Just got out a 4 year relationship at 28

[peppe]

bruh is beyong bad out here.

I'm at the point where i don't even do any effort anymore. The peace i got now with myself is next level I can't deal withthe talking stage anymore and all the BS that comes later.

Only thing that i'll look for when i'm done working on myself is a freak that wants to smash 1/2 a week and i'm good

 

[Fanservice]

Baby daddies who trick will tell you the “dating scene” is fine. But in reality they aren’t actually dating/courting women in hopes of a long-term relationship.

If you’re looking for your Queen To Be, then you’re gonna have a rougher time going forward. Most of the single women your age are going to be more jaded and less engaged, worn out from work, kids and family drama.

Just do yourself a favor and try to avoid single moms. They don’t respect anyone’s time and will rob you of your youth.

 

[Scaaar]

Dating market like the job market






Go get you a 18-21 year old and enjoy yourself in the meantime though

Do not do this breh. We gotta stop giving out this goofy advice. If you have no serious intentions with those women leave them alone and focus on yourself. Date women in your age bracket that are okay and consent to casual relationships. These same brehs giving you this bad advice are also the same ones whining about the women in their 30s having multiple kids outta wedlock and trying to date seriously in their 30s. Y'all dip in that water contaminate it then complain on the backend.

 

[Scaaar]

You're one of the bruhs on here that I've seen champion commitment .

I feel you, dawg; it's kinda rough out here; before I found my girl, it seemed like finding a woman was hard because either they had kids (which I'm not against if she only has one) or had a thing for chasing after other women's baby daddies aka men who are already taken, so being a single and childless man doesn't seem like a pro anymore.

Back in the days of our fathers, uncles, and grandfathers, a man with no kids used to get women jumping, but nowadays, it's like they want dudes with kids/baby mamas.

I'm 29 so I can relate to the dating scene for guys our age. In regards to the bolded, have any of y'all other bruhs gone through these issues? Or maybe it's just in my city.

I have one daughter and I have her pretty consistently. One of the weirdest things is that I pulled some women because they see me with her all the time and love that I'm a good dad to her. The issue is that they got frustrated when I couldn't go out sometimes because I had my daughter. So they loved that I'm an active father until realized that I really am an "active" father

 

[Scaaar]

Unless youre a Coli breh irl, Coli Brehs are the worst people to ask "how's the dating scene?"

- Most of the these boys ain't fuking like that
- Most of them dont know how to pick a woman that isn't going to finesse
- Most of them dont qualify for the "good women"
- Half of em bitter/unhealed from a dating disappointment
- Notice this place is always posting the lastest male self help influencer (AMS, KS, etc.). There's a reason they gravitate to these online unverified guys for help instead of an actual vetted real world mentor
- Most of them dont really like women they just like fuking, so they dont know how to communicate properly


I got out of a 2 year relationship in Jan and I'm in my late 30s. Had the same concern you do until I started socializing again.

The dating pool is fine.

Its plenty of 6 fig, feminine, in shape, pretty bw out here. Aint had a problem dating high quality women at all. Seen some BS but if youre having the right conversations most of the BS won't make it to a first date.

Of course it takes more than just a phat ass and a pretty smile to get a date from me but every guys doesn't have a strong standard they adhere to in dating, that famine mindset is a negative feedback loop. They take what they can get, but what they can get is shxt and they never get out of that cycle by self improving.

Preaching breh!! Folks in here giving him silly advice and talking about how bad it is are all just the bitter ones. They're trying to taint his viewpoint on the market because they're prospects are shytty. The good women are out here! But a lot of brehs chase the low hanging fruit and group everyone together because they got bad results.

 

[Silkk]

Do not do this breh. We gotta stop giving out this goofy advice. If you have no serious intentions with those women leave them alone and focus on yourself. Date women in your age bracket that are okay and consent to casual relationships. These same brehs giving you this bad advice are also the same ones whining about the women in their 30s having multiple kids outta wedlock and trying to date seriously in their 30s. Y'all dip in that water contaminate it then complain on the backend.

The fucck are you yapping about

 

[DaddyFresh]

Wait, that doesn't make sense because the whole purpose of dating is to find a wife.

You might as well tell OP to go fúck himself

Not for everybody. Some people date with zero care for marriage

 

[Scaaar]

The fucck are you yapping about

Y'all telling a 28 yr old to go after a 18 yr old... And think it's good advice. Y'all are some goofy predators. Date women in your age bracket

 

[Silkk]

Y'all telling a 28 yr old to go after a 18 yr old... And think it's good advice. Y'all are some goofy predators. Date women in your age bracket

Only men that advise other men to “date your age” are washed up dudes who can’t pull the younger badder women

He’s 28 not 38

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Y'all telling a 28 yr old to go after a 18 yr old... And think it's good advice. Y'all are some goofy predators. Date women in your age bracket

He didn't say date an 18 yr old. He said just have a good time.

 

[Scaaar]

He didn't say date an 18 yr old. He said just have a good time.

Why he can't have a good time with the women his age though? They're out there. But having a good time with the young chicks creates the very women these dudes on here constantly complaining about. Let her have a good time with someone on the same mental and financial level as her.

 

[Scaaar]

Only men that advise other men to “date your age” are washed up dudes who can’t pull the younger badder women

He’s 28 not 38

No problem pulling them but why would I date someone that I have nothing in common with besides sex? We're not in the same tax bracket and she can't live and enjoy life like I do. That's how y'all end up getting treated like the tricks y'all are then crying because she's only around because of your funds lol

 

[cyndaquil]

Y'all telling a 28 yr old to go after a 18 yr old... And think it's good advice. Y'all are some goofy predators. Date women in your age bracket

I'm pretty sure it was hyperbole. He doesn't mean specifically just 18 year olds He just meant go after younger women while he can and they are still genuinely attracted to him rather than wasting time with 30+ year old women. Which I lowkey agree with. This doesnt mean take advantage of someone but if it is a mutual attraction then why not?

 

[Silkk]

No problem pulling them but why would I date someone that I have nothing in common with besides sex? We're not in the same tax bracket and she can't live and enjoy life like I do. That's how y'all end up getting treated like the tricks y'all are then crying because she's only around because of your funds lol

You sound like a boring lame mf if you can’t find things in common/teach a younger woman besides sex.


Just stay on the washed up side of the dating market where you belong.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Why he can't have a good time with the women his age though? They're out there. But having a good time with the young chicks creates the very women these dudes on here constantly complaining about. Let her have a good time with someone on the same mental and financial level as her.

I mean it's whatever, he can go 18 - 32 Obviously the younger ages have more free time and least likely to have kids. I dun ran into so many single mothers in their mid 20s it's crazy.