It's not your fault you can't get Black women, blame your parents. [Black Men]

[DrX]

u can get a BW, u just gotta manipulate her into loving u....have the appearance of what she want....but be yourself until her brain patterns accept reality .....

 

[Matt504]

You're implying intelligence and winning science fairs is a Caucasian influenced feature in black people, Which I don't agree with. Then go on to say these black women are not attracted to intelligence. Which I agree with, most women of all races are not attracted to intelligence.
For the most part you are correct.
This line of thinking is problematic however.

According to your theory, the best solution then for these these steve urkel brothers is to date white girls (because that is what they were conditioned to and who they'll attract the most) and when they make something of themselves, the black girls who earlier rejected them will come on to them but by then it'll be too late. Then we're back at square one.

No, I'm suggesting that "nice guys" believe that winning science fairs should make them a more desirable mate than the "thugs" they claim women choose over them.

 

[How Sway?]

All whitewashed/suburban black folks should, in theory, link up with eachother

But fromwhat I've seen a lot of black girls from the burbs seek hood nikkas from the city or the other side of town if they cant snag an athlete,

and the boys just run off with non black girls and mixed chicks that act white.

Meanwhile the black girl who's lowkey and about her studies is pretty much ignored and forgotten

 

[TEH]

I don't disagree with the first sentence but women do not approach men. These women might as well not exist for the kind of men especially since nerdy Black girls are open to dating non-nerdy Black men which is where the imbalance comes from imo.

I'm not talking about a woman grabbing your dikk and saying fukk me I'm talking about women giving you signals that she's feeling you.

and yeah your last sentence is probably true

 

[Black Nate Grey]

No, I'm suggesting that "nice guys" believe that winning science fairs should make them a more desirable mate than the "thugs" they claim women choose over them.

OK, so.
If these black women don't want to get with the future executive steve urkel because they are not obligated to. (which I rock with)
Steve is now forced or rather free to switch his focus to white women, because he too is not obligated to wait for the women who rejected him to wake up.

Black women are not obligated to choose Intelligent, Awkward, nerd guy.
The above Black men are not obligated to wait for black women to mature, and if he gets with someone who chose him...

No one owes anyone anything.

Where is the problem?

 

[Still Benefited]

Op got a point,i seen thecoli thread where nikkas show what they wearing or new clothing they want to purchase....lets just say,it didnt look like they was tryna catch no sistas

But its black women in the suburbs too,you do realize that?they havent been exposed to the aura of a real street nikka,so they probaly wont find the young black male suburbanites swag to he unusual,or unbearable....if youna corny nikka find you a corny black woman,if you a nerdy black man find you a nerdy azz black woman.....i guess everybody likes a challenge though,but dont be mad if getting hood chicks ends up being challenging....ive had my struggles with sophisticated,intelligent women....luckily moufpiece trumps all that other bullshyt

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I can just look at some dudes and tell they don't get attention from black women. People act like it's a bad thing to admit things like swag matter more to black women than other races of women.

 

[Anti-Anime]

i don't know what black man or woman would dress and teach their son how to appeal to she-devils

 

[How Sway?]

All yall nikkas cosigning this...

Don't get mad when the White people at your job and your school ask you about Black people...

When Kyle asks you why Black people don't listen to anything but Hip Hop music...

You better talk about "Black rhythm"

When Kyle ask you why Black people keep making up words like thot...

You better talk about "Black cadence"

When White people start coming to you to talk about "Blackness"...you better not get offended.

 

[How Sway?]

you know damn well slides aint the same as the sandals africans/islanders wear

Throw on a dashiki and some khaki shorts and you're pretty much garunteed to have any woman within a mile radius

#originalmanswagg

 

[Free White & 21]

OP has a fair point. Somethin similar happened to me as a young man.

I was always forced to speak proper english as a kid. Couldn't even say can't and ain't
My mom never taught me shyt about blackness, pops wasn't around.
My mom stayed listening to pop music, and consuming white media (dynasty, dallas, matt houston, etc)
My mom taught me friends have no color, be open minded etc.

The result of these teachings hit their apex around the time i was 14-18 years old when me and my mom moved out of my granny's house. Living in a hood full of people i didn't know and didn't care to know so i was no longer engaging with black people. This is when i became Mr Multicultural. I was running thru the city doing graffiti with non blacks, coveting non black women. I was engaging in non black activities like racing imports, eating sushi and pho, playing street fighter, watching anime, etc. I stopped shooting hoop. My swag was kinda off. I dressed differently. Black males and females from the hood were put off by me. Black females wasn't really fukkin with me AT ALL.

Once i moved back with my granny in my old hood i started to reconnect with my people and get my swag back but now i had balance. I still retained all i learned in the world from being around so many non blacks but i wasn't awkward anymore. Even lost my proper accent (kinda wish i kept that sometimes). Black women definitely cooperate now, and non black women still cooperate but i haven't messed with a non black woman in a few years...

 

[How Sway?]

Op got a point,i seen thecoli thread where nikkas show what they wearing or new clothing they want to purchase....lets just say,it didnt look like they was tryna catch no sistas

But its black women in the suburbs too,you do realize that?they havent been exposed to the aura of a real street nikka,so they probaly wont find the young black male suburbanites swag to he unusual,or unbearable....if youna corny nikka find you a corny black woman,if you a nerdy black man find you a nerdy azz black woman.....i guess everybody likes a challenge though,but dont be mad if getting hood chicks ends up being challenging....ive had my struggles with sophisticated,intelligent women....luckily moufpiece trumps all that other bullshyt

A lot of Black girls in the burbs prefer a 'street nikka' or just a dude from the hood.

Just like in the movie ATL, though it was exaggerated for entertainment , similar shyt happens in real life.

Most suburban black boys aren't getting with a hood chick though . Come to think of it the two are like oil & water.
So I see the OPs point

 

[Silkk]

OP has a fair point. Somethin similar happened to me as a young man.

I was always forced to speak proper english as a kid. Couldn't even say can't and ain't
My mom never taught me shyt about blackness, pops wasn't around.
My mom stayed listening to pop music, and consuming white media (dynasty, dallas, matt houston, etc)
My mom taught me friends have no color, be open minded etc.

The result of these teachings hit their apex around the time i was 14-18 years old when me and my mom moved out of my granny's house. Living in a hood full of people i didn't know and didn't care to know so i was no longer engaging with black people. This is when i became Mr Multicultural. I was running thru the city doing graffiti with non blacks, coveting non black women. I was engaging in non black activities like racing imports, eating sushi and pho, playing street fighter, watching anime, etc. I stopped shooting hoop. My swag was kinda off. I dressed differently. Black males and females from the hood were put off by me. Black females wasn't really fukkin with me AT ALL.

Once i moved back with my granny in my old hood i started to reconnect with my people and get my swag back but now i had balance. I still retained all i learned in the world from being around so many non blacks but i wasn't awkward anymore. Even lost my proper accent (kinda wish i kept that sometimes). Black women definitely cooperate now, and non black women still cooperate but i haven't messed with a non black woman in a few years...

Why do some of yall act like there's not black people outside of the hood though

 

[Still Benefited]

A lot of Black girls in the burbs prefer a 'street nikka' or just a dude from the hood.

Just like in the movie ATL, though it was exaggerated for entertainment , similar shyt happens in real life.

Most suburban black boys aren't getting with a hood chick though . Come to think of it the two are like oil & water.
So I see the OPs point

I dont know,if younare completley swaggless and void of blackness outside of your skin i think you would have problems with black women,and probaly any woman really....overall though i think these suburb nikkas is doin alright....at worst most of them nikkas is like Drake or one of these corny instagram nikkas i dont find funny.....,might come off corny to hood nikkas and hood chicks....but to a suburb chick i dont think thats a no go....my sister and niece stay in the burbs,and when im out there i see a bunch of i wont say corny,but obviously young suburban nikkas out there with cute suburban black girls or other....but they still seem to have a sense of black culture and style.....maybe im not in the wealthy enough suburbs where its a disconnect....but the black folks where my sister live are far from hood....i just dont think the dissconect is usually that great where black suburbanites is cut off from black folks like that...and i doubt its that bad for majority of coli nikkas or surburb cats,at least i hope..


A square nikka can still be charismatic,and i think that will be fine for most suburban chicks....if you just swagless,u just swagless among all demographics....so if you swagless in the suburbs,the more charismatic square nikkas gon still take all the bytches.

Plus overall the times have changed breh,i dont think street nikkas is as desired by younger women.....i think they into the fashionista,goofy types that could be popular on instagram now

 

[PartyHeart]

Don't think I agree with this. Its not like this is a dynamic that is only present in the Black community. I really think its as simple as them being extremely socially awkward. They would not and mostly do not fare better with non-Black women. That is, until they have good jobs/money and can offer those women more than their social awkwardness and passive aggressive hatred for women.

Additionally I think they are ignoring Black women who they would connect better with. There is a Black female equivalent that no one likes to talk about, and she's just as isolated in the dating world but she doesn't end up specifically hating the opposite sex in her race like these guys. She also doesn't find solace is being approached to be used for sex any more than the socially awkward Black male would appreciate being approach to be used for money, so there is no real imbalance.