It's true, men and women can't be friends.

[The Devil's Advocate]

I have plenty of female friends. Quite a few of them I wanna fukk but I don't bring it up unless they do.

Why is it so difficult to make acquaintances these days without some ulterior motive?

Like, can we just smoke blunts and chill without us trying to use one another?

nikka you just said you wanna fukk your female friends

Then asked why we can't have ulterior motives


Wanting to fukk your friend isn't what you supposed to be doing. You supposed to be 159% friendship only. The fact you'd fukk if they let you. But hide it and don't try. Is exactly why men and women can't be JUST friends

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Speak for yourself. My best friend and I have been bff for years, stayed in each others homes with no problem. He has never tried anything. We do speak less when one or the other is in a relationship but it's a mutual respect thing.

Next time he spends the night. Slip into his bed butt naked and see if he kicks you out cause you "too good of friends"

 

[joeychizzle]

nikka you just said you wanna fukk your female friends

Then asked why we can't have ulterior motives


Wanting to fukk your friend isn't what you supposed to be doing. You supposed to be 159% friendship only. The fact you'd fukk if they let you. But hide it and don't try. Is exactly why men and women can't be JUST friends

well not all of them lol
i mean like, it's not on my mind much. i can chill with them for a whole day and not think about smashing
what i should've said is would instead of wanna

poor choice of words

but i get your point though
at some point it will cross your mind

 

[Jimi Swagger]

Never experienced that. Sometimes friends grow apart due to life changes such as marriage, children, or relocation etc but you should still keep in touch and send/receive a "how r things" or "thinking about u" text every now and again, if they are true friends. Even if there is a lapse in time you catch up as if you have talked to them everyday. I've always developed close and lasting relationships with the opposite sex, one of the few that has kept childhood friends which bothered by partners, especially my current one who is a jealous person.

 

[DrexlersFade]

You just finding this out Chica.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

Those were some pretty bad examples you gave

 

[The ADD]

It's possible. The level of friendship is the question.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Right.

This coming from a "chick" who texts and has overnights with a married dude. Real friendship shows respect for boundaries.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Next time he spends the night. Slip into his bed butt naked and see if he kicks you out cause you "too good of friends"

Right b/c I am a stupid child who should break the friendship code and attempt to reunion my own friendship to prove a point even though the point would be null b/c I would be the messing up the situation.

 

[Action Mike]

well not all of them lol
i mean like, it's not on my mind much. i can chill with them for a whole day and not think about smashing
what i should've said is would instead of wanna

poor choice of words

but i get your point though
at some point it will cross your mind

Still would

And the point still stands, they are acquaintances

 

[Action Mike]

Right b/c I am a stupid child who should break the friendship code and attempt to reunion my own friendship to prove a point even though the point would be null b/c I would be the messing up the situation.

...so you think he would smash if you let him?

 

[joeychizzle]

Still would

And the point still stands, they are acquaintances

goddamnit you right

i can't really argue this in my favour
might as well start finessing these coworkers

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

...so you think he would smash if you let him?

Nope. I think he would think something was wrong with me. I have seen him turn down sex from plenty of women so yea I honestly feel like he would tell me to pump my breaks.

It says a lot ya'll and the people around you if you can't fathom adults having a mature non sexual relationship. Now I do think that MOST of the time dudes be on the sneak shyt but they are honestly easy to spot IMO.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Right b/c I am a stupid child who should break the friendship code and attempt to reunion my own friendship to prove a point even though the point would be null b/c I would be the messing up the situation.

No you don't have to. My point has already been made.


pla·ton·ic
pləˈtänik/
adjective
adjective: platonic

1. (of love or friendship) intimate and affectionate but not sexual.
   "their relationship is purely platonic"
   

It's fukking impossible. Most men are going to take a woman up on sex. Which is the exact opposite of what a plutonic friendship is.

No they won't always try. Or push up. Or make it known. But trust, they'll gladly fukk up a friendship to do it

You can't say the same about women

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

No you don't have to. My point has already been made.


pla·ton·ic
pləˈtänik/
adjective
adjective: platonic

1. (of love or friendship) intimate and affectionate but not sexual.
   "their relationship is purely platonic"

It's fukking impossible. Most men are going to take a woman up on sex. Which is the exact opposite of what a plutonic friendship is.

No they won't always try. Or push up. Or make it known. But trust, they'll gladly fukk up a friendship to do it

You can't say the same about women

you preaching to the choir buddy, but literally every post you have made in this thread has been on point