Keke Palmer speaks the hard truth about living as a black woman

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So... U tellin me I have to pay for
-rent
-utilities
-my personal bills
While she gets to pocket all her shyt. Meanwhile I still gotta:
-take her out and pay for dates
-buy her gifts
-and save a lil extra in the rainy day funds in case she has an emergency (cuz we looking out for 2 @ this point)

Breh....wtf type of 1950s shyt is that? Like, @ that point if im bushin her first time I get some attitude

breh it is not that deep as the majority of working couples have to split funds when contributing towards paying living expenses.Women who will harp on about not paying rent have tons of college debt and are struggling out here and hence in why they think they can find and marry a man who is earning a very comfortable salary with benefits who can pay off the debts.
One minute they will say oh I want a man that earns x amount but when that man has to work 11 hours a day and travel a lot its a problem.
 

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When did I say black women didn't have it hard? What I said was they are heard but to an extent (being THEY ARE BLACK).

Sorry to break it to Keke but white and otherwise people don't care about black people male or female. Period.
Sandra Bland wasn't heard before she lost her life.

There was even recently a black woman attacked for being in a white area because police was called on her.

There was also a video showing a police drag a old lady on the highway while beating her and no one came to help her.

You dont see any other races of women being attacked that frequently.
 

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I'm not married have no kids and we like it 50 50 if one fall off we always picked each other up. Its just easier splitting dosent cause any arguments.
I noticed that only broke brehs worry about keeping it 50/50 because they dont want to be used. Brehs with actually money, don't have a problem paying all the bills because they aren't broke.
 

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Brehs, I think we need to start protecting our women more. Stop demanding our women to be strong for us. We need to be strong for them. Its feminine to expect women to take up the slack like a bytch would.

If you live in your mom's home you failed. If you live with your gf/wife and you split the bills you failed. If you watched a black woman get assaulted and you do nothing, you are a bytch.

o.p this is 2018 not 1918 when women did not work... women work now, gtfoh with that bull shyt.
 

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Unfortunately a lot of times, staying home, causes them to be lazy and not have any motivation to create generational wealth. Coming up with excuses why they can't get a job or move out.
You had a perfect thread to really have a open discussion and honestly no offense spoke just like she did. You got your point across terribly.

Generational wealth does not exist with majority 99% of young adults growing up in America. The most parents pass down is a house and a few have enough retirement to ease or help shape a better means to take the money to make more money with it. Generational wealth is business my brother, not some change or a house so you can work and solely pay property tax :mjlol:

It's the open doors to business avenues and longevity of providing for themselves.

I stayed at home until I was 21, was able to save enough to buy my first place. Like everyone else is saying renting is cancer to black wealth..


Black woman will get what she is asking for, when they realize the system they are trying to mold and redesign to fit or accept them is all bullshyt. There voices will be heard when black man have methods to combat the race soldiers tactics and they aren't part of their eco system to survive.

I really do sympathize with our woman. They are pressured and forced to believe certain ways of living, some try their best to meet those standards, go into these cac filled businesses only to realize that the reason they aren't getting where they want is due to the fact they are black. The difference we have has black man, no matter what we are doing or where we are at in our lives, we know these people have it out for us, our woman often figure this out later in life after doing exactly what cacs promised would bring them freedom
 

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Sandra Bland wasn't heard before she lost her life.

There was even recently a black woman attacked for being in a white area because police was called on her.

There was also a video showing a police drag a old lady on the highway while beating her and no one came to help her.

You dont see any other races of women being attacked that frequently.
Breh/brehette, male or female we're both getting slaughtered out here for the thing we have in common (black skin) :gucci:. We can't be divisive on something like police brutality. Why can't black men and women stand together on issues like these without one wanting to be heard over the other? Is Sandra Bland supposed to be WORTH more than Trayvon Martin?
 

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Its not simpish to be supporting your wife.
Well by the time you're married it's half hers anyways. We're not talking about that
I noticed that only broke brehs worry about keeping it 50/50 because they dont want to be used. Brehs with actually money, don't have a problem paying all the bills because they aren't broke.
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FOH with all that. If I'm expected to finance EVERYTHING then I'm not lifting a finger. No shopping, cooking, cleaning, laundry, no nothing. My girl does all that and pays her half of everything, but that's just how she was raised. You must have spent too much time listening to your moms bytch about "aint shyt men" growing up. This 2018-
 

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Breh/brehette, male or female we're both getting slaughtered out here for the thing we have in common (black skin) :gucci:. We can't be divisive on something like police brutality. Why can't black men and women stand together on issues like these without one wanting to be heard over the other? Is Sandra Bland supposed to be WORTH more than Trayvon Martin?
Other races put their women and children before themselves, maybe that is why blacks are at the bottom. We have no sense of code or taking care of our own. We fight against each other and dont help each other and dont protect our women and children. A shame.
 

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Well by the time you're married it's half hers anyways. We're not talking about that

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FOH with all that. If I'm expected to finance EVERYTHING then I'm not lifting a finger. No shopping, cooking, cleaning, laundry, no nothing. My girl does all that and pays her half of everything, but that's just how she was raised. You must have spent too much time listening to your moms bytch about "aint shyt men" growing up. This 2018-

Are you living paycheck to paycheck? If not, there is no excuse to be treating your woman like a roommate while expecting her to cook, clean, laundry your shyt stains, and shop for your needs. She should look for someone who can provide for her better.
 

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breh it is not that deep as the majority of working couples have to split funds when contributing towards paying living expenses.Women who will harp on about not paying rent have tons of college debt and are struggling out here and hence in why they think they can find and marry a man who is earning a very comfortable salary with benefits who can pay off the debts.
One minute they will say oh I want a man that earns x amount but when that man has to work 11 hours a day and travel a lot its a problem.
I understand that. And tbh, I ain't neva heard of no shyt like that till the Coli. But its thinking like that, that create simping. Now if you been handling ya shyt in your place and your gf decides to move in, and you tell her not to pay any bills, coo. But it shouldnt be an L if you feel as if she should contribute
 
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