Just came back from a black feminist meeting

[Nintendough]

you can trace all forms of black fem to this one root.

These women love us, its just some of them dont know how to express that other than to scream. Scream cause of the fact they feel that a black men will either be killed, locked up or just abandon and they dont want that. They want us to return to the how we used to be when the man was doing the heavy lift and the women would support in which ever way she can. Times are changing yes, but the plead is still the same. They want a family with us, just sometimes we get taken away or walk away.

We just cant be so quick to write these women off sometimes...

Not all of them love us And they better learn to do more than scream if they want a better reputation.



But I do feel as if a lot of them do want the family structure fixed. The only way to fix it is for men to be the leaders, the true leaders. This generation is dead but the one coming up can still be saved. If we can save them, then everything else will fall into place. One thing we have to do is stop sheltering these deadbeats men and making excuses for them....thats where it starts. Too many men are leaving kids behind and their momma and cousin are telling them its okay because the "mother is crazy"....thats not good enough we have to fight for our kids. I know the court is anti father but we can combat them by choosing better women who wont try to drive a wedge between man and child.

 

[marcuz]

Are you out of your fukking mind?

black women are more likely to gain long term employment in corporate america, they're more likely to get bank loans. black women don't have to worry about being racially profiled by cops, they are not seen as a threat; rather a nuisance. black women have their own particular struggles, and this is not a battle of who's suffering more; but come on, really? you think black women have it worse than black men?

 

[mrken12]

black women are more likely to gain long term employment in corporate america, they're more like to get bank loans. black women don't have to worry about being racially profiled by cops, they are not seen as a threat; rather a nuisance. black women have their own particular struggles, and this is not a battle of who's suffering more; but come on, really? you think black women have it worse than black men?

It seems like it. That's just more proof of the divide. Actually believing that they have it worse than black men.

 

[kevm3]

This whole 'black feminism' nonsense came about because they finally started wising up that white feminists didn't care about them, and now the narrative shifts... but until then they were fine screaming miss independent, you go girl and carrying the feminist torch before that.

 

[Marvel]

you can trace all forms of black fem to this one root.

These women love us, its just some of them dont know how to express that other than to scream. Scream cause of the fact they feel that a black men will either be killed, locked up or just abandon and they dont want that. They want us to return to the how we used to be when the man was doing the heavy lift and the women would support in which ever way she can. Times are changing yes, but the plead is still the same. They want a family with us, just sometimes we get taken away or walk away.

We just cant be so quick to write these women off sometimes...

I think you eluded to that in your first post, but lets be reality here. If white men wanted them, like they do Asian women they would have been gone a long time ago. White men told them that they don't want them around long term or that they are not attractive in their eyes so they are stuck with us by default. Lets keep it 100.

@ these women saying they love us, but don't invite black men and tell them that to their face. I'm not buying any talk from a black feminist. I have dealt with them in academia and in the corporate world, they are confused set of women that have no direction but destruction.

 

[Seea]

black women are more likely to gain long term employment in corporate america, they're more like to get bank loans. black women don't have to worry about being racially profiled by cops, they are not seen as a threat; rather a nuisance. black women have their own particular struggles, and this is not a battle of who's suffering more; but come on, really? you think black women have it worse than black men?

Where in my post did I insinuate that I think Black women have it worse than Black men? I'm just trying to wrap my head around someone actually saying that because we are not viewed as a threat that means we are "treated better", and that it means we have no struggle.

Being invisible to people is not being "treated better". Get the entire fukk outta here. Not even being a woman is enough to stop any assumptions. In the grand scheme of things to a lot of Others we are the SAME. They see ALL of us in the same light.

I don't give a shyt about who has it worse. If y'all are the ones to have it worse it has a trickle-down effect and we suffer too.

 

[Just like bruddas]

so we're going with the 'rape and pillage' angle? is that where we're going? so many dangerous nikkas just breaking into their homes, attacking them, right? keep in mind, many of these so called black feminist would sooner call the cops to haul your black ass away to jail -- and keep in mind they are independently raising these so called threats.

but sitting around, trying to hug it out with a bunch of women isn't going to change the core issue, which is the money. these women dont want homely nikkas roaming around their neighborhoods like guard dogs, they want financial protection.

So you really gonna sit here and tell me shyt aint real in the field? Like black women arent going missing everyday? Like these coward arent targeting them just based on the lack of media coverage. We gonna sit here act like black women are being force into prostitution. Like your mom or sister isnt afraid to walk down the street by themselves at night? Its not about roaming the streets, its about being there for them.

Everyone wants financial protection yes, but you think a man gotta be rich.

Seems to me youre trying to make excuses on why you shouldnt be on point about the women in your life.
dont know what type of home you came from but we protect our women. Physically and financial. Making sure our women and kids are safe with a full stomach and clothes on their back...Thats why men do.

 

[Just like bruddas]

Not all of them love us And they better learn to do more than scream if they want a better reputation.



But I do feel as if a lot of them do want the family structure fixed. The only way to fix it is for men to be the leaders, the true leaders. This generation is dead but the one coming up can still be saved. If we can save them, then everything else will fall into place. One thing we have to do is stop sheltering these deadbeats men and making excuses for them....thats where it starts. Too many men are leaving kids behind and their momma and cousin are telling them its okay because the "mother is crazy"....thats not good enough we have to fight for our kids. I know the court is anti father but we can combat them by choosing better women who wont try to drive a wedge between man and child.

 

[marcuz]

Where in my post did I insinuate that I think Black women have it worse than Black men? I'm just trying to wrap my head around someone actually saying that because we are not viewed as a threat that means we are "treated better", and that it means we have no struggle.

Being invisible to people is not being "treated better". Get the entire fukk outta here. Not even being a woman is enough to stop any assumptions. In the grand scheme of things to a lot of Others we are the SAME. They see ALL of us in the same light.

I don't give a shyt about who has it worse. If y'all are the ones to have it worse it has a trickle-down effect and we suffer too.

being treated like you're invisible is definitely better than being treated like you're the goddamn boogy man. i agree there's a trickle down effect onto black women though

 

[Just like bruddas]

Where in my post did I insinuate that I think Black women have it worse than Black men? I'm just trying to wrap my head around someone actually saying that because we are not viewed as a threat that means we are "treated better", and that it means we have no struggle.

Being invisible to people is not being "treated better". Get the entire fukk outta here. Not even being a woman is enough to stop any assumptions. In the grand scheme of things to a lot of Others we are the SAME. They see ALL of us in the same light.

I don't give a shyt about who has it worse. If y'all are the ones to have it worse it has a trickle-down effect and we suffer too.

Thank you for saying this.

 

[Just like bruddas]

I think you eluded to that in your first post, but lets be reality here. If white men wanted them, like they do Asian women they would have been gone a long time ago. White men told them that they don't want them around long term or that they are not attractive in their eyes so they are stuck with us by default. Lets keep it 100.

@ these women saying they love us, but don't invite black men and tell them that to their face. I'm not buying any talk from a black feminist. I have dealt with them in academia and in the corporate world, they are confused set of women that have no direction but destruction.

what if I told you the main reason why they dont tell us is cause of responds like this.

You dont wanna talk to a woman that say you aint shyt all day everyday right?

Do you really thing they wanna talk to us men that call them white men tools, crazy and bitter?

Doesnt it hurt you when a woman judge you and assume the worst about you, dont you think they fell the same way when its done to them?

Lack of understanding is worse than lack of communication.

 

[Seea]

being treated like you're invisible is definitely better than being treated like you're the goddamn boogy man. i agree there's a trickle down effect onto black women though

It's just the flipside. Not better. Just on the other end of the spectrum. The end result is usually the same. You get all the attention, we get none. If anything happens to either of us don't nobody give a damn.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

wise words coming from the "TheStripper"

There are many feminist who heavily advocate for sex work. Thank you for adding to the validity of my statement.

 

[marcuz]

So you really gonna sit here and tell me shyt aint real in the field? Like black women arent going missing everyday? Like these coward arent targeting them just based on the lack of media coverage. We gonna sit here act like black women are being force into prostitution. Like your mom or sister isnt afraid to walk down the street by themselves at night? Its not about roaming the streets, its about being there for them.

Everyone wants financial protection yes, but you think a man gotta be rich.

Seems to me youre trying to make excuses on why you shouldnt be on point about the women in your life.

3rd time, it all boils back down to the money. nobody said a goddamn thing about being rich but you. problem is you think all of this can solved with hugs and understanding, when it takes money and resources. doyou think it would be dangerous for black women (or other black men for that matter) to walk the streets at night if they were apart of a community where the men made 60k a yr on avg?

dont know what type of home you came from but we protect our women. Physically and financial. Making sure our women and kids are safe with a full stomach and clothes on their back...Thats why men do.

will, you've never taken care of any woman financially and you've probably never had to physically save a woman from these b*stard sons of single mothers. stop with the bullshyt

 

[Blackking]

So you really gonna sit here and tell me shyt aint real in the field? Like black women arent going missing everyday? Like these coward arent targeting them just based on the lack of media coverage. We gonna sit here act like black women are being force into prostitution. Like your mom or sister isnt afraid to walk down the street by themselves at night? Its not about roaming the streets, its about being there for them.

Everyone wants financial protection yes, but you think a man gotta be rich.

Seems to me youre trying to make excuses on why you shouldnt be on point about the women in your life.
dont know what type of home you came from but we protect our women. Physically and financial. Making sure our women and kids are safe with a full stomach and clothes on their back...Thats why men do.

lol,
I'm all about the support of the black women..... but ur on the opposite extreme of these woman hating nikkas on here.

A lot is stacked against black people period, but to pretend that black woman have no ownership of the perception of black women and the current state of the black community is just gross.

Show me a sorry ass nikka and I'll show you a black women who ruined this dude. I have sons, they need me to be their best -- but their mothers not being ignorant or over the top is the primary reason they will be ok, regardless of me.

other races of women take more shyt from their men then black women would ever take - and for the most part they stay the course of not producing fukked up children. With every thing stacked against black kids, black women need to do better.

On the finance side.... black men should do better. I'm all about a man taking care of everything. On the family and life decision side.... I have the option to nut in hoes all the time.... for the most part the situations black women end up in and the resulting lil black boys they raise - all come back to poor decision making.

LOL @ forced into prostitution. Thats a world wide issue, but for our urban communities.. all the chicks I know that sell that pus do it for the money. They have other choices, thats the easy materialistic one. My best friend, she sold her pus more than a few times over the years, there is no force.

Black men are targeted for prison and death- not black women.