I've had 2 of my closest friends tell me how they feel UNFULFILLED in Life.

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I don't have any type of secret to share, but what has worked for me is always attempting to gain on some goal.

Its just a fresh challenge. I try to draw, so I try to draw a little bit more. I try to run, so I try to run a little bit more. I try to make my girl happy, I try to make her a little more happy.

I think depressions sets in on an idle mind. And thats much different than a meditative mind, because meditation is taking all the noise and over productivity and taking time to do the opposite. You can't meditate when you ain't got shyt to do any way lol

I don't fukking know, it could maybe be simpler. Stay the fukk off social media. shyt will make you feel unfulfilled even when you got everything you need.

Life was never complicated. We try to make this shyt complex and it just leaves us feeling like we missing something. You ain't missing shyt. Just enjoy the ride and try to do better every day.
 

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Assuming y'all are actually Black, :mjpls:, if you are giving back to your community then you will feel fulfilled.

A lot of unfulfilled people are fighting for themselves instead of fighting for their family, and their people.

Sponsor some African children. Travel to Afrika, or the Diaspora, and connect/network/work with the people. Send a young Black boy or girl to college.

Just fukking do something.
 

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All I cared about was learning what was going on existentially. I figured it out in my early 20s. Absolute Infinity. I’be been lost since (and was before too). I don’t even have any real goals anymore other than acquiring material goods. I’ve already accomplished my life goal. What to do now? How do you beat out infinity? Is it even possible? I dunno :patrice:

What was your life goal if you don't mind me asking
 

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Cut the shyt nikka, you could be the perfect husband and a bytch will still up and leave with your kids. Let’s cut the bullshyt. Let’s stop with the just Alpha your way through it. That shyt is disingenuous as fukk.

Breh, with that attitude why live at all?

Might as well commit that.

You could be the most upstanding citizen and still end up on death row over false allegations.

You could be the nicest ball player ever and get paralyzed in a car accident before you make the league.

That's life.

The journey is what's most important.

Living scared is worst than death.

And outside of all that personal shyt, the most important piece is we can't begin to build a stable black community without a collection of stable black families.
 

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I'm jealous you kinda got it out the way at a young age though. By 46 you should be smooth sailing with your kids grown, hopefully they on the right track. At that point you can do your own thing. Meanwhile dudes like me gone be 55 n shyt with 13 year old daughters:mjlol: I give myself till 35 to have kids, otherwise it's over. Not tryna be 60 chasin youngins and helping with homework:flabbynsick:

I’m 39 and almost done raising the 4 of mine too. The oldest is 21 and the youngest is 10, I’ve been raising kids since I was 17 Bruh. The oldest produces for all kinds of people/just got his associates and is moving on to his bachelors in the fall. They all have school covered off of my military benefits so it’s on them to use the guidance they get from us and make the most out of that blessing.


YAH willing in 8 years, when the youngest goes to trade school or college and the rest are in their careers or businesses, I’ll still be in good health at 47 and my old lady would only be 43. I told the jits the pitfalls of young parenthood and stressed having your shyt together before you have children so hopefully I don’t have all kinds of grandkids yet because, “I got plans bigger than the Desire projects.” .

Edit: My cousin 1 year older than me had his first at 15 and is a GPa x6 at 40 smh.
 

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You ultimately just have to find what makes you happy. There's no right or wrong way to do it.

This.

But funny af to see #GMB usually get triggered heavy in these types of threads :mjlol:

Or it usually turns into #GMB vs MB (married brehs) about well, anything. Can't tell either side nothing...
 

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Circling the globe smashin foreign broads gets old after a while.

I also got friends that spend an hour sitting in their car when they pull-up to the driveway to have peace before they walk thru the door to face a nagging wife and rowdy kids.

You ultimately just have to find what makes you happy. There's no right or wrong way to do it.

But funny af to see #GMB usually get triggered heavy in these types of threads :mjlol:
If married cats stop rushing in to talk down on #GMB we can't be triggered :manny:
 

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My life has been nothing short of a rollercoaster ride. Many highs and lows and lower lows....

Getting older has its own set of challenges but one thing I have learned is only you can make yourself happy. Finding that happiness is each owns path for them to take.

Be kind & generous to yourself. Many of us have been programmed by so much bullshyt we forget there is peace in minimalism. Learn and share as a mentor to the youth about the path.
 

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What was your life goal if you don't mind me asking
Figuring out what is going on existentially. I had a serious medical issue with my lung, and I could have died. After that, I realized that I needed to understand if god exists and figure out what is going on with life. I spent a couple of years reading and thinking about this. Then I learned about something called absolute infinity. I learned that existence is infinite. There’s no beginning or end. Good and bad don’t exist. You can do whatever you want. So, after that I kinda learned that nothing really matters and I should just go about doing whatever I want. What I wanted was to learn about existence. It was the most important thing in the world. So, I feel like I accomplished that goal. Everything else seems so trivial next to infinity. :francis:
 

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Alot of people talk about their kids but deep inside they will never admit it but most people hate parenting. They dont hate the kids its parenting. Parent teacher conferences,soccer practice all that other bs.
 
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