It's not your fault you can't get Black women, blame your parents. [Black Men]

[BocaRear]

ehhh I feel like this misses out on a few characteristic Black women seek out all demographics. It'd actually be good if they sought out wealth because then the urkels would actually have a better shot.

No doubt that a man who has a high social status and is dominant is valued highly by women, it's an animalistic thing.

Money is just a boost, it's the great equaliser. Some nikkas lucky enough to be born HOH and others aren't. That's why when nikkas get money, they get so much p*ssy thrown at em that p*ssy loses its value to em and they brush women off like nothing which in turn gets them even more women

A lot of women like to be subjugated and are naturally submissive, that's why they have all these crazy weird fantasies about men "taking them" in their novels as evident in that 50 shades weird shyt

Of course this is a taboo subject to talk about, and to any rational intelligent man you'd look at these women like "" but it's the TRUE female nature.

A lot of urkel type men can't get their heads around this because they assume women operate like men and want to be wholly respected and treated as our equals which is not true.

 

[CinnaSlim]

This explains why chicks tell certain guys they look like they date white women.

 

[Will Ross]

Obama was raised around whites but he married a black woman and knows how to talk to black people.

 

[audemarzz]

This explains why chicks tell certain guys they look like they date white women.

go watch she's gotta have it even if you already seen it go watch it again

 

[Matt504]

Care to further explain the highlighted? What exactly is the "black experience" and why is it something that some parents feel the need to "protect" their kids from?

Parents of Black children don't want their children to be killed by the police, many believe they can reduce the odds of this happening by shaping their child's behavior and the way they might be perceived by cops in the event they're stopped. This doesn't guarantee that the child won't be harmed but it's better than doing nothing. This is part of the Black experience, being consumed with protecting the Black life at all costs.

 

[marcuz]

how about black mothers teach their sons to worship black women. while teaching their daughters that nikkas aint worth a fukk.

that creates incompatibility off top.

 

[BocaRear]

I agree but if the parents raise the children in predominately Black neighborhoods, they shouldn't keep the children sheltered, put them into some sort of constructive activity with other Black children, whether that's sports or a reading club, they need to be socialized with other Black children.


We have enough women here to dedicate a thread to asking women what they want in men. When that option is suggested, it's usually dismissed by men who claim women will just lie about their preferences.

Go ahead and make a thread asking women what they want

They'll just tell you what you want to hear

Actions speak louder than words.

 

[CinnaSlim]

ur right, I believe we had a similar case with brothas dat aint get shape-ups.

That was my thread lol. People called me all types of names.

 

[Guile]

and where do the women raised to be "lames" fit into all of this?

the ones typically found on internet forums

@Matt504

 

[Matt504]

This explains why chicks tell certain guys they look like they date white women.

pretty much. even if that's not the case these women are basically saying, "you'd be a better fit for a white woman"

Go ahead and make a thread asking women what they want

They'll just tell you what you want to hear

Actions speak louder than words.

just as I thought, you wouldn't believe them anyway so it's pointless.

 

[Poitier]

No doubt that a man who has a high social status and is dominant is valued highly by women, it's an animalistic thing.

Money is just a boost, it's the great equaliser. Some nikkas lucky enough to be born HOH and others aren't. That's why when nikkas get money, they get so much p*ssy thrown at em that p*ssy loses its value to em and they brush women off like nothing which in turn gets them even more women

A lot of women like to be subjugated and are naturally submissive, that's why they have all these crazy weird fantasies about men "taking them" in their novels as evident in that 50 shades weird shyt

Of course this is a taboo subject to talk about, and to any rational intelligent man you'd look at these women like "" but it's the TRUE female nature.

A lot of urkel type men can't get their heads around this because they assume women operate like men and want to be wholly respected and treated as our equals which is not true.

IDK man you are in London so the dynamic is different but AA women would prefer a Black man with swag or who was attractive but made less than them over an Urkel who was making a big bankroll. Suburban black girls will be drawn to a brotha from the city while being surrounded by urkel types with futures making high-end salaries. The broke nikka who slangs good dikk but stays on his girls couch playing Madden or driving her whip while she works a decent job is real. I don't feel that wealth is as big a factor as it should be because then the urkels wouldn't be starving.

 

[iBrowse]

This explains why chicks tell certain guys they look like they date white women.

I got that before but to be fair it's also an indictment on the black women who say that since in some instances it's rooted in ignorance and insecurity on their part.

 

[Matt504]

and where do the women raised to be "lames" fit into all of this?

the ones typically found on internet forums

@Matt504

women raised to be lames won't have trouble getting dikk if they wanted it, that's kinda the difference.

 

[Neuromancer]

After discovering that Walmart's produce selection, specifically the apples, was lacking, I decided to go to Sprouts and do the rest of my shopping for the week.

As I was pulling up, I see a Black mother and her son exiting the store and the son wasn't anymore than 16 years old, completely swagless, wearing cac sandals and as I watched him trek across the walkway, it dawned on me...



Black middle class parents are socializing their sons to only be appealing to white women, even if those sons have interests in Black women.

This is what many of the "nice guys" here suffer from, they are attracted to Black women, some of these "nice guys" might even be good looking but when they're in the presence of Black women, there's no connection because they don't know how to communicate with Black women.

There's a certain rhythm in communications between Black people, a cadence that comes naturally to Black people but it can effectively be overwritten with a Caucasian cadence if the Black person consumes too much Caucasian media. Television sitcoms do the most damage because that's where Black children are subconsciously infected with Caucasian rhythms in speech patterns, behaviors, gestures, humor etc.

When it's time for these Black men to communicate with Black women who haven't been infected with Caucasian rhythms, there's only so much they can discuss before the Black woman determines that something is off about the Black man. Oftentimes, the woman can't quite put her finger on it and concludes that he's either gay or a weirdo, she knows he's nice but something is offputting about him and even though she may find him physically attractive, that's where it begins and ends.

These Black men try again and again to win the attention of and create a connection with Black women but never reach the conclusion that they aren't able to because they're infected with Caucasian rhythms. Their jokes only resonate with white people, they don't know how to dress because their swag has been reduced to dangerously low levels, they witness the Black women they would like to attract with other Black men that they cannot relate to, Black men they consider to be lower than them, thugs.

"How is he able to get with her and I'm smarter than him, I'M THE ONE WHO ONE THE SCIENCE FAIR, I'M THE ONE WHO CAN QUOTE SHAKESPEAR??"

Eventually, these Black men grow to hate the Black women who won't give them the time of the day AND the Black men who are able to win their attention.

Instead of looking inward to address the possible issues, these Black men often attempt the behaviors of the thugs they hate, they intentionally seek to treat women badly in hopes of gaining access to their bodies, they reduce themselves to shells of their former selves, role players in a game where the game prize isn't p*ssy but rather the joy of deceiving a woman into believe they are something that they are not.

*observation noted*

Why exactly is this an issue you care about?

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Imma tell my kids the truth of u procreate or marry a non African imma write u out the will