It's true, men and women can't be friends.

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I remember a long time ago this weirdo who has trying to unsuccessfully get in my pants at the time was like, "I hope you know ***** wants to fukk you, right? All guys are like this. They are only friends with girls they want to fukk."

I gave him the :rudy: and told him to :camby:.


But years, I couldn't help but wonder if maybe he was right. :patrice:


1) I've noticed that some guys will straight up act like complete a$$holes to their female friends as soon as they are getting some ass on a consistent basis on some bird get a girlfriend.

2) And actually, I've noticed that most of my "male friends" disappear once they get into serious relationships. Hm. :dame:

3) The married ones aren't safe either. I had known this dude for long while and we'd been friends through some long term relationships and we continued to be friends after he got married and had kids (he's a bit older than me). We'd text a lot, mainly about sports and I'd sell him old laptops and iPads of mine that I didn't need. Seemed pretty harmless to me.

Anyway, he ended up coming to my city and he didn't have a place to stay and so I hooked him up. Nothing happened. He took the bed and I took the couch since I was working late that night.

Anyway after he left, he sent me a text like, "Don't post anything on FB about me being there; my wife doesn't know I came to visit." And I was like, :wtf:.


It was at that moment that I just knew that there was no such thing as a platonic relationship between men and women.:francis:
Speak for yourself. My best friend and I have been bff for years, stayed in each others homes with no problem. He has never tried anything. We do speak less when one or the other is in a relationship but it's a mutual respect thing.
 
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[QUOTE="Howie Doroughberg, post: 18035876, member: 23]




Relax... most people do have platonic relationships with the opposite sex. There's just levels to it and not every guy is trying to fukk every female friend, especially when his options are vast and varied.



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This makes sense but a lot of us don't have the luxury, hence the stereotype.
 
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This is true. You can try to be a friend to a woman, decide to keep it platonic but it still won't work. Female friends are far too selfish. shyt's always about their issues. Plus, if a male friend asks me for advice, he gets the advice from me truthful but with respect. A female friend just wants you to say she's right/victim no matter how wrong she is.

Only post in here that I fully agree with. I've never been the manwhore type but after the bs I've encountered dealing with the women I was OK just being friends with I've decided that if I'm going to be dealing with the typical bs then i might as well try and get sex out of it. the only women you will see me putting effort into spending time with / "hanging out" are women I want to bed period ....

The ones that still hang around are ones that are probably attracted to me but i don't care for ....
 
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A simple solution is to know the difference between a friend and an associates. I see it all the time that women think they can place male associates who want to smash in the friend zone. Some of you ladies know those dudes want to fukk but keep them around after a knowledging that your male associates want more than a friendship. :martin:

It's called being an attention hoe. But honestly i don't mind these types of hoes as they make the slow periods go quickly. You know when you are not getting any action, being on p*ssy patrol and checking up on your hoes every so often on some :steviej:gives you that small burst of endorphins that keeps you slugging through the trenches.
 
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I have plenty of female friends. Quite a few of them I wanna fukk but I don't bring it up unless they do.

Why is it so difficult to make acquaintances these days without some ulterior motive?

Like, can we just smoke blunts and chill without us trying to use one another?

i was about to ask what world do you live in, but looking at this nikka's avatar come to find out he can't even answer that shyt straight :pachaha:

its earthly issues nikka, stay on your bytch ass ISS:camby:
 
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socializing is fundamentally a dishonest / manipulative game. ppl who are extremely good with others and have a wide social net know this. we all use each other to some degree, but some of us, clearly are more comfortable than others. machiavelli (nicolo not pac), the gawd been already known this.
 

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Check this out, if the chick aint into sports, cars, or video games we aint hanging out period. I dont gossip, I dont know anything about womens hair, nor do I care about the lastest fashion. Is it possible to have a platonic friendship with a females yes but she has to be into what I like or its not a go.
 

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i was about to ask what world do you live in, but looking at this nikka's avatar come to find out he can't even answer that shyt straight :pachaha:

its earthly issues nikka, stay on your bytch ass ISS:camby:
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don't hate cuz my whip is flyer than yours :wow:
up here you always be high :ahh:

politics and cism don't apply up here
just the search for knowledge and pushing frontiers :wow:
 

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Well, to be fair, she is low key the jealous type. She'd friend all his female friends. I remember she friended me the minute I commented on his wall and I was like :what:. I was insulting the dude on his wall like I always do. :russ:
Honestly if we was cool on some friendship ish I would ask the same thing of you he trusted you as a friend to ask you to not post anything and even seems to have respected you when he slept at the crib. Would be hard to explain to your wife that you crashed at female friends house and just slept most woman would be on some spiteful ish after hearing that.
 
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