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I'm at work on my phone so forgive some typos but wtf man. I get in to work on my day off. Normally I decline but I had nothing to do. So I get to my second stop and I see a love interst. We had sex like twice since she came back to nj in June. We have history...a lot history. Dating back to 2009 before i met my ex. We been trying to set up another date but our jobs prevent it.

So I'm like :gladbron: funny seeing you again. She's like :merchant: yeah... so we speak and I see her daugther kid run down the aisle to her. Now Im like :to: she got so big. she's says dad said do we need some milk. I'm like :heh: dad? Oh shyt...so she's like :heh: were not together like that. I'm like OK fine but I thought u was up here by yourself. So he pops up...he never met me but he knows about me. He seen our Facebook pics and asked her to delete them. We nod our heads and he tells her to come on. Then out of spite...he mentions their baby shower :wtf: and invites me. She's 3 months now. I tried to hold in my displeasure and I did..but just barely. But I'm in the car trying not call her...I'm just gonna let it go. She's not gonna call. She been caught. shyt hurts brehs and brehettes.

Like damn I held this women to such high standards. I loved her and even stay up at night beating myself for not making her mine. So I finally get a second chance and its all for nothing. If had tears to shed I would def cry. I must not be shyt...because the women I need in my life don't fukking want me.
 

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I feel ya pain, breh. It's hard when you have a woman that's your weakness and she with another man because of a "situation"
 

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I feel ya pain, breh. It's hard when you have a woman that's your weakness and she with another man because of a "situation"

The bytch lead me on breh...she hid hella shyt from me. She knew that I wouldn't fukk with her if she was still with the dude. She played me like a fiddle :snoop:
 

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Wait she's 3 months and yall had sex in June? *does the math*

Uhh, you sure it ain't yours?

Yes I'm sure. We had protection both times. That's his baby I'm sure of it. They way she spoke about kids she made it seem like she wasnt gonna have anymore. So idk. I have to be at my next stop in 30 mins and I didn't even leave yet. I'm just in awe
 

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You're feeling that emotional jolt to the system by discovering a woman you care about is with another, and now you're being driven by those aftershocks of discomfort. Its a process. I dont like the phrase "move on", because it denotes a lack of humanity thats unreasonable (you just dont simply "forget" about people you love), but you cant put your life on pause over a situation that is currently untenable, and looks like it will potentially become unsalvageable. You have to recognize here that things probably wont work out.

The hard truths are that because of the "issues" between you two (and im sure neither party was perfect) a space was created, and unfortunately another filled that void you both created. I doubt if you yourself can even fully determine with confidence whether you truly care for this girl in earnest, or whether you're simply attached to her, and now you're feeling territorial over another encroaching on "your" space.You cant be overly bitter about this...just do your appropriate grieving, and find positive avenues to develop yourself personally.
 

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I'm at work on my phone so forgive some typos but wtf man. I get in to work on my day off. Normally I decline but I had nothing to do. So I get to my second stop and I see a love interst. We had sex like twice since she came back to nj in June. We have history...a lot history. Dating back to 2009 before i met my ex. We been trying to set up another date but our jobs prevent it.

So I'm like :gladbron: funny seeing you again. She's like :merchant: yeah... so we speak and I see her daugther kid run down the aisle to her. Now Im like :to: she got so big. she's says dad said do we need some milk. I'm like :heh: dad? Oh shyt...so she's like :heh: were not together like that. I'm like OK fine but I thought u was up here by yourself. So he pops up...he never met me but he knows about me. He seen our Facebook pics and asked her to delete them. We nod our heads and he tells her to come on. Then out of spite...he mentions their baby shower :wtf: and invites me. She's 3 months now. I tried to hold in my displeasure and I did..but just barely. But I'm in the car trying not call her...I'm just gonna let it go. She's not gonna call. She been caught. shyt hurts brehs and brehettes.

Like damn I held this women to such high standards. I loved her and even stay up at night beating myself for not making her mine. So I finally get a second chance and its all for nothing. If had tears to shed I would def cry. I must not be shyt...because the women I need in my life don't fukking want me.

:patrice:

you sure you not gonna end up on Maury breh?

:patrice:
 

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You're feeling that emotional jolt to the system by discovering a woman you care about is with another, and now you're being driven by those aftershocks of discomfort. Its a process. I dont like the phrase "move on", because it denotes a lack of humanity thats unreasonable (you just dont simply "forget" about people you love), but you cant put your life on pause over a situation that is currently untenable, and looks like it will potentially become unsalvageable. You have to recognize here that things probably wont work out.

The hard truths are that because of the "issues" between you two (and im sure neither party was perfect) a space was created, and unfortunately another filled that void you both created. I doubt if you yourself can even fully determine with confidence whether you truly care for this girl in earnest, or whether you're simply attached to her, and now you're feeling territorial over another encroaching on "your" space.You cant be overly bitter about this...just do your appropriate grieving, and find positive avenues to develop yourself personally.

you needa take this bullshyt to daytime tv
 
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