I remember a long time ago this weirdo who has trying to unsuccessfully get in my pants at the time was like, "I hope you know ***** wants to fukk you, right? All guys are like this. They are only friends with girls they want to fukk."
I gave him the

and told him to

.
But years, I couldn't help but wonder if maybe he was right.
1) I've noticed that some guys will straight up act like complete a$$holes to their female friends as soon as they
are getting some ass on a consistent basis on some bird get a girlfriend.
2) And actually, I've noticed that most of my "male friends" disappear once they get into serious relationships. Hm.
3) The married ones aren't safe either. I had known this dude for long while and we'd been friends through some long term relationships and we continued to be friends after he got married and had kids (he's a bit older than me). We'd text a lot, mainly about sports and I'd sell him old laptops and iPads of mine that I didn't need. Seemed pretty harmless to me.
Anyway, he ended up coming to my city and he didn't have a place to stay and so I hooked him up. Nothing happened. He took the bed and I took the couch since I was working late that night.
Anyway after he left, he sent me a text like, "Don't post anything on FB about me being there; my wife doesn't know I came to visit." And I was like,

.
It was at that moment that I just knew that there was no such thing as a platonic relationship between men and women.