Just Got Into An Argument With This Boujee Broad...

Rawtid

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So you usually like the finer grade utensils for your meals when a woman or others are involved but for yourself plastic plates because you only care about the sustenance and convenience? Hmm I'm so 180 of that mindset because how I see it whether I'm a plastic plate or fine utensils nikka whichever I preferred for myself and in my home would be the standard regardless if it's me or company.

The experience and bonding you mentioned imo doesn't come from the plates or glasses but from your interactions and conversing with the women. And if I looked at fine utensils as a hassle or inconvenience I would go through and stick my neck out with that inconvenience just to impress a woman. My minset is whatever is good enough for me is good for a bytch.
I don't know a nice way to say this, so I apologize if it's offensive, but men aren't hospitable. You're often on the receiving end and not expected to give it back, so this doesn't surprise me.
 

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If I was OP I would have real plates and silverware, but that’s not the point. The point is the chick being so indignant to the point of getting belittling and an attitude in a crib that this man pays for and rests his head.

Criticism is fair but if we’re not in a relationship it better be on some peace shyt. She could have easily cracked a joke about it and moved on, but nah, the night had to come to a screeching halt. It’s her prerogative to be better than paper plates and his prerogative to not have someone in his crib fukking up his energy.

If the homies got indignant over your living situation you wouldn’t hesitate to check them after the second comment. But because a vagina and potential relationship is on the line nikkas wanna move the goalposts on their personal boundaries.

They could have chilled, ate a meal and never spoken again if it was a deal breaker for her and that’s fair. But I’ll be damned if I’ma be brow beaten and annoyed for the rest of the night by someone who is making a good point but in the most disrespectful way possible and she doesn’t even yet have any say in my life.

Call it spiritual or whatever but I try my best to not mix a meal with bad energy in the air. What was so hard about cracking a joke or pointing it out, eating the meal that she ALREADY put work in on and just never talking to dude again?
 

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I don't know a nice way to say this, so I apologize if it's offensive, but men aren't hospitable.
My man's invited the broad into his home how is that not hospitable. That's like if a ethopian nikka invited a thot to his crib and she got mad because homie made finger dishes or if a japanese nikka invited a broad to his crib and she mad they eating on the floor with chopsticks. like hoe you knew what it was from the jump. How you gonna come in my partner crib and act funny you knew what the shyt was from the jump.

And men are hospitable it's just most hoes want you to go the extra mile and they aren't worth it 9/10 times.
 

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So is she :umad:

And you said little take-out date?
Stand by your weak ass date ideas.

Breh, this the end of our little back and forth.

I’ve wasted enough of my time.

Anybody in a real relationship knows exactly what I mean.

Grow up, stop feeding them scallywags off paper plates and maybe one day you will too.
 

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My man's invited the broad into his home how is that not hospitable. That's like if a ethopian nikka invited a thot to his crib and she got mad because homie made finger dishes or if a japanese nikka invited a broad to his crib and she mad they eating on the floor with chopsticks. like hoe you knew what it was from the jump. How you gonna come in my partner crib and act funny you knew what the shyt was from the jump.

And men are hospitable it's just most hoes want you to go the extra mile and they aren't worth it 9/10 times.

See, from a males perspective, this is perfectly sound behavior, so I'm not expecting us to agree. My point is that women are taught, more than men are, to pay attention to the details.

For instance, I mail people holiday cards. Most of my friends are females, but if they are married I always put the husband's name first as courtesy. I buy decent quality cards, so they don't bend after opening, and just little stuff like that.

If I invited a man over to cook for me, I would have set a formal table, including a center piece with fresh flowers and probably some corny dinner candles. :manny:
 

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lmao What do they give beisdes p*ssy? Men give more than women that's not even debatable espically in western societies.
Most men don't have much to offer besides dikk, but that's another topic. We can agree to disagree here. I was speaking specifically about how men "entertain" company vs how woman do it. We often times concentrate on the details.
 

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Breh, this the end of our little back and forth.

I’ve wasted enough of my time.

Anybody in a real relationship knows exactly what I mean.

Grow up, stop feeding them scallywags off paper plates and maybe one day you will too.

:umad:stop taking your wife to the corner store for a steak & cheese and calling it a date. Take your wife out to a place that you don’t have to order from a half lit menu board, she deserves better.
 
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