It’s unfortunate how insecure many women are.

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

You sound more insecure than her
You have a lot of bytch nikka tendencies
IYKYK

 

[Crude]

Threadstarter about to get dismantled by the Coli faithful.



Women by nature are insecure AF even the highly attractive ones have some quality or qualities whether it be physical or below the surface that they are not happy with.

You would never know it unless you were close to them, but once they get comfortable with you it will eventually come out. There is nothing you can do but give her reassurance, but if you feel she’s to needy and you have to pour into her to much save yourself the trouble now and move on.

 

[R=G]

As men we have to be the ones to approach and we learn that confidence is a key to having a higher success rate. To be more confident we improve what we can and learn to accept what we can’t. A lot of times women don’t learn to accept what just is and will be about themselves and often look for validation from a man which can lead to them being taken advantage of.


I’m dealing with a woman who has orangutan titties, is a little boxy, and even though her ass is present it’s kinda just there and definitely not popping, also she has big ole boats for feet. But her face is on model, glow/complexion on Issa Rae and legs on Rihanna during the Umbrella era. Not to mention, she’s intelligent, a graduate of a prestigious college and she has depth. But instead of focusing on all her damn near perfect physical attributes and being a dope person I have to constantly reassure her that her big feet and flapjack titties don’t bother me. I’m getting old asf and want to start a family, she’d be the best candidate but her insecurities are an issue that her big floppy feet keep tripping on. What if we have a daughter, would she pass this on to her? Would I have to take time out of my busy schedule to boost her confidence up all the time? If I can’t make time for that or just get tired of doing it would this make her vulnerable to the advances of the mail man? And on and on.


This shyt is sad and unfortunately very common.


You ladies need to stop tripping.

You want to see a girl get uncomfortable..just bring around a 18 yr old who is pretty. They get so shook...I don't care if they 22, 25, 30, 35...they fear 18 yr old girls..lol

 

[86\*/98]

You sound more insecure than her
You have a lot of bytch nikka tendencies
IYKYK

I’d bet cash money there’s no logic behind your comment and if there is it’s flawed and I’ll easily smack your argument down.

 

[86\*/98]

Threadstarter about to get dismantled by the Coli faithful.



Women by nature are insecure AF even the highly attractive ones have some quality or qualities whether it be physical or below the surface that they are not happy with.

You would never know it unless you were close to them, but once they get comfortable with you it will eventually come out. There is nothing you can do but give her reassurance, but if you feel she’s to needy and you have to pour into her to much save yourself the trouble now and move on.

That’s what I’ve been debating for about a month.

 

[CarbonBraddock]

Near perfect physical attributes but looks like Danny devito bodywise?

 

[Clay Puppington]

nikka said “shorty look like a gremlin and a druid had a baby….but i reassure her otherwise”

you do have a point though, i couldnt believe the mental state of some top rated women

 

[Champ_KW]

Just keeping real.

Keeping it real is bad mouthing the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with and possibly have kids with to strangers on a message board?

 

[WaveGang]

Dear Diary

This gif got me dying

 

[Shadow King]

You need to keep her just based on her being realistic. Most women would believe their shyt don't stink and would be trying to have you worshipping them size 12s.

 

[Coco Loco]

Keeping it real is bad mouthing the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with and possibly have kids with to strangers on a message board?

This! Like make it make sense. I'm still not convinced OP isn't trolling

This gif got me dying

It says so much without saying anything

 

[FeverPitch2]

It's interesting what mfs do to entertain themselves.

 

[Kasgoinjail]

Yh im insecure and I can't help it

 

[86\*/98]

Near perfect physical attributes but looks like Danny devito bodywise?

Face, skin, and legs are damn near perfect.

Keeping it real is bad mouthing the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with and possibly have kids with to strangers on a message board?

You don’t know me, or her. It wasn’t until just now when a couple of posters called this a dairy that I realized, it pretty much is. I talk about shyt in my life openly and I get it off my chest and also sometimes advice. Some good, some bad, and some people calling me a bytch ass nikka with no logic behind it but I appreciate my honest thought about my life situation being viewed by other and no matter how embarrassing the topic I don’t know y’all so I really don’t care… but still appreciate.

You need to keep her just based on her being realistic. Most women would believe their shyt don't stink and would be trying to have you worshipping them size 12s.

I’d keep her just for her intelligence and personality but the neediness about surface shyt is a struggle. I get that everyone has issues but constantly telling her it’s ok is draining. Babies would choose her titties over some firm, up high in the sky breast because it’s more like ripe fruit and functionally breast are for feeding children. As far as I’m concerned we’re winning.

 

[86\*/98]

Yh im insecure and I can't help it

Have you tried to figure out why?


If that’s you in the avi you look like a young version of Evil Angela Bassett from A Thin Line. Very cute. What else do you need to feel good about yourself? Do you have BO or something?