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[The Guru]

Real posting
Just saw a good woman i let slip away is getting married. Don't let the good ones get away without an earnest effort.

 

[Koba St]

Yep I'm settled now and that shyt is goat. I can now concentrate on my career one hunnid without worrying about this chick or that or when I'm gonna get laid. All that dating, texting, not texting/calling shyt is over and I don't miss it one bit

 

[CinnaSlim]

Men are sentimental that way.

Men want love.
Women love the idea of being in love.

In my experience, the guys have been the one who "fall in love" first.
But it's not real love. They meet a nice girl then start acting like all their dreams have been answered and that she's gonna make their lives better.

Like they fall in love with the idea of this manic pixie dream girl and how she's gonna make them happy. That's not love. That's infatuation.

They fall in love with the idea of love. Not the person, then they act surprised when the chick isn't happy or turns out to be crazy because they never really gotten to really know her. They were just satisfied with the superficial.

But then again this is mostly based on younger dudes. I think some dudes grow out of this mindset as they get older.

 

[MillionMills]

Yep I'm settled now and that shyt is goat. I can now concentrate on my career one hunnid without worrying about this chick or that or when I'm gonna get laid. All that dating, texting, not texting/calling shyt is over and I don't miss it one bit

 

[iBrowse]

Are you suggesting that women don't want love too or do they just love the idea and don't actually want it?

I believe he is suggesting the latter

 

[Koba St]

In my experience, the guys have been the one who "fall in love" first.
But it's not real love. They meet a nice girl then start acting like all their dreams have been answered and that she's gonna make their lives better.

Like they fall in love with the idea of this manic pixie dream girl and how she's gonna make them happy. That's not love. That's infatuation.

They fall in love with the idea of love. Not the person, then they act surprised when the chick isn't happy or turns out to be crazy because they never really gotten to really know her. They were just satisfied with the superficial.

But then again this is mostly based on younger dudes. I think some dudes grow out of this mindset as they get older.

Well said. Repped

 

[Spatial Paradox]

Men are sentimental that way.

Men want love.
Women love the idea of being in love.

In my experience, the guys have been the one who "fall in love" first.
But it's not real love. They meet a nice girl then start acting like all their dreams have been answered and that she's gonna make their lives better.

Like they fall in love with the idea of this manic pixie dream girl and how she's gonna make them happy. That's not love. That's infatuation.

They fall in love with the idea of love. Not the person, then they act surprised when the chick isn't happy or turns out to be crazy because they never really gotten to really know her. They were just satisfied with the superficial.

But then again this is mostly based on younger dudes. I think some dudes grow out of this mindset as they get older.

These both sound like over-generalizations to me

 

[Matt504]

These both sound like oversimplifications to me

Dissertations are usually posted in Higher Learning

 

[Raava]

In my experience, the guys have been the one who "fall in love" first.
But it's not real love. They meet a nice girl then start acting like all their dreams have been answered and that she's gonna make their lives better.

Like they fall in love with the idea of this manic pixie dream girl and how she's gonna make them happy. That's not love. That's infatuation.

They fall in love with the idea of love. Not the person, then they act surprised when the chick isn't happy or turns out to be crazy because they never really gotten to really know her. They were just satisfied with the superficial.

But then again this is mostly based on younger dudes. I think some dudes grow out of this mindset as they get older.

Not just that but that saying I love you makes everything ok, or that just love itself alone is supposed to make something long term work.

 

[Strawberry]

@realdarkphoenix is one of the good ones.

He's a piece of shyt a$$hole that I keep on ignore for a reason

 

[The Mad Titan]

@realdarkphoenix is one of the good ones.

Thanks cinna as are you!

 

[The Mad Titan]

He's a piece of shyt a$$hole that I keep on ignore for a reason

This is all news to me.

 

[Spatial Paradox]

Dissertations are usually posted in Higher Learning

No one's asking for a dissertation. But I set myself up for a pedant to respond by using "oversimplification", so let me try again

Both posts look like over-generalizations

There? Is that better for you breh?

 

[Remote]

What is love?

What do men think love is?

What do you think most women think love is?

Baby don't hurt me?

 

[MoonGoddess]

Real talk.