It’s unfortunate how insecure many women are.

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Looks like I need to do a google search.......................

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Op was cold blooded but I get it insecurities are a turn off for me too

I couldn’t be serious about someone who isn’t comfortable with themselves physically and need constant validation

I think it was Katt Williams said self esteem is esteem of your own damn self I cant fix it for you

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I can picture her body based on your description. :russ:
And this is what it’s giving me:
looks like Danny devito bodywise? :mjtf:
she has that boxy, top heavy, spongebob butt body.

while it’s true that women by nature are more insecure, this thread sounds like your own individual situation/personal problem. If you want a woman with a better body move on. If you want a woman with more confidence than her move on. If you want a woman that doesn’t need to be assured as much as the one your with then move on.
 

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Have you tried to figure out why?


If that’s you in the avi you look like a young version of Evil Angela Bassett from A Thin Line. Very cute. What else do you need to feel good about yourself? Do you have BO or something?


I have a mental illness called estrogen lmao

It makes me not believe men when they call me beautiful unless its family
It was manageable until 20 then social media came and distorted my self perception

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Thanks I love Angie, hope your relationship goes well
 

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I can picture her body based on your description. :russ:
And this is what it’s giving me:

she has that boxy, top heavy, spongebob butt body.

while it’s true that women by nature are more insecure, this thread sounds like your own individual situation/personal problem. If you want a woman with a better body move on. If you want a woman with more confidence than her move on. If you want a woman that doesn’t need to be assured as much as the one your with then move on.

She’s actually tall and more bottom heavy. Her legs literally look just like Rihanna’s in the Umbrella video but Issa Rae brown and her hot breast are flappy but still small, like under inflated water balloons her butt is boxy just underwhelming. Her boxiness is due to a lack of hips. She’s built like a track chick.


Yeah, you’re right about moving on but it’s not easy for me to click with people in a real way. I get bored/tired easily but not with her, at least not bored. I’m trying to gauge how long it’s gonna take me to get “I’m out” tired of her insecurities. But she’s definitely worth fighting for, even if it’s her.

[QUOTE="RehReh, post: 44784029, member: 32526"]I have a mental illness called estrogen lmao

It makes me not believe men when they call me beautiful unless its family
It was manageable until 20 then social media came and distorted my self perception

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Thanks I love Angie, hope your relationship goes well[/QUOTE]


I’m stealing that.:russ:


Well if they’re calling you beautiful they probably want to have sex with you. And if many men want to have sex with you, you wield a lot of power and if directed you can go wherever you want. I think that alone can be a great source of confidence not to mention you’re possibly funny because I legitimately laughed at the estrogen joke. If you’re funny, you’re probably intelligent. So you’re potentially a smart, funny woman that nikkas want to smash? Shiit you’re confidence should be stuck on YES imo.:manny:


But we all perceive shyt differently. Anyways, appreciate the laugh.:pachaha:
 
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A lot of men are just as (if not more) insecure. This site proves it on a regular basis.

I can only speak for myself and I don’t give a fukk. I’m lazy-eyed every other day, I have to stay in shape or I get man tittes( like, it’s the first place I gain weight), I’m an avid reader and I still can’t spell or know how to properly use commas and considering I’m 6’3 my dikk should be bigger. But :yeshrug:is my attitude towards all that shyt and I desperately want her to adopt that mentality but I’m failing her.:francis:

You’re in here admitting she’s built bad yet you’re wondering why she’s insecure. :dahell:


But she’s good built too. Nobody is perfect. I just want her to accept that.
 
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