I've come to the conclusion that I hate being in relationships

[Chelsea Bridge]

Yeah, I'm good on your opinion. Thanks.

says the dude miserable in a relationship that he allowed to get to this point.


....

Have fun in your misery

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Yall say this, and correct me if what I'm going to say doesn't apply to you, but on the other hand yall are averse to dating women with professional goals, business owners etc because they're not submissive, don't cook and have a different idea of gender roles.

Can't have a cake and eat it too

My longest relationship was with an attorney.
My current girl owns a media marketing business.

I have no idea where any of this is coming from. I don't need a submissive woman, I need a day off.

 

[paperbag]

You're over 40, you been known this. Why did you let that girl move across the country? nikkas ain't shyt

 

[BaldingSoHard]

says the dude miserable in a relationship that he allowed to get to this point.


....

Have fun in your misery

I mean, it's just a strange conclusion to jump to.

That doing something that makes one happier means one wasn't happy in the first place.

Hoe babble of the highest order.

 

[Collateral]

We haven't talked about it since our initial conversation regarding me needing days to myself in order to feel at peace. Before I was able to get by cause I went to work and to the gym and shyt so I got a little bit of time to myself but now with COVID and us both working from home and shyt.... it's been building for the last 3 months and I'm about to break.

Note: When I say "I was able to get by" doesn't mean I was happy, it just meant that having someone around all the time was tolerable because I had a release. Now I don't.

I feel your pain brother

 

[mortuus est]

Exactly. This breh gets it. My girl is a gem. She's low key and not annoying, but last night just watching her put dressing on her salad had me wanting to strangle her. That's how I know this is an irrational mental thing on my part.

I need a fukking day off.

pray that you dont have kids cause life wont get easier and you cant run to your man cave to hide

 

[BaldingSoHard]

You're over 40, you been known this. Why did you let that girl move across the country? nikkas ain't shyt

Eh, yes and no.

You tell your peers and the people you trust, "Man I just don't like relationships..." and they always tell you the same thing, "Oh once you meet the right one, you won't feel that way...."

So you keep trying...

And trying...

And trying....

But finally you realize, nope... I just don't like relationships.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

pray that you dont have kids cause life wont get easier and you cant run to your man cave to hide

Having kids would be a nightmare.

 

[mortuus est]

fukk it, glad someone else made this thread.

After i got mad internally when my girl grabbed my hand in public last night, I knew that I’m not a relationship person right now.

Her “sweet talk” voice annoys the shyt out of me and it’s too hot for her to be constantly needing to touch.

She’s technically not doing anything wrong, but man, the days that I am away at my own crib are paradise.

sounds like batty man behavior to me, let that girl go now breh

 

[mortuus est]

Having kids would be a nightmare.

will make you better as a introvert tho

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Having someone rely on you for their happiness fukking sucks. It's creates unrelenting pressure and for an introvert like me, it just ruins my sense of peace. Especially since women always want to live together and spend all their free time together.

fukk.

fukk bytches, get money.

Chris Wallace told us this in 1996.

It still applies to this day.

 

[ConPHIdential]

I’m pretty sure you’re older than me OP, but from what you have posted you seem to have a lot going for you in life as a successful breh. As I’m getting older and putting the pieces together in life I’ve come to realize the opposite sex is a distraction and I prefer to worry about myself and enjoy my own time working on myself. The right one gonna come along eventually but until then I’m enjoying being solo.


I’m saying all that to say in reference to you, when we start seeing the bigger picture and start accomplishing life goals like I’m sure you’ve had you start seeing most Women as a waste of time.

 

[mortuus est]

Usually out of insecurity but some women monitor their boyfriends/husbands because they are afraid that if he is out of their sight he will be unfaithful.

certain places yuu just cant bring your girl with you

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I’m pretty sure you’re older than me OP, but from what you have posted you seem to have a lot going for you in life as a successful breh. As I’m getting older and putting the pieces together in life I’ve come to realize the opposite sex is a distraction and I prefer to worry about myself and enjoy my own time working on myself. The right one gonna come along eventually but until then I’m enjoying being solo.


I’m saying all that to say in reference to you, when you start seeing the bigger picture and start accomplishing life goals like I’m sure you’ve had you start seeing most Women as a waste of time.

You hit it on the head. At this point, the only thing a woman can bring to the table for me is children, and I don't really want children so you're absolutely right that they're basically a distraction.

Well said, breh.

 

[Krisrunner2049]

sounds like batty man behavior to me, let that girl go now breh

I think it’s just that some brehs don’t wanna be alone. Relationships as a whole look corny to me but some brehs need it