What do you think is stopping that from happening?
interesting. I skimmed through both videos, and if you look at the videos objectively, basically it’s showing that when you compare bw to nonbw in the areas that matter for women (weight, attitude, femininity and being more cooperative with men) and bm to nonbm in the areas the matter for men (having resources, power, leading their households, providing a community where women are incentivized to be feminine) both bw/bm fall short. And maybe that’s the issue—in other communities both the men and women are doing their part(or taught to anyway), in our community that’s not happening but both blame each other for it.
what’s interesting is that both bm and bw have the lowest marriage rates compared to their nonbm/nonbw counterparts too.
for as much as bw talk shyt about bm, they aren’t even dating/marrying nonbm in high numbers, in fact bw have one of the lowest IR rates(second only to white women) so… and bm have been telling bw about how they’ll get white women/Latina women/Asian women, and they do, they even have one of the highest IR rates for men, but those IR marriages also have the highest divorce rates so it isn’t like they’re having great outcomes when they marry out.
Seems like neither bw/bm are in a good position to be using nonblack people to point out what’s wrong with the other group. It’s also c00n shyt but I guess…