Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama

[Bankroll.org]

Check in here after a year

Your life will be 100x better especially if you were in a toxic relationship. Work on yourself right now breh like hit gym, diet etc...get yourself up to date if you haven't been

Don't get yourself into another relationship find a thot or a chick you can drill as needed and you will be over your ex in no time

 

[360dagod]

Old heads be bragging about they wives not working too

That shyt is beyond a sucka move
U financing this bih free time like unemployment

To be fair...

It's a completely different time out here and unfortunately they are stuck in a past way of doing things...

I can understand when they go OJ on these bytches

 

[SlickHomie]

How much assets would have to be split because of this divorce?
Will she be awarded the house after the divorce?

We moved out the house 2 yrs ago....sold it i got a condo...she went god knows where.....
Just had to give up a vehicle....no 401k pension....she went in without a lawyer so...hey

 

[JT-Money]

Dude got off lucky. She could've tied him up in divorce court for years. I've read stories of people paying thousands of dollars in lawyers fees during a divorce.


I had to tell one of my homies to file a quick no fault divorce before his wife changed her mind. This fool talking about reconciling. I'm like she walking away from everything and don't want nothing but her jewelry and clothes?

Sign them papers before she wise up fool! Lucky she was an immigrant that didn't know any better.

 

[SlickHomie]

Do u still have a life insurance policy on her?

Nah.....gave it up cash out

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

youre gonna have visions of her bent over,
covered in sweat with her eyes rolling in
the back of her head and biting her bottom
lip while getting plowed out by some nikka
in gucci flip flops and her saying how she's
finally got somebody to make it hurt.
Let that shyt go breh.....one day at a time.

If you ever decided to write a book, I’d read every word.
Yo ass be WILDIN!

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now

Paying 800 a month child support


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

GMB

you wanted to marry yo ol lady ?
nikka is you crazy


same questions though

who cheated?
how long did y’all try to make it work?
is she being scornful ?

 

[phcitywarrior]

I wish you well OP. Peace and blessings to you man.

 

[The Fukin Prophecy]

Dude got off lucky. She could've tied him up in divorce court for years. I've read stories of people paying thousands of dollars in lawyers fees during a divorce.


I had to tell one of my homies to file a quick no fault divorce before his wife changed her mind. This fool talking about reconciling. I'm like she walking away from everything and don't want nothing but her jewelry and clothes?

Sign them papers before she wise up fool! Lucky she was an immigrant that didn't know any better.

Keep in mind it also varies by state and if kids are involved...

In NY and Cali you are pretty much fukked, especially if you got kids...

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now

Paying 800 a month child support


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

Gawddamn!

That aint funny tho

You from Broward?! I gotta rep off GP. Bruh east Miramar is not somewhere to live out your glory days. I hope you get back on your feet.

 

[DJSmooth]

The cheating the lies......see once you give your all to a person....and have no more in the tank...thats when things get ugly...the police callin....the fights...we werent evenly yoked....now mind you i have 2 other kids....so instead of me sittin in a jail cell i had to think about them....so i bounced

Smart move. Women ain't yours in America only your turn. You can always get another wife however your kids can't get another father.

 

[Tryna Makit]

Im sorry it didn't work out for you OP...but gahdam 7 years unhappy....im glad you got outta there

 

[SupremexKing]

why did you get married? what were/are the material and immaterial benefits of it?

 

[AceMan]

Two Questions

1.) Did she say why she wanted to "work it out" after yall been separated for 2 years?
2.) How the hell could you let her stay home and not work?!? There has to be a reason that we need to elaborate on.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

The dirty little secret of a lot of women is they can tune out of a lot of things. Like during sex, for instance, look at a woman's eyes and see if she's actually 'present'

When a relationship is on the rocks that's one of the first things that tends to be prevalent like she'll still have sex but her eyes are glassy. Like her body is there but her mind is elsewhere whilst the act is ongoing she's tuned out.

The opposite of love has always been indifference.