Keep your pity & take what I am saying in context...without me having to expound & address the plethora of reasons why people creep.
Few violations begin with 'he/she is more mentally stimulating' 'he/she is so peaceful to be around', etc.
I’ve been with my girl for a year now and I’m tired of smashing the same coochie.
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Keep your pity & take what I am saying in context...without me having to expound & address the plethora of reasons why people creep.
Few violations begin with 'he/she is more mentally stimulating' 'he/she is so peaceful to be around', etc.
Yeah I been saying this.nikkas have just as much desire for drama as females.
Get married brehettes.
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
Read what you said earlier “cheating with someone you don’t even want.” You don’t understand men. Rather than being combative, you could simply ask a male’s perspective but you’d rather just agree with posts that confirm your own bias. That kind of thinking doesn’t expand your perception.
But hey, do you. If you think you understand men better than a man does then that’s cool. Never cast Pearl before swines.
OP consider taking a break. I’m sure she is probably bored fukking the same dude too. That’s not a dig at your sex game. That’s just saying she’s human too and we all get tired of the same thing all the time.She’s a cool girl and all and I really like her but the sex has become boring
shyt feels the same and my eyes are beginning to wander but at the same time I don’t want to lose her
If it’s purely sexual, is the quality of your sex with her pretty good? If so, it might just be the monotony. Try building sexual tension. Give each other a challenge to not fukk for a certain time period while still teasing each other.
If it’s just the lure and excitement of a new sexual encounter, avoid the drama and take a break. One of the reasons women react so badly to cheating is b/c it’s one-sided. We end up making sacrifices in our sexual and emotional needs for someone who isn’t doing the same for us, when we could be getting sexual satisfaction as well.
Which is something all humans deserve and need. So take a break. Hit that Donnell Jones “Where I Wanna Be”. But if you truly care about her and not just operating in ego and possessiveness, let her go during this break to explore her needs too. Nobody should be alone in a relationship while you doing you.
If the love is strong, ya’ll will come back to each other. If not, that’s life and you move on.
What in the world...
Combative?
My sentiments won't change.
BTW, I don't need to grasp nor understand that type of dysfunction to that degree. I need to recognize and act accordingly.
Yo posts are so stressful
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
I didn't call the brehettes swine
but I agree with everything else that you said. It's the point I've been making since yesterday. Women don't want to understand how men think. They want to tell us how we think, even when we're telling them... no, that's not what it is.
They think that men and women have the same motivators when we do not. And when we try to tell them what our true motivators are, they don't want to hear it.
And then they get with simpish men who tell them what they want to hear, and refuse to acknowledge that that one dude or 2 dudes aren't a good case study for how the majority of men think.
They'd be better off listening to us brehs who are telling them what they don't want to hear, because we better represent the mindsets of men than those simp dudes do.
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
OP consider taking a break. I’m sure she is probably bored fukking the same dude too. That’s not a dig at your sex game. That’s just saying she’s human too and we all get tired of the same thing all the time.
If it’s purely sexual, is the quality of your sex with her pretty good? If so, it might just be the monotony. Try building sexual tension. Give each other a challenge to not fukk for a certain time period while still teasing each other.
If it’s just the lure and excitement of a new sexual encounter, avoid the drama and take a break. One of the reasons women react so badly to cheating is b/c it’s one-sided. We end up making sacrifices in our sexual and emotional needs for someone who isn’t doing the same for us, when we could be getting sexual satisfaction as well.
Which is something all humans deserve and need. So take a break. Hit that Donnell Jones “Where I Wanna Be”. But if you truly care about her and not just operating in ego and possessiveness, let her go during this break to explore her needs too. Nobody should be alone in a relationship while you doing you.
If the love is strong, ya’ll will come back to each other. If not, that’s life and you move on.
OP, do NOT listen to this mess.
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
Breh. That’s why I just laugh at women like that. They’ll learn the hard way. Always! You really can’t enlighten some people.
And to add further, that’s the reason they won’t understand. Women may date 5, 10, even 15 dudes. Being a man, we’re friends with and around all kinds of men from day one. From good guys to scum bags. We know what we’re like and what women don’t understand about us.
The funny thing is, we’re so simple. I mean really simple. Especially compared to women. And yet these broads still mess it up because they have this arrogance that they know men better than we know ourselves.
Lmao! I’m just trying to make sure nobody in that equation gets neglected.
I dunno why dudes always feel like chicks should be taking Ls in relationships.
Like we not human. She bored with his dikk just like he bored with her p*ssy too...
They probably got more in common than they think.
jilla82
Veteran
me and a buddy have a running joke where we say we dont trust any man who says he enjoys sex with his wife or longtime girlfriend.
I dont care what anybody says...that shyt gets old after about 6 months to a year.
I dont care what anybody says...that shyt gets old after about 6 months to a year.
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Lmao! I’m just trying to make sure nobody in that equation gets neglected.
I dunno why dudes always feel like chicks should be taking Ls in relationships.
Like we not human. She bored with his dikk just like he bored with her p*ssy too...
They probably got more in common than they think.
But how do you know this? You don't. you just made that up.
OP, here's what I would say: Don't throw away a good relationship just cause you tired of the sex. From what you say, it sounds like this is a good woman.
Do you know how hard it is to find a good woman these days? It's EXTREMELY hard. go into the Gems on women thread sometimes and read and see how those brehs are going through it, and I guarantee you that you will count your blessings.
We can get sex from anywhere. You can, I can, but is it worth it? I don't think it is.
If you got a keeper, keep her. The grass always looks greener on the other side, but once you get over there, you'll quickly find out it was a mirage.
Trust me on this, man.
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Yep. All of them are like this and they refuse to admit it. It's very rare that I find a woman that will listen to me as a man, let me tell her what I want, and then go and do that.
And I'm not even trying to be chauvinistic about that because I feel that she should be able to do the same: Tell me what she wants and then I go and do that.
A happy and successful relationship is about me keeping her happy, and her keeping me happy. If Im focused on her happiness and she's focused on mine, then how could we go wrong?