOL. It's just how young men are. I wish women understood the influences and pressures that are constantly put in young males heads. Hell, when I was a lil boy ALL my uncles and male family were pumping that player bullshyt in my head.

Plus think about it... The concept of love and emotions/feelings doesn't come naturally to us. So its natural for us to take that shyt for granted during a relationship. Look at all these stories, they're all the same. Dudes get comfortable and then the woman takes away her love and it hits like a sucker punch to the gut.

I mean women got their problems too but I don't want to get into that. At the end of the day I appreciate the differences between sexes. Plus in breakups BOTH parties are responsible.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

LOL. It's just how young men are. I wish women understood the influences and pressures that are constantly put in young males heads. Hell, when I was a lil boy ALL my uncles and male family were pumping that player bullshyt in my head.

Plus think about it... The concept of love and emotions/feelings doesn't come naturally to us. So its natural for us to take that shyt for granted during a relationship. Look at all these stories, they're all the same. Dudes get comfortable and then the woman takes away her love and it hits like a sucker punch to the gut.

I mean women got their problems too but I don't want to get into that. At the end of the day I appreciate the differences between sexes. Plus in breakups BOTH parties are responsible.

I guess that is an honest way of looking at things.
I can't blame y'all, I know when you fall, you all fall hard
And it takes you all a lot longer to get over a failed relationship
than we do, so I understand.It's just disheartening that immaturity, bad-timing
and miscommunication continues to mess up our relationships.

But that does not mean a good woman is gonna sit around and wait on
you to finally figure it out

 

[Oye]

I guess that is an honest way of looking at things.
I can't blame y'all, I know when you fall, you all fall hard
And it takes you all a lot longer to get over a failed relationship
than we do, so I understand.It's just disheartening that immaturity, bad-timing
and miscommunication continues to mess up our relationships.

But that does not mean a good woman is gonna sit around and wait on
you to finally figure it out

Live and learn I won't be making the same mistake again.


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[The Mad Titan]

I guess that is an honest way of looking at things.
I can't blame y'all, I know when you fall, you all fall hard
And it takes you all a lot longer to get over a failed relationship
than we do, so I understand.It's just disheartening that immaturity, bad-timing
and miscommunication continues to mess up our relationships.

But that does not mean a good woman is gonna sit around and wait on
you to finally figure it out

Your right though, 100% truth.

And y'all women shouldn't most time, a male isn't gonna learn anything from that, and if they do it takes far to long...

 

[Sierra Mist]

fukk I'm really fiending her. She was so crazy and when she talked shyt it turned me the fukk on. She really is no good for me and I don't know wtf is wrong with me.

And the last ex I had... fukk. I can't even talk about it on here how much I love her and want her back.

 

[ltheghost]

that has already gotten over you. Nothing you do or say will make it better. I regret everything. I salute the women that actually stick to their guns and not allow a dude to walk all over them. I can't even get mad. Damn, life sucks right about now.

It sucks but you must embark in the ritual that many former lovers go on for completion...Its called Revenge. When starting it dig two graves at the beginning. One for your heart and one for your former love. You gotta bury your emotions to do what is necessary...If you were really close to her, you have two options...

fukk a female enemy she can't stand to see you with.

Or go for the ether....

fukk a close friend of her's or even family member.

 

[raidersreceiver]

Is 5 months too long to still be hung up over someone? I been trying to get over my ex but I still think about her everyday

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Since when is love demonic?



fukk outta here

 

[Greenhornet]

women gotta realize together as a partnership ... life is alot stronger

men are out here acting wild cause they can on some alpha shyt

I never got into too many women at once cause thats a headache, ive tried it

I found a girl with past problems that I didnt consider and I got my heart broken. I stuck around and tried for at least 4 months after. Then I stopped, and she stalked me on and off for about a year and some change. She was just too into her past fukkery to admit coming back. Someone still needs to explain that stalking shyt to me, cause if you dont want somebody why stalk them?

but now I still smash girls here and there but I dont take women as serious at all
Ive had at least 3 long term ones with different types and they are all the same in the end. Women bring absolutely nothing you need to the table. Love is the best feeling but you can be in love with anything if you really try. Love riding a bike, thats something that can never leave you. Love a basketball ... you know what im saying?

women change like the wind, some days they wake up and dont even love themselves ... to put your trust into them is MORE THAN LOVE its crazy if you think about it

dont get dug too deep cause its a waste of time, money, effort, emotions, sleep, patience, compromise, etc ... what do you really gain that you would have lost besides emotion?

Im 25 and ive been talking to this 35 year old chick trying to jig me
and ive been letting her know im not having it, all I want is that p*ssy and maybe a few hours of her time. Talking to her would be a waste, it would just put you into the negative for YOURSELF


PS. I fukked that one girls best friend so it sort of worked itself out .. it was like a backup plan incase we never got together again. sort of like a "oh well"

 

[Born2BKing]

LOL. It's just how young men are. I wish women understood the influences and pressures that are constantly put in young males heads. Hell, when I was a lil boy ALL my uncles and male family were pumping that player bullshyt in my head.

Plus think about it... The concept of love and emotions/feelings doesn't come naturally to us. So its natural for us to take that shyt for granted during a relationship. Look at all these stories, they're all the same. Dudes get comfortable and then the woman takes away her love and it hits like a sucker punch to the gut.

I mean women got their problems too but I don't want to get into that. At the end of the day I appreciate the differences between sexes. Plus in breakups BOTH parties are responsible.

Yep, reminds me of this song to the T. R Kelly nailed this shyt.

 

[BamdaDon]

to be honest, I actually brought the drama to her life and her family. I hear you though. The thing I can hang my hat on is that she's a wonderful mother just as I am a great father to my boys. The communication is there on both ends on that front, but anything other than that she don't want to be involved with anymore. All the drama I brought to her family and her father told me personally if I truly love her and my children, that I should make it work. She's more upset with the embarrassment I brought to her family and mine. I have to deal with that. If it makes me look like a lame like my friends and fam say then so be it....I'm a lame with a purpose of getting my family back.

Damn I thought I did my sons mother bad. But breh

 

[little4209]

to be honest, I actually brought the drama to her life and her family. I hear you though. The thing I can hang my hat on is that she's a wonderful mother just as I am a great father to my boys. The communication is there on both ends on that front, but anything other than that she don't want to be involved with anymore. All the drama I brought to her family and her father told me personally if I truly love her and my children, that I should make it work. She's more upset with the embarrassment I brought to her family and mine. I have to deal with that. If it makes me look like a lame like my friends and fam say then so be it....I'm a lame with a purpose of getting my family back.

Not being judgemental..but I can respect that you wanna do whatever it takes to get your family back and I don't think that it makes you look like a lame...we all make mistakes and no one is perfect, of course...but knowingly going into a situation where you know its a huge possibilty that you might lose your family just doesn't seem worth it(im sure you know that)....

 

[swag2011]

Unfortunately

man i'm not even trying to judge you, but how does something like that happen? I thought that only happened on like Jerry Springer or Maury lol

 

[BedRoomI'z]

man i'm not even trying to judge you, but how does something like that happen? I thought that only happened on like Jerry Springer or Maury lol

shyt happens a lot

Like under the radar type stuff.

 

[Ashley Banks]

shyt happens a lot

Like under the radar type stuff.

It does?

I couldn't do that to my sisters.

You have to absolutely not give a fukk about your sibling to do that to them. cotdamn.