It's Hard Getting over someone you truly love....

[Oye]

I'm dealing with something similar. Knew this girl for almost ten years. Eventually told each other we loved each other. She ended up becoming a lesbian and I think she got married or domestic partnered or whatever the fukk they do on my birthday

Damn.......


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[raidersreceiver]

3 years here broskie.

damn breh how long has it been since you guys broke up and how often do you think about her?

 

[winb83]

can someone define "truly love" or "true love" the way i see it either you love them or you don't is true love greater than just love?

 

[Born2BKing]

damn breh how long has it been since you guys broke up and how often do you think about her?

Like 3 and a half years bro. I don't really think about her like that though but that shyt left me jaded as hell. She is still in the back of my mind and our situation prevents me from loving any female hard.

 

[MikelArteta]

can someone define "truly love" or "true love" the way i see it either you love them or you don't is true love greater than just love?

the only real love to me is between a mom/dad and their child.

 

[winb83]

the only real love to me is between a mom/dad and their child.

romantic love is always conditional love while the love of a child is a bond that exist outside the realm of conditional love. they love their child before they even knew who the child was.

 

[MikelArteta]

romantic love is always conditional love while the love of a child is a bond that exist outside the realm of conditional love. they love their child before they even knew who the child was.

yup, and even love between a man and a woman can end, that bond between parents and their children even if dude was a deadbeat for 30 years even if their kid is a serial rapist mom will still be in the court loving her son when that life sentence is handed down.


The love between parents and their children is true love, even the love between siblings get less when say one marries or gets in a ltr as their husband or wife becomes more important and they love them more than their sister or brother

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

What wound up happening with this?

 

[Lavish]

What wound up happening with this?

I had high hopes, but wasnt meant to be. lesson learned

 

[The Mad Titan]

I had high hopes, but wasnt meant to be. lesson learned

Yeah its hard accepting the fact that you might have screwed up and lost something good...or its just not going to happen. But the sooner the better.

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

@ this thread. I think it's safe to say I got over her lol...still love her though

 

[Remote]

Yes it is.
I don't know what works for others, but the only thing that worked for me was time.
It just takes time, and eventually it all fades.

I only had to deal with that twice though.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Yes it is.
I don't know what works for others, but the only thing that worked for me was time.
It just takes time, and eventually it all fades.

I only had to deal with that twice though.

Twice.... Once is more than enough for me. I aint trying to ever go through that again.

 

[Remote]

Twice.... Once is more than enough for me. I aint trying to ever go through that again.

It's hard to control who you fall in love with.
The first one had me fukked up for a long time, though.
I dunno. I only got 2 real loves under my belt and I'm 33. That probably is on the low side.

I bet most people have more.

 

[The Mad Titan]

It's hard to control who you fall in love with.
The first one had me fukked up for a long time, though.
I dunno. I only got 2 real loves under my belt and I'm 33. That probably is on the low side.

I bet most people have more.

Yeah I'm just getting over a little something ( a year after the fact), and its still difficult because we sometimes keep in contact still. I swear everything is all good until a phone call or text comes through then the headache starts all over again. The sad thing is we don't even argue or fight now.... just too many battle scars from the past.