Bless't
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Yo we got a man pretending to be a woman asking men online why men and women can't be friends
What a time to be alive
It's true, men and women can't be friends.
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If the relationship is not currently and never has been sexual then it is plutonic. Not every man is a slave to his dikk. I understand that most of you are and I am sorry you have to endure that but don't put that on everyone.
You're pretty much saying that no man is ever trust worthy. All it takes is for someone to offer you some ass and you can not say no. Again, please don't put the way you choose to live your life on everyone. I have seen plenty of men turn down sex. However, if that's the case I guess women shouldn't even bother with you all since you are incapable of sexual loyalty. Might as well just become lesbos since woman are the ones able to ever say no to sex. Noted...
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philmonroe
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Maybe you just ugly so that's why your "friends" don't want nothing to do with you. maybe you that type of girl/friend. No every dude don't think with their dikk but unless they gay or something whats the point of kicking it with girls most of the time? The commonalities usually aren't there in the things that are into and this is coming from somebody that has girls as just friends. Outside of some tv shows, some pop culture stuff of course, and partying we don't have things in common where we going to be kicking it all the time.
I have never been called ugly a day in my life...literally...never...not once...not in the most heated argument...not when people literally wanted to fight me...not one time... no one would speak such ridiculousness.
But I guess me being ugly is the only way you can fathom that there are people out there who don't think with the genitals. Sorry you don't know people like that. But I am blessed enough to know people (not many) who want more out of life than herpes and baby mommas/daddies.Again, so are you saying that you can never trust a man? You guys are just walking dikks ready to jump on the first decent/semi-decent opportunities. And why would a woman want to be honest and be faithful to such a being? Should I just give up hope b/c a truly faithful man doesn't exist? Just one lacks opportunities.
philmonroe
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Its a lot of ugly people that haven't been called ugly to their face don't mean they aren't ugly. Also even if you were I didn't expect the truth so I was just saying it.I have never been called ugly a day in my life...literally...never...not once...not in the most heated argument...not when people literally wanted to fight me...not one time... no one would speak such ridiculousness.
Again, so are you saying that you can never trust a man? You guys are just walking dikks ready to jump on the first decent/semi-decent opportunities. And why would a woman want to be honest and be faithful to such a being? Should I just give up hope b/c a truly faithful man doesn't exist? Just one lacks opportunities.
I guess on top of being potentially ugly you also can't read cause fukk does genitals have to do with the later stuff I mentioned on why girls/guys usually can't be friends? I put that stuff so you couldn't come back with the exact emotional bullshyt you still ended up spewing. Getting out them feelings my online friend. Once you do that your questions you sillily asked are mainly answered. If you have others still let me know. Don't know what truly faithful man has to do with friendship though. Neither party has to be "truly faithful" to a friend that's language reserved for dating/marriage buddy.
It was at that moment that I just knew that there was no such thing as a platonic relationship between men and women.
if someone told you otherwise their lying
You sound so mad.
You can't connect the dots. It's cool. At least you admit it. 
No need to go further. Good luck with all those friendships. Hopefully they give in...one day. philmonroe
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The usual "mad" from online weirdos when you disagree with something they say routine. You weirdos are all so calm and I'm soooo mad gotcha even if it isn't true just disagree with you. Can't connect what dots. Its nothing you said that needs to be connected. I don't care if they give in cause I'm not trying to fukk and I said so in the first quote to you. You're just being an emotional person that wants to be right but you're not cause nothing I wrote matches with what your saying. Take that wack shyt back to them fukkboy friends of yoursYou sound so mad.
I guess you didn't get it. I ended the conversation. No need for you to keep speaking...oh and I have one friend of the opposite sex dude not the many you seem to have accumulated.
Good bye.philmonroe
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Why you keep responding then? Anywho I can't help who I grew up around that I'm still friends with like that of the opposite sex. So try again clownI guess you didn't get it. I ended the conversation. No need for you to keep speaking...oh and I have one friend of the opposite sex dude not the many you seem to have accumulated.
hol up. that last story. of course he would say dont post that to FB. of course his wife didnt know he was at your crib. there is no way to explain "uhh hey bae...remember that one girl i always talk to ...uhhh i ended up sleeping at her house over night (bu but we didnt do anything."I remember a long time ago this weirdo who has trying to unsuccessfully get in my pants at the time was like, "I hope you know ***** wants to fukk you, right? All guys are like this. They are only friends with girls they want to fukk."
I gave him theand told him to
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But years, I couldn't help but wonder if maybe he was right.
1) I've noticed that some guys will straight up act like complete a$$holes to their female friends as soon as theyare getting some ass on a consistent basis on some bird geta girlfriend.
2) And actually, I've noticed that most of my "male friends" disappear once they get into serious relationships. Hm.
3) The married ones aren't safe either. I had known this dude for long while and we'd been friends through some long term relationships and we continued to be friends after he got married and had kids (he's a bit older than me). We'd text a lot, mainly about sports and I'd sell him old laptops and iPads of mine that I didn't need. Seemed pretty harmless to me.
Anyway, he ended up coming to my city and he didn't have a place to stay and so I hooked him up. Nothing happened. He took the bed and I took the couch since I was working late that night.
Anyway after he left, he sent me a text like, "Don't post anything on FB about me being there; my wife doesn't know I came to visit." And I was like,.
It was at that moment that I just knew that there was no such thing as a platonic relationship between men and women.
stop it .even though i believe yall didnt do anything it happens. aint no way his wife would believe it. so he coudlnt tell her that. and thats just a situation where its hard for a married man to be really tight friends with another woman. your wife is supposed to be your bestee not your old bestee. cause next thing you know, yall having marital problems and he's crying on your shoulder. you might throw him a piece just cause you feel sorry for a breh(women do it all the time).
it is what it is. you can be best buddies up until he's married. then you have to fall way back.
The Devil's Advocate
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You clearly are taking this way too far. I didn't say I never turned down sex. I never said men never turned down sex.
But you are trying to argue with biology. If a man is attracted to a woman, he would like to have sex with her. Yes he can choose to not try and go for it. But that becomes another matter when that same woman he's attracted to, is giving him the chance to have more. Maybe not even sex. What if she says let's see where this goes as in dating first.
You basically think men are going to turn down everything they want in a woman. You're already great friends. So he likes you, you get along, spend time, have fun..... Then throw on top he's attracted to you.... Then top it off with she wants you too
But he gonna be like "nah we too good of friends"
Women who have throw interest in a male friends way and heard that response. Are simply not attractive to that man.
Not calling you ugly. Some men find Halle berry unattractive. Some don't like dark women. Some don't like tall women. Another man might find my 10, to be his 4.
But you women are really naive to believe guys won't take more if you offered. And those who admit they do aren't just led by their dikk. They are just truthful
But you refuse to actually put any action to proving your point. Meanwhile I have a globe full of woman who have all met men trying to worm their way out the friend zone
But you are trying to argue with biology. If a man is attracted to a woman, he would like to have sex with her. Yes he can choose to not try and go for it. But that becomes another matter when that same woman he's attracted to, is giving him the chance to have more. Maybe not even sex. What if she says let's see where this goes as in dating first.
You basically think men are going to turn down everything they want in a woman. You're already great friends. So he likes you, you get along, spend time, have fun..... Then throw on top he's attracted to you.... Then top it off with she wants you too
But he gonna be like "nah we too good of friends"
Women who have throw interest in a male friends way and heard that response. Are simply not attractive to that man.
Not calling you ugly. Some men find Halle berry unattractive. Some don't like dark women. Some don't like tall women. Another man might find my 10, to be his 4.
But you women are really naive to believe guys won't take more if you offered. And those who admit they do aren't just led by their dikk. They are just truthful
But you refuse to actually put any action to proving your point. Meanwhile I have a globe full of woman who have all met men trying to worm their way out the friend zone[/QUOTE]
I never said all men who are "friends" with women are genuine. I said I have a male friend who I believe to be a genuine friend based upon the history of our friendship. I also believe that he is not my friend b/c he is waiting to sleep with me. Do I think he thinks I am ugly? No. But I do think we are not compatible relationship wise. Why else would we be friends?
Ya'll men are something else. If we call you dogs who can't control your dikks you are offended but if we give you credit for having the ability to showing any type of restraint you argue against that pretty much saying "nope you must be ugly b/c that is the only circumstance a man shows retstains." Is it Ooh Cha Wally or One Mic?
As far as proving my point...you really want me to go and pretend like I want to mess up my friendship to prove a point? So he can now look at me sideways. I ain't trying to fukk and he hasn't done anything to make me think he is. That is enough proof for me. If it ain't for you oh motherfukking well.
The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
again.. i didn't say 99% of what you're arguing aboutI never said all men who are "friends" with women are genuine. I said I have a male friend who I believe to be a genuine friend based upon the history of our friendship. I also believe that he is not my friend b/c he is waiting to sleep with me. Do I think he thinks I am ugly? No. But I do think we are not compatible relationship wise. Why else would we be friends?
Ya'll men are something else. If we call you dogs who can't control your dikks you are offended but if we give you credit for having the ability to showing any type of restraint you argue against that pretty much saying "nope you must be ugly b/c that is the only circumstance a man shows retstains." Is it Ooh Cha Wally or One Mic?
As far as proving my point...you really want me to go and pretend like I want to mess up my friendship to prove a point? So he can now look at me sideways. I ain't trying to fukk and he hasn't done anything to make me think he is. That is enough proof for me. If it ain't for you oh motherfukking well.
let me break down MY points.. not what others are saying that you're trying to throw on me
basically that dude you THINK is a genuine friend... just might be... as men... we would fukk our genuine friends IF WE KNEW YOU WANTED TO...
we will NOT try all the time
we will NOT risk it to tell you
we might REALLY like you on a friend level
all i'm saying is... if you are beautiful to us... you are a great friend to us... we get along... we hang out.. we spend time together.. we laugh and love and enjoy life together...........
women need to stop thinking that it all stops right there and that they could hop in bed butt naked and he'd say "no no no no no we are too good of friends"
is that being a dog? hell no it's not... you're actually being a good man not acting on your impulses... that doesn't change the fact that the impulse is there
and it seems women are always so shocked by this... "b-b-b-b-b-but i never knew ted even thought of me like that" meanwhile your man is like "bytch i told you about ted 9 months ago"
now why is this different from women... cause women will find a man attractive, and all the other things mentally... but WILL say "no no no no no, we are too good of friends and i don't think of you like that"
men do not separate... we just suppress