So many black people are single for the same reasons most people are single. A lot of people are scarred to make a move for various reasons, have too high standards, and or they just don't look good enough. This question you asked doesn't even make sense to be honest. Black people being single doesn't equate to blacks in any true numbers thinking non blacks make better partners. Reality or stats don't co sign your logic on this claim. I don't know why you keep mentioning movies and articles becasue they don't mean that that's how black people move as a whole.
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The bolded was all cap tho
I didn’t understand that movie as a youngin
But I rewatched that bullshyt during the pandemic
And boy oh boy
They have been painting the straight black man as the boogeyman for years and black women are always the face of domestic violence, getting cheated on, or purely being stepping stools for black men who ride off in the sunset with a white bih
You truly want to know why so many black people are single
Because the media and our own dysfunctional ass childhoods led us to this fukkery
Nobody wants to take account of their lives
Women always saying somebody screwed them over
Men being coddled by their mothers and in turn
Never fully realize their potential and become their own people
Never fully take chances because we have been fed fear based bullshyt from every corner of the world
Not only that
We never talk about the trauma a lot of men faced coming from single parent homes
Seeing your moms bring random nikkas over every other month
Putting their child through the whole hope for a father figure to watch her either
Be abused
Pumped and dumped
Children being touched by these men
Women mad at a kid because he looks like his dad
It’s so much trauma in black families
So now you grow up and try to navigate a world that already hates your black ass
Try to date women the way your mom taught you
Only to get your heart and ass handed to you
So all that anger you felt as a child manifests in something else after that relationship
Now you angry-angry and start the same hamster wheel your parents went through and don’t even know it
That takes years of therapy to come to grips with
But the damaged has already been done
That same scenario goes for women
So now you got two people who are literal crash test dummies trying to make a relationship work
But never had the tools or knowledge
But they damn sure have the stories , fear and trauma
Then they bring a child into the world and the cycle continues
This is not only regulated to black people
My Asian homies have gone through some terrible shyt because even though their parents were married
They have issues of communication and repressing shyt because that’s how their parents dealt with arguments
Race/Ethnicity has nothing to do with it
Yeah nonblacks may have the numbers in marriage
Hell may even have birth rates on lock
But they are dealing with the same trauma lessons as black people
In Latino, Spanish, Hispanic, whatever the fukk they call themselves now
I can tell you anecdotal stories of bytches I fukked
Where they whole family had incest type shyt
Eses openly cheating and the moms was just
Uncles touching nieces
All kinds of wicked shyt
I say all that to say
Every marriage/relationship ain’t fruitful and damn sure ain’t what it seems
Even those so called successful relationships of yesteryear were fukkery filled
But people want to live in their heads instead of facing the truth
Working/healing and becoming better versions
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Biggest misconception is that black men dont want to get married. Its quite the opposite.
"Can I be friends with all of my exes"
"what is the purpose of you doing that" - Her
"I thought you said men and women can be friends"
shyt aint fun when shyt isn't fitting their movie script on how things should be and go
The bolded was all cap tho
I didn’t understand that movie as a youngin
But I rewatched that bullshyt during the pandemic
And boy oh boy
They have been painting the straight black man as the boogeyman for years and black women are always the face of domestic violence, getting cheated on, or purely being stepping stools for black men who ride off in the sunset with a white bih
You truly want to know why so many black people are single
Because the media and our own dysfunctional ass childhoods led us to this fukkery
Nobody wants to take account of their lives
Women always saying somebody screwed them over
Men being coddled by their mothers and in turn
Never fully realize their potential and become their own people
Never fully take chances because we have been fed fear based bullshyt from every corner of the world
Not only that
We never talk about the trauma a lot of men faced coming from single parent homes
Seeing your moms bring random nikkas over every other month
Putting their child through the whole hope for a father figure to watch her either
Be abused
Pumped and dumped
Children being touched by these men
Women mad at a kid because he looks like his dad
It’s so much trauma in black families
So now you grow up and try to navigate a world that already hates your black ass
Try to date women the way your mom taught you
Only to get your heart and ass handed to you
So all that anger you felt as a child manifests in something else after that relationship
Now you angry-angry and start the same hamster wheel your parents went through and don’t even know it
That takes years of therapy to come to grips with
But the damaged has already been done
That same scenario goes for women
So now you got two people who are literal crash test dummies trying to make a relationship work
But never had the tools or knowledge
But they damn sure have the stories , fear and trauma
Then they bring a child into the world and the cycle continues
This is not only regulated to black people
My Asian homies have gone through some terrible shyt because even though their parents were married
They have issues of communication and repressing shyt because that’s how their parents dealt with arguments
Race/Ethnicity has nothing to do with it
Yeah nonblacks may have the numbers in marriage
Hell may even have birth rates on lock
But they are dealing with the same trauma lessons as black people
In Latino, Spanish, Hispanic, whatever the fukk they call themselves now
I can tell you anecdotal stories of bytches I fukked
Where they whole family had incest type shyt
Eses openly cheating and the moms was just
Uncles touching nieces
All kinds of wicked shyt
I say all that to say
Every marriage/relationship ain’t fruitful and damn sure ain’t what it seems
Even those so called successful relationships of yesteryear were fukkery filled
But people want to live in their heads instead of facing the truth
Working/healing and becoming better versions
Facts
how many times a chick called up and been in some 3 year relationship and KS asks her why aren't you married, and she'll say how her dude wants to get married but she wasn't ready blah blah blah.
Even the single baby mamas be saying the same shyt. Why didn't you marry your child's father? I wasn't ready, we were young, blah blah blah.
shyt's like clockwork.
chick said her 'career with usps' stopped her from getting married, then Kev was like 'what you mean career with the post office? no offense, where are you know in your career there?" her - "I dont work there anymore"
HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
Yeah man that’s why there’s a need for black male media. There’s a lot of things said about us that’s just isn’t true.
You can't make this shyt up...chick said her 'career with usps' stopped her from getting married, then Kev was like 'what you mean career with the post office? no offense, where are you know in your career there?" her - "I dont work there anymore"
On another note...
Is it me or are these chicks reading from a script???
Jesus this IG live right now.This woman was dating this dude and cheated on him multiple times over a couple years and broke up with him because he cheated once.
She had a baby with dude.
Then when she broke up with dude she fukked his cousin and got pregnant by the cousin
Kevin: "You're a horrible person."
Her: "I'm working on it."
cjt11203
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This woman was dating this dude and cheated on him multiple times over a couple years and broke up with him because he cheated once.
She had a baby with dude.
Then when she broke up with dude she fukked his cousin and got pregnant by the cousin
Kevin: "You're a horrible person."
Her: "I'm working on it."
Damn I hope he puts it on youtube.
