Kevin was kinda tough on that first girl...she just doesnt have confidence
But was he
If that was a man would the reaction still be the same
Sometimes you need the smoke
Someone that is unfiltered and doesn’t pull punches to really get you going in life
A lot of women out here have been coddled and can’t have a conversation to save their lives
I hate public speaking
Hell I hate talking to people period
But Ma Dukes and Unc instilled something in me til this day
Never walk with your head down
Always look people in the face, especially white folks
Closed mouths don’t get fed
I’ve instilled this in my daughter ever since she could talk
I was having full fledge, thought out conversations with her by the age of 6
So in my eyes he wasn’t hard on her at all
She’s never been challenged and that shy shyt is only going to get you so far
The world is harsh and unforgiving
The world don’t give a fukk about your feelings
The world doesn’t give you passes
You have to keep fighting to get what you want
But we have created an environment of entitlement
In both men and women and are too scared to critique
Which leads to these over inflated egos
Talking all types of reckless and looking down on folks that kept a lot of these funky ass nikkas and bytches out of graves
Maybe because I’m on the cusp of 40 and truly in don’t give a fukk mode
But life in the 80s-90s-early 2000 was tough and I made it
The world we live in now is soft as baby shyt
And I just don’t have the tolerance to coddle grown ass people anymore
I’ve always had a problem with the saying
Life is too short
Nah
Life is long as fukk, filled with disappointments and curve balls
If you can’t articulate your POV, life experiences into a 30 second sound clip
Then you damn sure not going to make it as a mother, high level executive, boss bytch
Time for the gloves to come off and a lot these females need that punch in the mouth
Figuratively not literally