I've come to the conclusion that I hate being in relationships

[DaHNIC82]

be with someone already happy

Alot of people dont wanna take that risk and go alone.. Esp with how shytty today's dating market is

 

[Mr Rager]

fukk it, glad someone else made this thread.

After i got mad internally when my girl grabbed my hand in public last night, I knew that I’m not a relationship person right now.

Her “sweet talk” voice annoys the shyt out of me and it’s too hot for her to be constantly needing to touch.

She’s technically not doing anything wrong, but man, the days that I am away at my own crib are paradise.

Man I know dudes would die to have a girl like mine...she's low key, does whatever I want, looks good etc...

But damn if I don't want to send her home for a few days sometimes, just for the sake of my personal space and sanity. This shyt is like walking a tightrope

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I mean, it's just a strange conclusion to jump to.

That doing something that makes one happier means one wasn't happy in the first place.

Hoe babble of the highest order.

lol it’s not though... it’s innate to desire companionship but looking to companionship as the source of happiness will always lead to being unsatisfied because you can’t expect another person to fulfill all your desires. It’s just not possible.

So if you were with a woman that seems happy already but once in a relationship she began to rely on you in ways that made you feel her happiness was dependent on you then that means her supposed happiness was a facade. Unless something happened within the relationship to make her no longer feel happy with her life..

 

[mortuus est]

I think it’s just that some brehs don’t wanna be alone. Relationships as a whole look corny to me but some brehs need it

no doubt , alot of people need it
alot of men need a relationship to keep them on the "right" track , alot of others dont and are fine on their own
the problem is alot of brehs dont know what they want, when not in a relationship they want one and envy other people in loving relationships , then, when they get in one its like they hate it and want to be alone or they just dont know what they want

being mad at your woman for touching your hand tho is abit mad to me, should def leave her alone

 

[BaldingSoHard]

lol it’s not though... it’s innate to desire companionship but looking to companionship as the source of happiness will always be lead to being unsatisfied because you can’t expect a person to fulfill all your desires. It’s just not possible.

So if you were with a woman that seems happy already but once in a relationship she began to rely on you in ways that made you feel her happiness was dependent on you then that means her supposed happiness was a facade unless something happened with the relationship to make her no longer feel happy.

Her life before me is completely different than her life after me.

How would I therefore not be responsible for her newfound happiness, and how does that invalidate the happiness she had before we met?

 

[MischievousMonkey]

My longest relationship was with an attorney.
My current girl owns a media marketing business.

I have no idea where any of this is coming from. I don't need a submissive woman, I need a day off.

if you're intoxicating like Edward Cullen to these ladies then Idk what to say. One's blessing is the next man's curse.

Maybe relationships indeed aren't for you if you have this effect no matter the woman.

 

[Entropy Fan]

The process of gaining happiness in relationship is a transfer. They take some of your happiness and add it to theirs.

And they don’t even have basic human interaction etiquette. They act suffocating, smothering, and annoying and as a man your supposed just accept it. Their adults and once they like you it never crosses their mind to be pleasant company. Also gotta call text and annoy you all damn day.

shyt is a low pay, heavy hours job.

 

[Entropy Fan]

What also kills it is that modern culture of a woman expecting a man to entertain her, make her happy, excite her. She could be 50 and she still has that expectation. TV ruined relationships

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

I know breh I know.

Problem is my current girl uprooted her entire life and moved across the country to be with me.

Her whole family has been waiting on me to pop the question for the last 3 years.

Already calling me "son in law" and "brother in law" and shyt.

I literally am her life. Getting out of this one is gonna be hard. But if I do, I swear I'm never getting into another relationship again.

Women have no real hobbies

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

sounds like batty man behavior to me, let that girl go now breh

Not at all. It’s draining to be with someone that’s always “on”. Just because I like your sense of humor , doesn’t mean I need it in every situation. Also, It feels good to be deferred to as a man sometimes, but when they ask you simple questions that you know they know, shyts annoying.

We spent an extra 10 mins ordering Thai last night because she couldn’t handle the concept of “get what you have a taste for, as I will and we’ll share an appetizer”. How am I supposed to know if she should have chicken or beef?

I know I have a good one for all intents. Ones that will hold you down are few and far between, so I know what I have.

 

[mortuus est]

Not at all. It’s draining to be with someone that’s always “on”. Just because I like your sense of humor , doesn’t mean I need it in every situation. Also, It feels good to be deferred to as a man sometimes, but when they ask you simple questions that you know they know, shyts annoying.

We spent an extra 10 mins ordering Thai last night because she couldn’t handle the concept of “get what you have a taste for, as I will and we’ll share an appetizer”. How am I supposed to know if she should have chicken or beef?

I know I have a good one for all intents. Ones that will hold you down are few and far between, so I know what I have.

its annoyance but breh thats how woman are lol , sometimes you do got to dictate their movies, its simple biology
will you say the same when you have kids cause kids are always "on" , for a longer period too

not dissing too just sheding light on what you said

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

I snapped on my girl after she said Lebron was fine the other day...


Not sure if I overreacted or put her in check...

Relationships are hard as fukk

Jealous ass nikka

 

[the bossman]

At this point, the only thing a woman can bring to the table for me is children, and I don't really want children so you're absolutely right that they're basically a distraction.

I'm lost. This is a key point. If you don't want children why even bother getting into a serious relationship and then even having the woman leave her home across the country to move in with you?


Those are road to marriage type moves and if you don't plan on kids I don't get why you would move in that direction.

If I didn't want to have a family I would keep my space and just have a FWB situation with 1 or 2 chicks

 

[Youseenmywork]

In before anyone says coli incel

 

[Ricky Dunigan]

its annoyance but breh thats how woman are lol , sometimes you do got to dictate their movies, its simple biology
will you say the same when you have kids cause kids are always "on" , for a longer period too

not dissing too just sheding light on what you said

Nah I know you wasn’t dissing. And I agree with your post here. Kids aren’t in the equation ( both agreed on that).

It’s annoying but when it comes down to it , even I know the good outweighs the bad in this situation. I’m used to more maybe “aloof” or non dependent women. I never made this thread cause i know it’s the relationship equivalent of 1st world problems.

But I can’t lie and say that im not glad that I have my own crib and time away. But that’s probably not gonna be feasible if the relationship goes on.