Keep It Real: Have any of you ever practiced COLORISM?

[Micky Mikey]

This question is for the dudes and the ladies.

Have you ever discriminated against the opposite sex because wthey were too dark or light?

I can't recall one moment in my life where I've passed a women up because of her complexion. Personally I'm a dark skin breh and have gotten play from all types of women. However the ones that did pass me up due to my complexion were usually other dark skin women or brown skin women. And they were very explicit about it.

From what I've seen a lot black men are colorstruck. I use to deny that was the case but its true. I've spoken to a lot of ds women and they all have had experiences where black men have derogatory comments about their complexion. Even more concerning is the amount of black male celebrities who've publicly humiliated ds women for no reason. Its sickening to me and can kind of understand why so many ds women in particular are swirlers. We have to do better. I can't think of a more ignorant reason not to date someone.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

No

 

[2 one 3]

What the fuuck


No…

 

[Xcenai]

no nikka

I've been with extremely dark girls, and extremely light skin girls to the point they look white

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

Never in my life. I have dated light skin AA to very dark skin Haitian/West African. I never cared for a woman's skin complexion. I practice tittyism lol. Most girls I date have nice big tiddies and no Lizzos either.That's what I am guilty of.

 

[Max Power]

From what I've seen a lot black men are colorstruck. I use to deny that was the case but its true. I've spoken to a lot of ds women and they all have had experiences where black men have derogatory comments about their complexion. Even more concerning is the amount of black male celebrities who've publicly humiliated ds women for no reason. Its sickening to me and can kind of understand why so many ds women in particular are swirlers. We have to do better. I can't think of a more ignorant reason not to date someone

Lmao @ this pathetic bait.

Nobody take this thread seriously please.

(watch bunch of illiterate NPCs take it seriously and write paragraphs)

 

[Micky Mikey]

Never in my life. I have dated light skin AA to very dark skin Haitian/West African. I never cared for a woman's skin complexion. I practice tittyism lol. Most girls I date have nice big tiddies and no Lizzos either.That's what I am guilty of.

Lol I hear you. I practice phatassism . I cannot. Will not date a women with a flat ass.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

No and it’s the most asinine claim to place on Black Men.

 

[Micky Mikey]

Lmao @ this pathetic bait.

Nobody take this thread seriously please.

(watch bunch of illiterate NPCs take it seriously and write paragraphs)

Lol I knew I would get some flack for this. Whenever I heard dark skin women's experience with colorism I would pretend not to hear it either. But its real.
However, as I've stated in the og post a lot black women practice colorism too.

 

[Matt504]

You'd be hard-pressed to find any brothers who will come in here and openly admit to this just like you would struggle to find dark skin women who DON'T have a story where they've been mistreated because of the color of their skin.

 

[Enjoyin Myself]

Dark skin blk people need to fix their self esteem issues. Their self hate is one of the main things hindering blk peoples collective progress.



To the question, yes, I have engaged in colorism alot. The first thing I can remember my daddy telling me about girls was, when u grow up get u a chocolate girl with a big ass.

That shyt must've programmed my 4 or whatever old mind bcuz I've always had a preference for ds black girls with ass, shyt, I even love the slim lil booty ones. N nobody ever considered me a colorist or a self hater.

 

[3rdWorld]

Nah, it doesnt work and only cripples your choices to quality women..plenty of lights are ugly. So?

 

[Dre God]

If G-d made anything better than a lightskin woman with good skin, curly hair, and a fat ass he kept that shyt for himself

 

[get these nets]

@Micky Mikey
Colorism is about a LOT more than who you decide to date, pair up with, marry and create families with.
Ascribing certain traits, abilities, or tendencies to other Black people based on skin tone/features is colorism.

 

[CHICAGO]

You'd be hard-pressed to find any brothers who will come in here and openly admit to this just like you would struggle to find dark skin women who DON'T have a story where they've been mistreated because of the color of their skin.

SO JUST BECAUSE THERE ARE SOME
CLOWN nikkaS WHO PRACTICE COLORISM YOURE GONNA PUT
THAT ON THE MAJORITY OF BLACK MEN?

USING THIS LOGIC YOUVE DEFINITELY
SHAT ON DARK GIRLS AND PROJECTING
YOUR shyt ON TO EVERYONE ELSE.


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