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[CinnaSlim]

No one's asking for a dissertation. But I set myself up for a pedant to respond by using "oversimplification", so let me try again




There? Is that better for you breh?

Hence why the first three words in my post were "in my experience" and added that I've mainly interacted with younger men.

But apparently some things can't be avoided on the coli.

 

[MillionMills]

Don't get me wrong. Smashing hoes is fun. There's no better feeling than getting new new for the first time. It's another belt for the record. But at the end of the day, it gets boring. I have a friend in long term relationship and he wants to go party and live it up, basically chase hoes. I'm like why? It's only fun when you smash. What isn't fun is the missed calls, ignored texts, played games, childish behavior, women projecting their issues onto you, etc. Most women can't handle prolonged sex without commitment so then the bitterness comes. It's all a cycle.

I'd love to get a few more nuts off with random women and then hopefully get that 1 I can chill and build with. I wanna build with someone early.

 

[Action Mike]

When you get out of that frivolous stage, its something you grow into...or not which is cool

 

[Raava]

Baby don't hurt me?

 

[PhonZhi]

It's not so much about love, it's about how tiring the game is. That's why men who get a lot of women are usually applauded for it, it can take so much effort to get with an attractive girl even if you have your shyt together and she brings nothing to the table other than her puss. Sometimes I think about getting a gf just for the steady, the game takes a lot out of you sometimes.

This. This. This.

 

[Spatial Paradox]

Hence why the first three words in my post were "in my experience" and added that I've mainly interacted with younger men.

But apparently some things can't be avoided on the coli.

And that's why I said they're both overgeneralizations. I'm not disputing what you said, but your experiences won't necessarily apply to others

 

[The Mad Titan]

In my experience, the guys have been the one who "fall in love" first.
But it's not real love. They meet a nice girl then start acting like all their dreams have been answered and that she's gonna make their lives better.

Like they fall in love with the idea of this manic pixie dream girl and how she's gonna make them happy. That's not love. That's infatuation.

They fall in love with the idea of love. Not the person, then they act surprised when the chick isn't happy or turns out to be crazy because they never really gotten to really know her. They were just satisfied with the superficial.

But then again this is mostly based on younger dudes. I think some dudes grow out of this mindset as they get older.

I agree, dude really "fall in love" with an idea and they sell women dreams. The prettier you are the crazier the dreams and lies are. In turn ladies start to fall in love when the guy and his potential and his flaws...At the same time the dude's start to wake up from being drunk in infatuation.


Thats the beginning and the end of most relationships, people don't know how to take there time and get to know a person anymore. They dont even want too.... They want to meet the perfect person and then fall in love right away. Instead of getting to know someone they like and determine if they can deal with there flaws or lifestyle.

I do think us dudes will fall for a woman quicker than a women will fall for us, but I think that's because usually as men we dont have to worry about a woman telling us what we want to hear just to sleep with us or put us on a roster.

 

[CinnaSlim]

And that's why I said they're both overgeneralizations. I'm not disputing what you said, but your experiences won't necessarily apply to others

I'm not talking about others. That's the point of putting In my experience.

I'm talking about the guys I know.

 

[Spatial Paradox]

I'm not talking about others. That's the point of putting In my experience.

I'm talking about the guys I know.

I know that, but you quoted @Raul and y'all were basically saying the same thing, just with the genders flipped, so I quoted both of you

I'm gonna just leave this alone now before it turns into a meta-argument

 

[tater]

Men are sentimental that way.

Men want love.
Women love the idea of being in love.

Damn. Can we ever not be the butt of some bullshyt with you? You always have to turn something into an us v.s. them shyt. God, you're probably a miserable a$$hole.

ETA: NVM man. After reading the majority of the following posts, I realized most of these people are miserable. This is thecoli.com...

But you would all stand to gain from not being so negative all the time.

 

[TheArchitect]

Real, indeed. I've never had any luck with women. I'm just walking around like "Not once? Just once? Really????"

 

[Remote]

Damn. Can we ever not be the butt of some bullshyt with you? You always have to turn something into an us v.s. them shyt. God, you're probably a miserable a$$hole.

Twas a tongue-in-cheek comment with a degree of truth.
I'm quite happy in my life and relationship.

 

[tater]

Twas a tongue-in-cheek comment with a degree of truth.
I'm quite happy in my life and relationship.

I edited my post. Most of these people are miserable and complain about everything.

 

[Remote]

I edited my post. Most of these people are miserable and complain about everything.

Fair enough.

Aint nobody negative all the time.
Just aint one of these "omg! I love xyz" phony clowns all the time.

Also most of my posts have a trolling tone to them.
Just the way it is.