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Lol, I was going to say I feel like its always been that, but I don't have any working knowledge of titles used for church folks prior to college.Grew up in the church, and want to ask others who did also......WHEN did the title of 1st Lady start being applied to the Pastor's wife?
Was it after Michelle Obama became the official 1st Lady of the U.S.?
And if a woman carries that title, she should carry herself like a LADY. And not be dressing like that in public.
*The Church Mother is technically the "1st lady of the church" , anyway. *
Pastor Bryant is a natural self promoter. Im not from Baltimore, nor have I attended church regularly in years, and even I knew who he was. He makes the headline every few years for controversy.
Unless Im confusing him for someone else, he drew controversy for quoting Chris Brown in the pulpit saying "These Hs aint loyal".
Under no circumstances should anybody use that tone or language inside of a church.
Controversies that surface around him since then have been on brand with that incident.
Im sure he does things that benefit the community, like leading the current boycotts, but he is who he is, and who he has shown himself to be.
"empower this dikk nikka"
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Just because you CAN doesnโt always mean that you SHOULD. Tact, and responsibility should always be at the front of her mind. My dad is a pastor and has been my whole life, not ONE TIME would my mother ever think of wearing something like that out.
The question to me is WHY? Why would you even want to wear something like that and cause an uproar. Youโre the pastors wife and 1st lady of the church, you represent Christ, your husband and yourself. Like that chick said, you have to hold YOURSELF to higher standards when youโre a Shepard of Christ smh
First Lady has always been the title of the wife of the pastor since Iโve been going to church. Iโve never known otherwise.Grew up in the church, and want to ask others who did also......WHEN did the title of 1st Lady start being applied to the Pastor's wife?
Was it after Michelle Obama became the official 1st Lady of the U.S.?
And if a woman carries that title, she should carry herself like a LADY. And not be dressing like that in public.
*The Church Mother is technically the "1st lady of the church" , anyway. *
Pastor Bryant is a natural self promoter. Im not from Baltimore, nor have I attended church regularly in years, and even I knew who he was. He makes the headline every few years for controversy.
Unless Im confusing him for someone else, he drew controversy for quoting Chris Brown in the pulpit saying "These Hs aint loyal".
Under no circumstances should anybody use that tone or language inside of a church.
Controversies that surface around him since then have been on brand with that incident.
Im sure he does things that benefit the community, like leading the current boycotts, but he is who he is, and who he has shown himself to be.